This thread was inspired by the BBFS thread below. I think
To me, Stripper Slide, where the girl runs her lips (the girlie bits kind) over an uncovered shaft is a pretty basic service and I think just about every one of the 20 girls I've seen in the last two years has done it. But then I tend to see more mature women who also offer anal and have TER service scores of 9 or better, so it's a pretty select group.
And yes, I know the risk isn't zero but so far had no problems of any kind.
Is this pretty standard? What are everyone else's experiences? As a provider how do you position yourself (PSE? GFE? GFE-lite? ect) and as a client, is there a particular kind of girl you see?
Inquiring minds want to know!!
To me, Stripper Slide, where the girl runs her lips (the girlie bits kind) over an uncovered shaft is a pretty basic service and I think just about every one of the 20 girls I've seen in the last two years has done it. But then I tend to see more mature women who also offer anal and have TER service scores of 9 or better, so it's a pretty select group.
And yes, I know the risk isn't zero but so far had no problems of any kind.
Is this pretty standard? What are everyone else's experiences? As a provider how do you position yourself (PSE? GFE? GFE-lite? ect) and as a client, is there a particular kind of girl you see?
Inquiring minds want to know!!
on behalf of the ladies if I may be so bold:
It's ALL YMMV. Providers evaluate their comfort level with each client, and oftentimes there may be reasons why some services are offered . . . . or not. I doubt many Providers here will want to go on record committing to certain services ALWAYS being on their menu. In my experience, there is great variation solely at the discretion of the providers. Its her pussy, her rules, but its a YMMV relationship on an individual basis.
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a lot of guys will try to take it to the next level. "let me put it in just once?" or "I'll pay you more"..."you know it will feel so good" ect.
It's best just to say no.
Doing anything BB comes with risk for both parties. Sadly when one lady offers this kind of experience and it's mentioned or hinted at in a review, others may push for it as well. I've had more than one offer it up because they know me and once they do, I don't go back. I'm already taking a calculated risk, but there is certain boundaries I won't cross.
If you're going to rub your genitals all over a guys cock uncovered it can't really be described as safe sex? It's not just semen inside you that can pass infections and disease along surely?
No stripper slide from me I'm afraid.
its a warm summer night and there are mosquitos around.
It's a total YMMV thing though. No correlation between services and/or rates in my experience.
Have done it with massage girls who never offer FS or BJ, have done it with highly rated escorts in the 500 range as well as those that have a lower donation. Simulated missionary is the most common position, but simulated doggie and RCG are nice too.
For a guy, I assume the risk is similar to BBBJ
A very nice Doctor from the Midwest showed up with his doctor bag. Pulls out a couple of those blue back pads you see around hospitals. His covering was already measured with a pre-cut hole for his man package, so I was measured for my hole..lol. Once he was hard, his penis went through his pad ( which covered him from navel to mid thigh) condom was put on I jumped in position ( missionary ) and we did the dirty deed. With my pad in proper place I was covered from mid-thigh to navel as well.
It was a 2 hour appointment, the first hour was spent measuring and covering. As we were measuring, I could not help but ask, " are we having foreplay? "
I'm clean freak and a bit of germ-o-phobe, but that was a little much. lol
I was so sure that your story was going to end with "and for all that, I got a cold from him!"
It's important to be careful, but end of the day the only way to get a guarantee is to buy a toaster. There has to be some balance between taking risks and living life. The question, of course, is just where that thin line is.
And this doctor took a risk. But that was HIS version of the amount of risk he was willing to take. And he must have had fun as he got exactly what (and how) he wanted.
But the provider has the choice to say 'no way' just as the receiver of the service has a right to say 'no way'. Just as each has the right NOT to be associated with people who participate in activities that are beyond their comfort level, for whatever reasons they deem fit. Each person has the right to make a decision about their own bodies (and lives). But the problem comes when some people force their decisions onto others.
If the CDC and the WHO see unprotected intercourse as a threat to nations who don't have the access or the education to put condoms into regular use, then I can see why there would be people who absolutely will NOT have unprotected intercourse and have their strong views against the practice.
And on an individual level (provider-based), when its offered and accepted by so many, it then sets a bar for other providers to be forced (feel like they are forced) to compete and provide. It's a high-risk activity, for a job that is supposed to be temporary. It is scary and de-moralizing. And just like any other 'community', standards are set and enforced by participants. It's just human nature. And to try to swing the pendulum for more self-serving motives, doesn't mean the tides will change. As just wishing something were true doesn't make it so. That is why some things are best kept within a 'community' of like-minded people. Let others be as safe as they need to be for peace of mind and health. And some should just start their own club.
Parable: The first time you ever bounced a check or were late paying a bill, (if you had self-set standards about your personal reputation when it comes to your finances), it seemed like the end of the world. But when you realized it wasn't so bad, then if the opportunity arose again you would take it stride, call the company you were late paying for, and get it paid back ASAP. One day, you realize you have done this so many times, with no real consequences, it has just become easier and is happening more often. Except you don't call the company any more. They will understand as they always have. Until the day the company says 'you have been late so many times, we have to put it on your credit report'. Now you are one of 'them'. The lazy people, the irresponsible people, the people who don't care. And there is no going back. It's too late now.
Same can be said about anything. There are no consequences...until there are.
Things you can get from BBBJ: Gonorrhea, Herpes (Type 1and 2), Chlamydia, Syphilis, HPV, etc.
How is it not the same as sinking it bare? Things you can get this way: Chancroid, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HPV, Hepatitis A, B, and C, Molluscum, and Syphilis. Highest risks are HPV and HSV, if you can be sure none of her vaginal fluids ever touched the hole of your penis. If you can't be sure, the others are as risky. And the risk goes both ways.
To me, Stripper Slide, where the girl runs her lips (the girlie bits kind) over an uncovered shaft is a pretty basic service and I think just about every one of the 20 girls I've seen in the last two years has done it. But then I tend to see more mature women who also offer anal and have TER service scores of 9 or better, so it's a pretty select group.
And yes, I know the risk isn't zero but so far had no problems of any kind.
Is this pretty standard? What are everyone else's experiences? As a provider how do you position yourself (PSE? GFE? GFE-lite? ect) and as a client, is there a particular kind of girl you see?
Inquiring minds want to know!!
I get this practice with about 70 to 80% of the girls I see that are otherwise safe. Still a big difference in the quality of it and how controlled they want to be. Some girls have crazy control where it is almost like they are jerking you off with their labia.
Famous last words.... "No problem with it Yet
Yes it does. This topic has been discussed before (and thats ok). In all of my 12 years of lobbying, i'd say it has been offered or has happened at least 65-70% of the time.
And yes, even with those providers who make comments (maybe they're in this thread or maybe not). It doesn't matter if its a Back Page provider or a $700 an hour provider. I've experienced both ends of the price range, and price doesn't matter. Camel sliding doesn't stop at a certain price-point at all.
I enjoy reading this kind of B.S. though, its a site to see, when the providers all come out and say "i never do that" - Ha! Yes, you most certainly do!
Cherry-on!