there are physiological changes in a woman's body as she approaches, and achieves, orgasm.  These are hard to fake if you know what to look for.  I will offer to teach a course at JDU if demand is sufficient.  

Although, the example you cite puzzles me because there is really no need to reinforce that she wasn't faking unless he is a guy who often gets fooled.  Many girls don't have O's with customers, so they fake them.  Its part of the business, but I can't be fooled, so it doesn't matter to me if she faked or not.  Its her business whether she is fully engaged in the session and lets herself enjoy the moment. . . . . . .or not.

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She's just being her Charming self

In my experience, men will always believe what they want to believe, but maybe take the higher road and you might surprise yourself.  

To real women lol...

T

.. nobody is acting for you. Wow. I would move out of Salt Lake City.

do you use a dart board to pick the gals you see?  

shit, even I have someone in Salt Lake City lined
up should I pass through there.

Kidding aside, if you enjoy rhe rush of making a woman have an orgasm, I'd suggest forging a connection with one of your favorite gals and learn what rings her bell. If you're sincere and she's into you, it'll happen. Unless you suck.... poorly lol

good luck ... it can be done, but you're gonna have to pay  
attention to the lady if you wanna make her cum ... as long as she can or wants to.

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Whether a provider has an O or not isn't particularly relevant to me, as it's my dime so I'm happy if I get off. Besides, short of a discharge, we never really know if they are acting or not IMO.

The last 2 women I was with have told me that they were cumming, without me asking. Do I really care if they were or not? Not really. Isn't 80% of a female orgasm mental? I enjoy the ego boost of them saying they came, and I want them to have a good time with me, but if they don't cum, not a big deal

lead to one or maybe many climaxes in the ladies I see, but I am seeing ladies who see a number of people before and afater they see me.  Some are by nature multi orgasmic, some are just great providers who want to give me a wonderful experience.  
There are of course times you can tell. When I am enjoying DATY and there is what feels and tastes like a full female climax, I gratefully accept this gift.  When the provider uses her skills to make me feel she has enjoyed my efforts, I am also grateful for this.  I don't drive myself crazy wondering if this was real or just her working to please me.  
Either way most of my experiences have been wonderful and I have appreciated the experience,

I will agree, with someone who can act well, a guy would never know. However, not all orgasms are faked, either, as some are truly students of female pleasure and have dedicated themselves to the art.

Let's clear up some myths:

Squirting can happen in the absence of orgasm, so it's not proof of an orgasm, contrary to popular opinion.

All the "signs" of orgasm, flushed skin, engorged genitalia, etc, occur with arousal, but they don't necessarily mean you carried her to the climax, so the "signs" are not 100% proof. Squeezing the vaginal muscles can also mimic the pulses of an orgasm (and that will cause the rectum to squeeze as well, so sticking a finger there is no more proof, either - and yes, some believe that).

Lubrication, while usually a sign of arousal, is also heavily influenced by hormones, so a woman can be really lubricated and barely aroused or barely lubricated and heavily aroused. Again, volume does not indicate whether an orgasm occurred or not.

If you want your female partner to have a good time, ask what she likes, but don't take it personally if you can't make her orgasm.