get along best when they are both naked and intent on sexual gratification/satisfaction. That was true during my 20 years of a not unhappy marriage in which the sex was better than most, it seems.
But once I became single again, I wanted sex but wasn't interested in dating women my own age. So I took my chances with an escort at least half my age. Got very lucky on my first encounter -- a 22 year old cuteheart nympho with a body out of a magazine -- and I was hooked.
Having NSA sex with young hotties on my schedule is a no-brainer for me -- I prefer young and sexxxy, variety, NSA and a sure thing to the maybes and vagaries of a dating situation. The hobby gives me all of that.
Life has always been good but it's never been better b/c hobbying is by far the best option for me.
I've been hobbying for 40 years, sometimes a couple of times a month, and sometimes a couple of times a year. Sometimes, I wonder "why"? What is it that leads me to invest my time and money for intimacy with a total stranger? There must be reasons, because I know I will return to participating, and I am comfortable with this knowledge.
So, here are my top three reasons for seeing providers:
1. BBBJ. Not something I get at home; this is something my wife is uncomfortable with, and thats fine. Funny thing, I hardly every cum from a blow job. In fact, its pretty rare, and something I don't really look forward to.
2. I like tall women with blue or green eyes. Again, not available at home. I'm not tall (5'8") and I love it when a tall girl is on top. Long legs really turn me on. My first girlfriend in college was 6'1".
3. No baggage, I get that at work. Most providers talk to me about their situations, and I find most providers have the same problems as everyone else. Nice thing about being with a provider, I don't need to talk about their stuff the next day. I've never done an over nighter, so I can't speak from that level of experience.
4. (I know I said three) Nice tits. Store bought, natural, high and hard, flappy and soft. Who cares!. I've only been with a couple of providers that weren't a C or higher. I also like pencil size nipples. I guess I wasn't breast fed, so I'm looking to narrow a gap,
That's it.
What are you thoughts
marry a woman who wouldn't swallow your load once in awhile? Maybe that explains why I was never compelled to cheat or hobby on my late wife. I didn't start this until after she passed nine years ago.
when I was in the fourth grade.
I decided I wanted in on it as soon as I could. Then I did, and haven't looked back
And the answer is simple: I'm a shallow pig who likes variety and hates commitment.
See, I told you it was simple.
It makes you honest about your own desires and needs. There is so much research out there from genetic, to anthropological, that says humans aren't made to be monogamous. It works well for some people, and that's great, but it's not for everyone, and that's not a bad thing!
being a shallow pig is what makes him a shallow pig.
and he is hardly the only shallow pig here.
1. I don't have the time or energy for a full time committed relationship...
2. Most women are not looking for casual...
3. I like to sleep alone...
While I've been in a committed (well, "committed" other than the obvious!) relationship for over a decade, I'm a big believer in the adage of variety being the spice of life. I tried a full-blown affair but it got too tricky, too many emotions on both sides of the equation and nearly getting caught on a few occasions. I figured I'd try this instead, no commitments or strong emotions and no phone calls or text messages to be worried about. Instead, I just set up a "date" whenever I feel the urge and move on with my day.
get along best when they are both naked and intent on sexual gratification/satisfaction. That was true during my 20 years of a not unhappy marriage in which the sex was better than most, it seems.
But once I became single again, I wanted sex but wasn't interested in dating women my own age. So I took my chances with an escort at least half my age. Got very lucky on my first encounter -- a 22 year old cuteheart nympho with a body out of a magazine -- and I was hooked.
Having NSA sex with young hotties on my schedule is a no-brainer for me -- I prefer young and sexxxy, variety, NSA and a sure thing to the maybes and vagaries of a dating situation. The hobby gives me all of that.
Life has always been good but it's never been better b/c hobbying is by far the best option for me.