and if a DNA test ever revealed he wasn't the dad, three lives would be ruined. She can't take two months off until she knows she pregnant? If this man is good enough to be the father of her child, he should be man enough to take care of her rent and expenses for a few months until they confirm they are pregnant.
Posted By: LondonBay
This is a serious question.Im just curious..... how do the ladies in serious relationships try to have a baby with their significant other if they are seeing clients on the side?Arent you worried if the baby might not be yours?You use condoms with clients but bb with significant other,but would you still be worried?My friend loves her husband and she and him are trying to have baby.....but she sees clients on the side and she uses condoms of course.Any input on this?Hope everyone has a happy Friday!I am just really curious about this subject today
"If you use condoms perfectly every single time you have sex, they're 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. But people aren't perfect, so in real life condoms are about 82% effective — that means about 18 out of 100 people who use condoms as their only birth control method will get pregnant each year." - Taken from the Planned Parenthood website.
Is your friend in the 98% group or in the more accident prone group? Can she afford to take time off during her most fertile periods?
"You are most fertile at the time of ovulation, (when an egg is released from your ovaries) which usually occurs 12-14 days before your next period starts. This is the time of the month when you are most likely to get pregnant. It is unlikely that you will get pregnant just after your period, although it can happen."
There are ways to estimate when that will be using regular temperature measurements with a regular under-the-tongue or newer style fever thermometer.
Good luck to her and her SO! I hope they get it right!
Just in case, here is the address for the Maury Povich show: http://www.mauryshow.com/be-a-guest
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i understand provider have real life of their own like SO, or husband. If she uses condoms for work (i understand accidents do happens) she shouldn't be worry about it by trying to conceived with her husband. Well i'm not a doctor but i do hear that during certain month into pregnancy isn't it a bit dangerous to have sex while carrying?
I saw a pregnant provider in 2011. It was one of the hottest sessions I ever had. Got 2 pops in a hour.
But I doubt they combine all your other odd qualities.
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Posted By: LondonBay
This is a serious question.Im just curious..... how do the ladies in serious relationships try to have a baby with their significant other if they are seeing clients on the side?Arent you worried if the baby might not be yours?You use condoms with clients but bb with significant other,but would you still be worried?My friend loves her husband and she and him are trying to have baby.....but she sees clients on the side and she uses condoms of course.Any input on this?Hope everyone has a happy Friday!I am just really curious about this subject today
And what makes you so certain she isnt bb her clients as well? You say "of course" she uses condoms with clients as if you were there during the coitus. You have no idea if that is true.
If you mean that the way it sort of sounds, that her husband doesn't know she's a provider, then please please advise your friend to avoid getting pregnant. IF that is the case, I would wonder why she would even want to have a baby with a man she's not comfortable being honest with and doesn't respect very much to begin with. I hope that doesn't sound too judgmental.
As to the logistics of birth control, you've gotten good advice here, and it's certainly something that can be researched. Whatever happens, good luck to them both.
Posted By: Fearghas
If you mean that the way it sort of sounds, that her husband doesn't know she's a provider, then please please advise your friend to avoid getting pregnant. IF that is the case, I would wonder why she would even want to have a baby with a man she's not comfortable being honest with and doesn't respect very much to begin with. I hope that doesn't sound too judgmental.
As to the logistics of birth control, you've gotten good advice here, and it's certainly something that can be researched. Whatever happens, good luck to them both.
This. If she's seeing clients behind her husband's back, then she has no right to proceed with conceiving a baby with him. Even if her husband is okay with her escorting while they're trying, I still find it distasteful. I don't mean any ill will because I don't know OP and her friend at all, but if I found out my beloved mother conceived me WHILE she was seeing men other than my dad, I would be devastated. Just make the conception and the whole journey special and hold off seeing clients for a year. Your child will thank you for it. Do not drag them into your lifestyle.
Posted By: LondonBay
This is a serious question.Im just curious..... how do the ladies in serious relationships try to have a baby with their significant other if they are seeing clients on the side?Arent you worried if the baby might not be yours?You use condoms with clients but bb with significant other,but would you still be worried?My friend loves her husband and she and him are trying to have baby.....but she sees clients on the side and she uses condoms of course.Any input on this?Hope everyone has a happy Friday!I am just really curious about this subject today
50 yr old, widowed with no kids. did not want some young provider trying to blackmail me . worked to long and hard for my $$$
Oh FFS.
CONDOMS. CONDOMS. CONDOMS.
SCREW IT. WEAR A DAMN HAZMAT SUIT AND A RESPIRATOR. NAW, HELL NO. JUST HAVE THEM TAKEN THROUGH A DECON AREA BEFORE SLAPPING A BODY CONDOM ON THEM AND CHECKING THEIR MEDICAL RECORDS.
HIV passes on to baby in utero.
Herpes will cause blindness in the newborn if it is active at time of birth and gets on baby's eyes during birth.
Gonorrhea/Syphillis.... oh god. The damn list goes on and on. If you can't afford to stop working while you are trying to get pregnant, what on earth makes anyone think they can afford to have a kid at that moment in time in the first place????
