After a long time in the hobby where I started to learn about human nature in ways they never taught in school and my parents didn't have a clue about this truth became self evident, humans may be sexual creatures however thier attitudes about being sexual fall into two distinct categories.
There are those who associate sex with higher self functions so they treat it like a sacrement or a special opportunity to get back in touch with their best self. These folks will take special care with their grooming, hygeine, choice of fragrances, their deportment because they associate sex with intimacy, and they associate intimacy with higher meaning in life.
There are those who associate sex with lower self functions where they can get their freak on with things that they associate with being unclean or degrading. These make a special effort to be smelly, repulsive, and get turned on by disgust.
There are providers who service both types of customer, rarely will a provider who likes to offer her sevices to the clean type want a customer whose ideas about intimacy are based on dirt and filth.
Providers do exist who specialize in the needs of the second type of customer. They offer this customer some outlet that he could not possibly have in his socially approved day to day life.
The communication really breaks down when a provider of one type gets a customer of the other type, or the guy has one expectation based on limited previous experience, then he gets a provider who doesn't share this point of view.
It takes two to tango, works better if you're dancing to the same music.
I like a quickie in the whirlpool of an upscale Vegas suite, and I like wearing my red vinyl dom outfit with 6" heelsat the Wild Wild West casino. I like to mix it up. I think your post is right on target. I don't do yoga, but I am flexible, and aim to please. I always like to raise the bar.
Once again, why be limited to one thing or one way when you can have it all?
Pushing the aaaaaaaahhhhhhhh envelope is cool with me. The eeeeeewwwwww rhymes with ppppeeewwwww no thank yeeeeew...
Holy Sheboygan, where does a guy get off taking a dump and sharing the experience uninvitedly ? What kind of nutso passive aggressive mind bender is he on ? Jeez, sign that wack job up for a lobotomy before he strikes again ! If he contracted for scat games in advance and she's into it, Ok, go do your beautiful thing and bend your johnson into whatever shape you want. To impose weirdeness on somebody else without their consent is, well, crappy behavior and real bad manners as much as it turns some people on to watch other people be shocked and revolted.
The radio shock jocks tapped into that wavelength early on. There happen to be others of us that love it hot crazy and squeaky clean. Deep fisting, greasy greek with a big silicone plug in the other cave, wonderful stuff when you have the capital C of consent and mutual respect to back it up.
I agree, I'm all for a good toot post now and again but it's starting to invade replies in every thread the way politics was until a few weesk ago... Only a matter of time before GND will have to spin off a scat board.
-- Modified on 4/6/2004 10:49:36 PM
