Okay, this may be a kinda weird one, but I've gotta ask. I've been contemplating my sojourn into the world of "hobbying" as it's manifested itself over the past two years. I adore my SO. but with the onset of age, (familiarity?) though the fires still burn hot, they don't burn quite so frequently as they once did. AND, I have never, uh, "bopped my baloney." Not to a successful conclusion anyway. Maybe it's a lack of imagination, or, as I prefer to think, maybe I am more demanding of what it takes to bring on the big O; I am not so enamored of my right hand. Hence, I seek out providers who fullfill those fantasies I can't satiate on my own. So, whuddoIdo? Keep being a duplicitous little sh_t? Suck it up and admit I simply have to live without more than once every ten or so days (and yes, SO and I have discussed it at length, but we haven't reached an answer)? Try counseling?
If your SO only wants it every ten or so days and you have an otherwise healthy loving relationship perhaps counseling would be a good investment. Perhaps the new Dr. Laura book "The proper care & feeding of husbands" would be the nudge your SO needs. If you have a good relationship you should do what you can to save & strengthen it rather than divide your attention amongst providers. In the long run the hobby is a poor alternative to a healthy, loving, commited relationship.
YKSY.
At the risk of playing amateur psychologist, when looking at your recent reviews I couldn’t help but notice that you seem to have a strong attraction to unusually muscular women. So when you say your SO can’t bring you to the big O, I have to wonder if she knows what it takes or has an understanding of what turns you on. Assuming you are not a body builder yourself (for some reason I have this mental image of a guy who’s like 5’5”, is an accountant by day and then gets off wrestling with these amazon women by night… lol), it seems like your fantasy is to be with women who can dominate you. If your wife is not of a similar stature to the providers you like, then maybe some role playing would do the trick. Of course it’s possible it’s just not in her make-up to play those sorts of games, and maybe that’s where counseling would be useful.
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psycho BS and self help tips and just go get laid.
... it would be sad. I always thought the ability to successfully "polish" was a pretty universal skill. Are you sure you aren't generating this as a "problem" to provide an excuse for the hobbying?
The ladies you pick are something else. I know and have been with very fit women, but they don't develop like this. Are some of them steroid users? Is your enjoyment of very muscular woman a cover for a wish for a TV experience or an SM experience? Why don't you experiment with something new (perhaps even with your wife)?
Good luck in any case... Harry 
maybe you don't like yourself. I certainly wouldn't have any of these ``very muscular'' women do it for you - they may rip it off.
I second Harry's suggestion that you try a new type of provider. Some can be very sensual with HJ's (among other things). I'm not sure it is available but try searching providers by services provided (HJ) ?
Buff Women are hot! I had a torrid relationshpi with a lady who was a real athlete in college- recruited in 4 Sports- got me hooked on hard asses and firm bods- but then my first GF was a BBW and I like that too.
What;s wrong with liking all sorts?
Women are great! Talk to 'em, Be with 'em, Fuck 'em-- I just liked the company of women
As for the original Q? Sorry Willia- can't really help... I think you might have to take care of that yourself...
BTW- that must really make picking the buffinas hard as the grey area ones who want to pose while you polish are far more numerous than the ones who will help out...
And of course- You are still one of the Great ones for me on this board!
Thanks for the input, group. I think I may have originally expressed myself poorly; my SO can and does, uh, turn me into Napolean Blownaparte, just not often enough for my greedy self. I must agree with you Harry. "It" IS sad. I mean, I'm tired of giving myself a frigging rash!!! Does this mean I actually am unique at something??! Sh_t, what a way to be singular!! Meanwhile, I'm with Sully; a hard woman is good to find and my SO is pretty hard(BTW I'm 6'2" and SO is 5'12" Heh, heh); I guess I just like the freaky side of the envelope, so I seek BBs who are over the top...although SomeNerd's thought of hanging with a provider packing "a babys's arm holding an apple" is a little too much for me to contemplate without getting the shivers. I saw another thread discussing the "thrill" and "danger," etc. of encounters and I'm sure that's a component; I just wish I could do like Dangerfield:
"Hey Rodney! How'd you get started?"
"I was alone in my room. I got started."
Thanks again for your takes. Peace.
Slick Willie and the Pope die on the same day, and due to some administrative foul up, Clinton gets sent to Heaven and the Pope gets sent to Hell.
The Pope explains the situation to the Hell administration, they check their paperwork, and the error is acknowledged. They explain, however, that it will take about 24 hours to make the switch.
The next day, the Pope is called in and the Hell administration bids him farewell and he heads for Heaven. On the way up, he meets Bill on the way down and they stop to chat.
Pope: "Sorry about the mix up."
Clinton: "No problem."
Pope: "Well, I'm really excited about going to Heaven."
Clinton: "Why's that?"
Pope: "All my life I've wanted to meet the Virgin Mary."
Clinton: "You're a day late"
Cheers!