You and your dick need to sit down and have a chit chat about what to expect behind the door.  

Unless you are visiting someone you know from prior visits (you don't sound like a repeater) or an agency girl whose agency has provided her with background info about you ("he's OK but he doesn't like chit chat") or someone who provides special services (BDSM, kink; something in a special setting) then you are meeting someone for the first time in an unknown situation. She needs to get comfortable with you and, I would have thought, vice-versa.  

There are Providers who will jump your bones the second the door is closed (READ THE REVIEWS) but others want to give their guests a moment to put their stuff down, catch their breath, find a place to put the envelope, etc. Chit chat is a customary and effective way to do all that. (In AMPs, there is a different SOP but there is still a gradual build-up.)

Are you worried about losing clock time? A couple of minutes of chit chat should not detract from the (and can lead to an enhanced) experience. In some sessions, a few minutes of chit chat can even "wind the spring" and as soon as everything is in order, BOING!, she's on me like white on rice.  

I think your best bet is to become a regular. Once she knows you from the first meeting, you tell her what you'd like to experience at the beginning of the second meeting. Depending on how #2 goes, you can ask her to fine tune her procedure for #3. And so on.

I guess you could enter the room with your dick in your hand-that would probably move her off the "Chit Chat" that seems to concern you !

and followed with immediate pull down of the bikini bra and sucking of the melons and then pull down of the undies and tongue up the pussy.  apparently this way no talk is invovled and mood has been initiated!!!

I don't mind a little chit chat

But if it goes on to long, ill take her by the hand lead her into the bedroom and start getting undressed. Or lean in for an lfk.  

If you read reviews you can usually figure out if she's a "talker" or if she likes balls to the wall action. I can't remember the last time I had to initate the action.  

That don't speak English. Problem solved!

While you're taking your clothes off.

Then we talk about the first thing that pops up.

First of all, When you walk into the provider's place or a place that she says to meet her. You should beat her to the punch line and state your thoughts about the place the location. If you do not like or care for the location then suggest a more convienant location that you both can get to. It seems that she was fusterated, because you were possibly late. And one of the things that a HOBBYIST has to realize is that time is money. And just like the hobbyist.........The provider needs time to rest, eat, shower, make more money & Etc. Providers are just as human as anyone else. Respect goes both ways.

And I book enough time so we can take the time to talk a bit first. I find people as a rule fascinating. People who live outside social norms like sex workers more so than most.

... I know I am about to have sex with, that is all the mood I need.  ALL attention, chit chat, eye contact, body movements, light touching, get me primed and ready.  The only date I ever had where things didn't begin to happen as I'd want, was when a lady was very nervous that the hotel walls were thin so she insisted in trying to get a seemingly broken TV to work for 15 minutes or so in order to turn the volume up loud.  20 minutes into a date, I thought I'd be playing with something other than a remote!  Other than that, vive la difference! - fun and exciting lying next to someone you've never met and seeing how things unfold.  Sometimes it's a little quicker to the main event then others, but it's all good, as it would get old to me if each date unfolded in the exact same manner.  None of us - I imagine - reveal our true full selves on these dates, but it is fun getting even just the little glimpse into the ladies I've spent time with, different personalities, quirks, humor, etc.  And if the lady is a little slow in getting to the action part for you, then just move closer and gently take the lead.  Sometimes, if I had a challenging time getting to the hotel, it might take ME a few minutes to wind down.  In those cases the chit chat is a natural little bridge to get me relaxed and focused back on fun.

we jumped each other's bones and for the next 30 minutes or so we tore it up pretty good.  Then after a little cleanup we introduced ourselves and shared a bottle of wine and some chit chat, until we tore it up again.  

This sort of 'chit chat sandwich' worked perfect - and for a 90 minute visit I would look forward to every visit being just like it.

...with a little chit-chat. If you can have a little laugh or two, it could be a good ice-breaker to ease tension or nervousness.

Small talk is a good way of meeting a stranger if you ask me

If it's my first time meeting you, I will not jump on you as soon as you walk in the door. Little awkward if you ask me.. we Literly don't know nothing about each other.. not my way of starting a session.. I like to do the small talk., basically get to know you a little.. I don't know Maybe I am more interested in knowing you haha.  

But if we did meet before , it's more like seeing your boyfriend after a week of not seeing each other

who drove down from elsewhere in Louisiana to visit with me in New Orleans if he had a safe trip down. He had no problem getting hard just minutes after engaging in chit chat. As an ultra-introvert, I much prefer holding space for deep conversation over mundane chit chat. But at the same time, I don't want to create a sense of pressure to have the *perfect* conversation. Being present and mutable, and accessing whether someone wants to talk for a while or get straight to sexy shenanigans works well for me.