As long as she bathes and shaves before I get there, and has her hair and makeup done as she would if she was going out with someone she cared about, then I think she has made a professional effort to insure I have a nice time during my fantasy GFE.
I was just perusing a provider's reviews when someone mentioned the gal was a true Pro. I get the gist of what he meant, but it's not what I'm looking for. For me, those encounters seem staged or practiced. The provider "seems" to have a routine she adheres to.
I find the greatest pleasure when an encounter it is totally spontaneous with neither of us knowing what will unfold next. Next just happens and it's amazing. And if it's a girl that you see over and over, each encounter is completely different.
Ladies? how do you feel about a guy calling you a true Pro. It certainly isn't an insult, that's for sure. Guys, your thoughts?
It is a bit of semantics, but IMHO, I feel it's different than a GFE ... and that's a topic that's been beaten to death ...lol
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... she's timely and clear in all communications, makes it easy for clients to learn about her rates, schedule, preferences, etc through online info, has accurate photos (and if touched up for any reason such as tats, states that), provides clear logistics info, is respectful of clients' time by always being on time (with timely communication if an emergency pops up), strives to make clients feel welcome, safe, and comfortable before and during dates, is impeccably clean and groomed, and has a positive, fun attitude about her work.
Note that none of this has to do with making a date feel "staged".
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Of the providers I've seen, only one did everything you described. And in my review I called her...a real professional.
While I feel that my dates are natural and very much GFE, I do also consider myself very professional. I communicate in an informative, honest and timely manner, I arrive on time, and always make sure that I schedule in a way that I can show up refreshed and with my full attention on my date. That doesn't keep me from being in the moment, and allowing things to progress in a natural way.
Heck, I don't even take dates where there have been to many requests about specific things (and I'm not just referring to sexual acts that will cause me to stop responding). For me, if there are too many requests, I feel like there is going to be on a script, and that never feels like fun to me. I'm happy to wear a requested lingerie set, or pick up some wine to share on a date, or set up my incall in an area convenient for you, but I know my boundaries, and don't go past them, so that we both get the type of date that we deserve.
With Mt tendency to be wordy, I didn't want to include things like communication and hygiene...lol
But your comments on requests are onpoint for me. But even if an agreeable role play were requested, I'd assume the intent would be for the session to be as natural, or as "unstaged" as possible
Agree with Elina.
None of my dates are the same. Everyone has their own style and attitude towards wach client... of course it also depends on the attitude od thr gentleman.
I founf my self in the same position as you... when there's so many details and request it seems that they want to recreate a specific memory and I just prefer to go with the flow, I always said that my dates are not a competition with any other girl, and noone has to show off. I like smooth and relax time that is fun for both of us.
Heck, I don't even take dates where there have been to many requests about specific things (and I'm not just referring to sexual acts that will cause me to stop responding). For me, if there are too many requests, I feel like there is going to be on a script, and that never feels like fun to me. I'm happy to wear a requested lingerie set, or pick up some wine to share on a date, or set up my incall in an area convenient for you, but I know my boundaries, and don't go past them, so that we both get the type of date that we deserve.
To pick two extremes, one can imply that all his contact with the gal was professional, i.e., she answered his inquiries promptly, was on time, the place was clean, her attitude always on the mark, etc.
I think most everyone is on board with that.
On the other hand, it could mean that there was no real personal involvement, that she was aloof, mechanical, etc.
I think most of us would be a bit turned off by that.
Of course, there is a lot of nuance that could be found between those extremes
If she's a "real pro" she puts on a convincing performance. What else do you expect? Besides, it's just words in a review. Let's not get too literal.
but thank you for helping me make my point. I don't want an actress or a "performance" ... or am I being too literal ... lol
And you certainly can comment on my literal use of a word. This is a discussion board. But I look for spontaneity and an "in the moment" session. I'm sure you've had one of those and can tell the difference between that and a "performance".
If you haven't, save your money and enroll in JDU? Is there a course for that?
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If it's a good one, you don't know it. If it's not, you do. If you don't believe this, you are simply naive.
Sadly, I find someone as experienced (?) as you who is naive.
Or not secure enough to accept real sex from a provider. And
if you don't know it when it is happening, then maybe you just
troll and don't fuck the gals ... lol
I don't think I have all the answers, unlike you whom seems to believe he does. And I guess your date never really cums either.
Like I said, too bad. Need any help finding a "non-professional"
to fuck you and cum. I ain't paying for the plane ticket tho.
you show your delusion again. Real Pro in just blah word from the lips of the reviewer. That means that he liked her. And what you are talking about, the real connections, etc.. yeah right, that happens, but don't you think that money better not being exchanged? But relax, money is exchanged in all human interractions. Xo
There is no way that you can exactly know what is in the mind of the other.
Some of us feel that we do, and perhaps some actually may, but the proof is impossible.
Further, it is besides the point: The point is for a gal to make us feel that she is into us. Some perhaps really are,at least to some extent, some are not but are very good at making us feel that she is, and some don't bother to try. Some guys, after all, don't really care: they just want a warm* body - to each, their own.
*or cold, as the case might be
All knows he. Little know you
Think High School Madness, Part II, the courtroom scene.
Sorry, You Tube only has Part I
say never and never say always, so metaphysics aside, I "know" a gal that never acts. And I may have seen her 100 times. And you're correct, there may have been an off day when she "acted" well enough to try to make the session indistinguishable. Never/always.
Ergo my never/always mentality. Surprisingly tho Fishbro, I'd have bet that you've had a similar "relationship" or two with a gal that was totally into the session, ALL acting aside. I could guess one or two names which would be folly. But I'm betting a certain lady, as I say this with utmost respect, may have been pretty close to what I'm talking about.
And yeah, I saw When Harry Met Sally. Ivery met Sally too. And I never inferred I didn't enjoy an acted out session, but rather I prefer the other when it's available.. and hence I repeat.
The last thing I'll post on this topic is that doesn't mean I'm saying I'm a fantastic lover. NOPE. But I an saying SHE IS.
HUGSS AND KISSES Y'ALL
Some of us feel that we do, and perhaps some actually may, but the proof is impossible.
Further, it is besides the point: The point is for a gal to make us feel that she is into us. Some perhaps really are,at least to some extent, some are not but are very good at making us feel that she is, and some don't bother to try. Some guys, after all, don't really care: they just want a warm* body - to each, their own.
*or cold, as the case might be.
Sure, we all like to think we SURE that this gal gets dripping wet every time she thinks of us, but we are guys, what else can we do?
We also make the mistake of assuming that she either is or is not hot for us. The female mind is much more nuanced than that, to say nothing of variable, to be polite.
Bottom line: Don't bother to think about it. If you enjoy her, that's all that counts
But I can assure you in my case it's always a performance by an actress. I'm not good looking, and I have zero "game", I only know how to be me. So, being honest, none of these women that I've been with would want anything to do with me IRL.
So each and every session that I have is with an actress and it is a performance.
I could attempt to convince myself that once they are in my company that they would just melt and want to fuck and suck me, but I'm a realist and that is just simply not the case.
Now, the pros which you refer to are the ladies who make me feel as though I am the guy that they "melt" for, and for them I am grateful.
Reality, what a concept
A "true pro" provider in my eyes is a woman who can go from a relaxed and intimate courtesan, to porn star nasty slut and then back again.
I admire the providers I've been with that have this pro ability. Just recently, I had participated at a trade show, and then two weeks later was across the pond for two weeks and at both events I had to be "on" all day, including evenings of all week. I thought during those weeks how exhausting it must be for providers who must be "on" for pretty much all of their career, I think it's a special talent.
I have been very fortunate, that I've been with quite a few pros, but I'll also say that we create our own luck. I can read between the lines of reviews to anticipate that a woman will be the pro that I am looking for
is aligned with my desires and search criteria. I only posted this morning because I haven't been criticized in several days. Now
I feel much better about myself.
Starting to believe I was perfect for a (senior) moment. LOL
So Russ, have you ever been with a provider who wasn't acting?
I bet you hav
I can say for certain there were some that were definitely acting, and I thank them for the effort. But I can't be sure about a few, I guess they were really good actresses.
What I can say for certain is that none of the women whom I've seen in the hobby would have spent time with me if it weren't for the arrangement. People who are attractive know it, even if they try to be humble, they know it. People who are below average know it, and that's ok, if everyone was beautiful, then no one would be. For most of my life, I've had to settle, until I found this wonderful life.
You just describe me😋
I admire the providers I've been with that have this pro ability. Just recently, I had participated at a trade show, and then two weeks later was across the pond for two weeks and at both events I had to be "on" all day, including evenings of all week. I thought during those weeks how exhausting it must be for providers who must be "on" for pretty much all of their career, I think it's a special talent.
I have been very fortunate, that I've been with quite a few pros, but I'll also say that we create our own luck. I can read between the lines of reviews to anticipate that a woman will be the pro that I am looking for.
A real pro is organized and follows through with good communications, etc.
Tom Brady is a real pro, yet every game plan is different. Calling a provider a real pro has nothing to do with a scripted date.
maybe he meant she was well prepared, clean, she was a true lady in her behavior, she was on time, she made you feel wanted, etc..
now if you take it as: she was mechanical, she had her moves well calculated, she was in and out after she got the job done, she made sure the envelope was full etc... then yeah... you might be turned off by it.
some people are just predisposed to take certain words in specific context regardless of the overall tone of the review. That is why everyone says: reviews are subjective.
I used to be friends with a girl who i used to think was too mechanical and cold. She was good at what she did i also thought but i never cared for how i would feel around her. Yet she makes a killing so that only proves that theres a market for everyone. I can honestly say she was a true pro (in a good way), she just wasn't my cup of tea but obviously a bunch of people would disagree with me so im proved wrong. I tend to be more caring and personable. and im sure the people who like the more mechanical ones would be turned off by me. some people like the more gfe approach while some others like the more pse approach.
I personally wouldnt refer to myself as a true pro. I enjoy what I do plenty but by any means I dont adhere to any specific routine. But routines can be good it they are good routines and makes you be disciplined about what you do. Nothing wrong with that.
Why not just enjoy your time however it unfolds. Not all life has a script, especially here. And for those gents who believe "ALL" ladies perform, are only brainwashed in the disbelief that anything could ever be real here anyway.
Enjoy your time. Seems simple to me.
Right before she showed me...😎
Enjoy your time. Seems simple to me.
It doesn't get more real than here.
As long as she bathes and shaves before I get there, and has her hair and makeup done as she would if she was going out with someone she cared about, then I think she has made a professional effort to insure I have a nice time during my fantasy GFE.