You seem to have a good rapport with her, so why not just enjoy it?  Sounds to me like she might be a UTR lady, so going out to dinner/lunch is not a good idea.  I have one fave lady who comes to Tampa every so often, and we almost always go for a meal OTC when she is here.  We enjoy each other's company in addition to the playtime.  I see nothing wrong with it, despite the 30 year age difference, no one ever gives us a second glance.

Swim

envious

most of us are envious of you..you have a very special relationship with her that some of us only dream about..enjoy your time together..she obviously does..

Good for you, HV!

Sharing both Pay4Play, and what sounds like a great friendship, heightens the Pay4Play time to a more sensual feeling.

I have three great friendships that I see both for Pay4Play and for casual meals or drinks.
Each works for varying reasons, but I think maybe it is due to these primary items:

- Time spent on freindship get togethers do not exceed time spent in Pay4Play. We stay focused on "how we met".
-  For me, a small few have become my best female friendships ever. We each understand a secret about each other (the hobbying we all love) that is often a secret many of us don't volunteer to other friendships, co-workers, neighbors, family, etc.
- We don't necessarily talk about the biz on our cocktail hour or meal time or running an errand together time, but no one understands the true me better than a provider.
- I don't like to be the initiator of Texts or Phone Calls or Emails outside of "the biz", as I know full well most providers are inundated with business mail and their time is precious. But, if a communication comes in from them to me, I'll gladly be there for them if there is some information they need to share with a hobby friend.

If you each welcome a bit of friendship to supplement the Pay4Play time, you will never want to be apart from each other for too long.

I have a number of clients I cook for.  We play, eat, and play...or just play, and eat, or just eat, and then play!  LOL!  No matter how we decide to do it, it's always a lot of fun!  I also have a couple of friends who when they come to see me, I cut their hair.  Going to the hair salon is their excuse to get away.  So I trim them up before or after our playtime.  It works out very well!  

We all do things differently.  The main thing is to enjoy yourself.  If what you're doing works for you and your favorite lady, that's all that matters.  

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I have recently brought an Italian meal with wine and fruit he loved it !
And he reviewed about it too




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I have about the same set up. I have found a great provider in Houston and we get together for weekends. The lady is wonderful and fantastic to be with. We enjoy going to dress up festivals and spend the weekends together.