SMH. I hope she's charging a lot for his. It's gonna be brutal for her.
So, there's my ATF, and I can't have enough of her.
Toying with the idea of overnight(12 hours) but have some concerns, all but one are hygine related:
1) I can do her probably 3, max. 4 times during that period. What can we be doing when we are not having sex? I don't want to bore her.
2)Given that we will be spending hours together on the bed, wouldn't body odor play spoilsport?
3) In the morning, I want to be woken up by her giving me a slow BJ followed by sex.Wouldn't bad morning breathe(hers or mine) spoil the mood?
4) Call me a narcissist, but bodily noise does not anywhere fit in my idea of a perfect passionate date. 12 hours is a long period. Its quite likely that there will be some. Is there any pill that stops such unpleasant stuff from happening for 12 hours?
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1) If you don't want to bore her, learn a few card/magic tricks or learn how to juggle.
2) There's a new invention for body odor...it's called a shower. You can even do it with someone else!
3) For morning breath - learn something from the K-girls: the "blue toast" AKA Listerine.
4) To avoid farting, take Beano or use a butt plug.
You really should be asking this question on the Newbie Board where we are obligated to be "nice"
I am really too dumbfounded to give you any real advice, about all I am capable of doing right now is take turns laughing at you and feeling sorry for you.
Normally I would say "Don't worry about it and just be yourself" but when "being yourself" means being an uptight, narcissistic, idiotic fool, maybe you should at least pretend to be someone else?
so I just treat it like an overnight with a civvie girl. My answers:
1) If you're good for three or four pops in twelve hours, welcome to the club. That's what most of us get. I have spent breaks dining, drinking, watching a movie, or sleeping. If you are concerned about the cost of 12 hours, then you could suggest she see other customers in between pops, and give you credit for what they contribute against your twelve hours.
2) It always pays to be fresh. Since you were asleep, you have no clue what your body went through while you were out. I always shower again before any activity after sleep. If she saw other customers while you were sleeping, and took more showers than you, she may be fresher than you to begin with.
3) Unless you know something I don't know, I don't think your dick can smell her bad breath. If she saw other customers while you were sleeping, its likely her breath smells like semen, which is where she will end up after you anyway, so what's the big deal?
4) Bean-O or Gas-X will help, but it also helps to lay off the cruciferous vegetables. If she saw other customers while you slept, and got a good pounding, chances are there's no gas left in her, so you only have to worry about yourself.
Call me a hopeless romantic.
Seems like you certainly have.. great advice!
..."overnight" is to spend the entire night with the provider. K-girls may see other customers while you're sleeping, but not so-called "indies." What you describe is simply 3-4 visits to the same provider over a 12 hr. period, not an "overnight."
I'm sure the OP and others are often confused by coeur-de-lion's responses. Hell, I'm confused trying to pronounce coeur-de-lion.
But finished each point with a little humorous absurdity. It's the way I roll. MOST here get it. I'm often tempted to put "Lol" at the end, so the slow ones will know I'm joking, but I don't want to insult the smart ones, so it's sometimes a no-win situation.
...I could see that being in a K-girl's M.O...especially if she's a 90 day wonder. And knowing the K-fanboy's cheapness, I'm sure they would think that 3-4 separate visits would be cheaper than an overnight.
90-day wonders are strictly OTC and mostly at a hotel. If they are ones that are here longer then it's either my place or their apartment in Ktown. The only o/nights I have paid for were with indies.
On yourself.....lol. But seriously, don't overthink this and just go with the flow. Take her to dinner or a lounge for a drink..Get a BJ in the car or so something that's not beneath you. Be creative for God's sake.....
RE 1) After each romp take a good hot shower.
Wine and fruit might be good.
Or go for a walk and get a mild snack out.
Be careful what you eat and drink if you're concerned about body noises, but eat something.
I like fruit smoothies/protien drinks like Odwalla or Naked, but that's just me. I suppose most people wouldn't consider that on an overnight.
RE 2&4) Gas-X is probably as good as anything.
RE 3) Tempting and romantic as that sounds, maybe it can be somewhat abbreviated and you can shower, brush your teeth, and wash your face after just a couple minutes of play before going back to it.
She'll have the same concerns so maybe plan something and tell her what you'd like to do. She might veto it (taking a walk might not be discreet), but she'll then have some suggestions of her own
If you want an honest answer to these questions, you should PM mrfisher. He's the authority on overnights. Don't listen to the rest of these clowns. Just sayin'
I know, that's my answer to everything.
Seriously though, most of the advice her is pretty good. For breath I'd keep a tin of Altoids around, and some cinnamon gum (Wrigley's Big Red is good.) on hand.
Most gals are OK with 3 pops over 12 hours, and maybe more if your up for it.
SMH. I hope she's charging a lot for his. It's gonna be brutal for her.
I couldn't have done it. But, then again, I'm a prick. Kinda like BigPapa and GaGa. You should not have come here. But I think you already knew that.
I do have a suggestion, though. Since you have no clue about how to do this, please contact me via PM. I'll be happy to do the date for you and give you a full report.
Overnights are too expensive.
12 hours is a long time. Are you seriously planning to sequester yourself and her 'on the bed' for that amount of time? Are you planning to sleep, eat, etc?
I'm not sure about food, but she'll definitely be needing some vodka...
Come on dude,
u ever spend the night with a woman before?
Cook dinner together, watch a movie, listen to music and slow dance, at a card game, go out somewhere and catch a movie or go to museum.
shower
brush teeth First thing in the morning, perhaps reserve a bigger suite that has 2 baths (so she can have a little privacy if needed or wanted).
Order breakfast in bed.
take it easy. If she knows you it will be okay.
It's ok to do normal things aside from sex. She might even appreciate it.
Toying with the idea of overnight(12 hours) but have some concerns, all but one are hygine related:
1) I can do her probably 3, max. 4 times during that period. What can we be doing when we are not having sex? I don't want to bore her.
2)Given that we will be spending hours together on the bed, wouldn't body odor play spoilsport?
3) In the morning, I want to be woken up by her giving me a slow BJ followed by sex.Wouldn't bad morning breathe(hers or mine) spoil the mood?
4) Call me a narcissist, but bodily noise does not anywhere fit in my idea of a perfect passionate date. 12 hours is a long period. Its quite likely that there will be some. Is there any pill that stops such unpleasant stuff from happening for 12 hours?
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dinner date, cocktails, massage, strip poker, fun, nap and more fun... who doesn't like to have have in the mornings? 
u ever spend the night with a woman before?
Cook dinner together, watch a movie, listen to music and slow dance, at a card game, go out somewhere and catch a movie or go to museum.
shower
brush teeth First thing in the morning, perhaps reserve a bigger suite that has 2 baths (so she can have a little privacy if needed or wanted).
Order breakfast in bed.
take it easy. If she knows you it will be okay.
It's ok to do normal things aside from sex. She might even appreciate it.
Toying with the idea of overnight(12 hours) but have some concerns, all but one are hygine related:
1) I can do her probably 3, max. 4 times during that period. What can we be doing when we are not having sex? I don't want to bore her.
2)Given that we will be spending hours together on the bed, wouldn't body odor play spoilsport?
3) In the morning, I want to be woken up by her giving me a slow BJ followed by sex.Wouldn't bad morning breathe(hers or mine) spoil the mood?
4) Call me a narcissist, but bodily noise does not anywhere fit in my idea of a perfect passionate date. 12 hours is a long period. Its quite likely that there will be some. Is there any pill that stops such unpleasant stuff from happening for 12 hours?
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Shes your slave for 12hrs.
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...but i normally talk to the woman im with after sex to learn more about the woman im with...after sex conversations often lead to more sex...i have a moustache and hopefully the next morning,all i can taste and smell is her...
Ever spend 12 hrs with a civie woman? It's just like that but you don't have to be charming to get laid. I'd be bored after 2 hrs but I'm special like that. Just don't kick her out if she farts and don't go to the convienence store if you have to crap like I did once when I was young cause I was embarrassed. Run the fan and bring the paper to read proudly..and light a match.
with a beautiful woman. The night does not last 12 hours. The time in beds is not spent in constant sex. I love that my wife and I sleep together every night (most of which time is spent in sleeping. I love that I have two friends with benefits who like to sleep all night with me. I haven't done this with a provider in years, but would love it.
It includes soft touching, talking about stuff, sharing stories and cuddles. Depending upon who, it often includes a long relaxing foot massage which tends to lull my wife and one F with B off to sleep.
I generally try get out of bed without waking my partner. My wife likes coffee in bed one my former lover likes tea and a certain crackers. I don't wale the person unless they asked to be woken, I have my cellphone so I cane be summoned.
If we end up with twelve hours much of it is on talk, laugh (I hope) and indulging my partner.
One rule: NEVER prevent the lady from getting what she considers a full nights sleep and any time alone she would like.
One of my friends with B, can not sleep in the same room wth someone else so with her, I get to read late as I like since she is in the next room.
Exceot fr my wife who I still find very attractive, I seldom have that experience since my special almost left- my-wife-for lower and I decided it just could not go on. At the time, I had good excuses to be out of town and we did have lovely nights together.
who gave to-the-point answers without being judgemental.
Perhaps most of you are right that I am overthinking this.
Lot of you wonder if I have such concerns with my ATF, should she be my ATF? Well, she wouldn't be my ATF if I was concerned about her hygiene.
Its a thought that came to my mind not specific to her. That concern would be the same with anyone else and even for myself.
Also, there is no monetary question here, so those comments by some people were uncalled for.
Its an overnight and I am a romantic at heart. Just too much of a perfectionist may be.
1) What to do between rounds? Dinner, breakfast in the morning?
2) No.
3) No.
4) No.
You sound like you're not ready for an overnight. Not because she's unwilling, but you need to free your mind. How impressive do you think you are going to look in the morning? Yeah, I thought so...