Instead of a hard probing tongue in my mouth I'd love a kiss and nibble on the neck and soft kisses on the lips
Instead of grabbing my breasts and pinching my nipples it would be lovely to have a few nipple grazes or light kissing
For me those subtle nuances make all of the difference And last but not least If you are a smoker brush your teeth tongue .....your whole mouth I do not want to kiss a mouth that reeks of tobacco Many of us ladies go the extra mile every meeting
I don't know how many hand and foot rubs and back rubs I have given while you are basking in the glow
We just do it because we love to
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Saw a provider in DC last week. She wore a nice blue cocktail dress (provider should always where a dress, IMO) and when it was time for it to come off, she turns and asks for me to unzip her dress down the back. The zipper went all the way down to just north of her behind. Verrrrry sexy. It was also fun helping her zip up when it was time for her to leave.
Having someone grab your ass tends to be normal in P4P, but holding your hand is GFE. Or standing close and her resting a hand on your chest before a kiss; or after a kiss resting her head on your chest and holding you tight.
These are the more intimate moments that we tend to skate past in discussions, yet they can have enormous impact.
Ladies, just for a trial next time you have an appointment: nibble his earlobe, breathe on his neck before you kiss it. See if that one little change affects him. Some guys it might not, but some may lose touch with gravity - we don't normally get touched like that.
Massage is one of those areas where touch is king. And having a woman astride me while working on the back is definitely a level above kneeling beside me. Bonus points if she straddles a leg on the way down, and I get to feel her pressing into me. Oh yeah, and the occasional nipple graze? Awesome. Best massages I've had will, while working on back, reach underneath for a slow fondle, and after the flip will incorporate a fondle while traversing the body.
Instead of a hard probing tongue in my mouth I'd love a kiss and nibble on the neck and soft kisses on the lips
Instead of grabbing my breasts and pinching my nipples it would be lovely to have a few nipple grazes or light kissing
When I am between your legs giving you an awesome BBBJ I would love for you to caress my head, speak to me , encourage me rather than just lay there with your arms behind your head
If you want to lick and suck my delicious pussy please think to shave your full day of growth off your face and neck
For me those subtle nuances make all of the difference
And last but not least
If you are a smoker brush your teeth tongue .....your whole mouth
I do not want to kiss a mouth that reeks of tobacco
Many of us ladies go the extra mile every meeting
I don't know how many hand and foot rubs and back rubs I have given while you are basking in the glow
We just do it because we love to
-- Modified on 2/15/2015 11:11:36 AM
I agree with the importance of hand holding. There is something about it that makes for a closer connection. Maybe it's because that's what a real girl friend does before more intimate touching. Even during the act itself the touching of hands adds to the experience.
One of my favorite moments was during a bout of lazy dog, the lady reached back with both hands to take my hands in hers. It was something I won't forget.
It is truly making love
It is always the little things that makes a lady stand out. Her details in her appearance is a vital component to a heart throbbing experience
Recent extended date included just that and the room was filled with all kinds of erotica that took over all my senses.
The fruit, cheese, wine, candles, music and the presence of a real woman made a memory of a lifetime!!!
with a long-time client recently... he spirited me away to a remote, beautiful home on Lake Michigan... built a roaring fire... served me rich wines and fine chocolates, after we returned from a dinner in a charming little lakeside bistro.
Every little detail was so perfect, I felt incredibly cared for and cherished. And then the sex was amazing.
Sigh
I have a close relationship with a former, retired provider.. pretty much like real girl friend boyfriend.. I'll be seeing her today.. of course, here in New England, I have to dig out her car and help her bring the trash out.. but we will also bring her 2 young brothers to the mvies and drop them off so we have some private time.. like I said.. a real GFE.
One thing I am constantly impressing on her is to slow down... take some time.. enjoy the ride.. I tell her we aren't on the clock and there are no expectations that must be accomplished.. she is learning..
taking clothes off my friends......... rather be greeted in a nice dress 