And when you two are about to get it on,just ask if she can use your condom instead
What is the proper way to inquire /request about a female condom prior to the date? Would a woman think I was LE if I requested it in an email after I was screened? I never refer to sexual acts of any kind in an email...
Thoughts?
Thx,
Barry
but I do see your dilemma as "some" providers would consider that "talking about sex"
I was told that its better to wait til after you have seen her
and ask, "IF you require a condom, would you mind bringing a female condom."
Then start looking for a backup in case you don't hear back at all.
...but you might want to have a back-up plan.
You can either search for an provider who does used fc or you can ask them if they use them...
I met two provider that uses them one of them is actually prefer fc
I do, but many providers don't know how to use them and won't learn despite the FCs popularity.
So don't be surprised if she refuses.
TER provider profiles have a section for FC use- just select a provider whose profile says she is FC friendly.
There are easy ways to insert the FC by using a sex toy or even the guy's dick, but I'm sure others will chime in to explain that. Please use extra lube on the inside (where the dick goes) of the FC. It will help the experience a lot.
Thoughts?
Thx,
Barry
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They actually just cut the fingers off of industrial rubber gloves. Unlike the Japanese condoms that are .001 thick, these are 0.1. Sensitivity might be an issue for some.
I agree, I wouldn't bring it up in an email. If you've already made the date, and it is a well reviewed provider, I might bring the FCs with me to the appointment and ask if she is comfortable using them.
Since the search function is not always updated, I have noticed a few guys post an ISO on their regional board for future dates, as well
And when you two are about to get it on,just ask if she can use your condom instead
so and other women possible have added that to their profiles .
If not their should
and if it is yes
then she would have it automatically when she would visit with you. Why to ask? make a research .
reading details in several reviews, there is mention of FC use, then you could request her to have FC's available. As has been said already--if there is no mention of FC use, then you could ask if she is FC friendly.
on profile all is on the date.
As well, when we know each other and passed screening and took care arrangements.. why it is bad idea to talk about that?
Finally we all want to have this experience we anticipate.
Seems as OP said that he changed few nice emails .. and that should give him a comfort to ask...
Generally i think if woman indicated YES to FC and to other activities - it is then all just up to you - gentleman make her feel comfortable.
Even your age??? LMAO!!!!
shift your attention to real troubles of yours
That may be will show that you are somewhat an intelligent man and can define your priority.
having to see you in person. There is not enough eye bleach in New York.
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because I always provide them with real information .
If you can not see me because I do not want mix myself with such
material as is yours - then it is not a base to for other gentlemen do not see me - and they never are leaded by your post . We can care less about such as you are .
and some pic .. thank you thank you thank you for advertising me haha
I am you know - just all my existence is as advertisement and irritates many - that I am just exist.
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a warning. You present yourself as ignorant, incoherent, arrogant, careless, foolish and deceptive. Also old. You could not get me to book time with you even if it was free.
question - so you hurt too much this man from farm?
If he was asking discounts, he possibly is very very offended and can t get over. that he goes and goes and goes as broken record...
what to say - you are making an idiot of yourself chasing me.
I do not depend on money from johns - have enough friends who will open for me all- and houses and wallets and hearts and minds and yes zippers - I love it too
Sure, lots of guys want to date an old, delusional idiot.
..."Don't Know" for the most part. Providers who are FC friendly should update their profiles to reflect that they use them. For me, it would make me much more likely to see them than providers who don't use them.
you could just loosen your wallet a little tiny fucking bit and bring one with you, instead of thinking everything is up to her. Hmmmm? Problem solved, and if she hasn't tried the FC before, maybe you can introduce her to it? If so, it might even be a lot of fun.
Problem solved. Not so difficult.
$2 apiece at PP here in Chicago.
After booking a double once, I sent the following email requesting the FC's. Response was they would love to use them. And they worked out great. With proper lube, it was like being bb without the risk.
Hi .......,
Quick question. Do u think u and ........... could bring FCs for use at some point in our party, as I've found in earlier doubles changing covers can be a pain and a passion killer???
I have a P411 membership and I put it in my P411 profile that I prefer to see providers that are female condom friendly.
I then always ask the lady to read my profile to verify we are "compatible"
You never know who's too shy to ask in advance
I have switched over to them exclusively and love them!! I do bring a few regular condoms for those who resist, but most love them once they try them.
I think you should just get them and bring them yourself. If anyone raises an eyebrow, just tell them in a very sincere, modest voice, "Oh. This is the only size condom I can find that will fit me. Too much girth is a pain in the ass sometimes."
That should make you very popular at your local drug store.