Typically extended dates are with someone whose company you really enjoy in and out of the bedroom first and foremost. If it is someone you don't enjoy talking to for example, but they really raise the flag pole for you then stick to the appointment length that matches your desire for rolling around the bed, kitchen counter, sofa etc. You may want an extended date of just pure sex. Having a second gal join you can make a 3-4 hour session seem like an hour lol if you are in the mood for pure raw great sex.
Often times an extended date involves public outings in between playtime.If there is a gal whose company you seem to enjoy on a multidimensional level then an extended date is always fun. As you can imagine, sex typically drives the date of course. So for example, getting together to play and enjoy a round across the finish line is usually on the agenda. Then dining, shopping, a museum, the pool, golf, an event or some activity you enjoy doing then comes next. It is amazing how being together and flirting in a public arena (especially if she is wearing something that really turns you on and you might consider requesting something specific for your visual benefit), it allows you to reload for being together again after the activity. Some men want to be teased erotically and prefer not to have a first round but to get right up to that point and then wait until after the activity to consummate their fun. Overnights allow you to really immerse yourself in your own sexuality and that of the companion you are spending time with. While I'm a passionate woman, I find sweet snuggling a very sexy thing and keeps my sex desire burning in between goal driven play. So an overnight is great because you can enjoy non stop sort of arousal during the time you are together even if you aren't having sex, you are enjoying the other person's company and touching and kissing etc. With that said there is a certain synchronicity with overnights that works best if you both are on the same page. Some women do state they need 6-8 hours of solid sleep during the night (which means no monkey business from the time they sleep to getting up). Others are able to be spontaneous and roll with the snuggling-turns into-light- sex- or-more during the night. I would say that a morning play session is always expected to be on the menu with an overnight and if you like a GFE thing then that is very much like waking up with your lover sans make up and looking very natural which can be fun. You both can shower together in the morning and other fun that just makes the whole experience very sensual and has a natural evolution. Some companions only do overnights with fellows they have met previously and each woman will have a certain expectation that fits her being able to be her best for you (ie: need some solid sleep or she can't function the next morning for you). Overnights in a different locale for both of you (you are on business for example in a different city) or you both fly to a specific destination, are truly great because you can explore the area together and intimacy just naturally comes into play alot since it is like a mini vacation. If you still are at a loss of what to do with a specific lady you have in mind, then chat with her on your next date about the option and you both can figure it out together. -- Modified on 9/24/2016 2:34:40 PM
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Just wondering what you guys did when you have a session THAT long. If you guys are uncomfortable with sharing it on here, just PM it to me, I am kinda interested, because I want to have a long session, but I can't imaging what to do that entire time! or how I can even operate for that long.
so you are obviously not fucking for all that time.
some guys really like just the conversation. some guys like to wild drunken sex but it takes a while to get them going. some guys are shy.
Talk, kiss, cuddle w/wine
Fuck
Talk, cuddle, kiss w/wine
Fuc
A hooker is just a woman who gets paid for having sex with strangers, what do you normally do on a "non hooker" date?
BTW, I almost never do 2-3 hour sessions as they aren't long enough to go out on the town, have dinner or whatever, but I can't fuck for three hours straight either. So to a degree, I do get your point.
As for overnight dates, which I thoroughly enjoy, I treat them just like a civvy date, only a civvie date where I no for sure I am going to "score" Unless of course we get too drunk to fuck, and then of course, that's why there is "morning sex" lol
It is like a regular date...watch a movie, extended massage, have a bite to eat and a drink or 2, stimulating conversation,dancing. Teasing and touching...kissing like when you were young, but better because we know how to do it.
I plan on lots of DATY among the three of us and they are bringing toys as well so I am sure there will be plenty to do
A three hour double huh? Plan on being bored after your portion is done, maybe make a sandwich.
Planning on seeing them both again.
Typically extended dates are with someone whose company you really enjoy in and out of the bedroom first and foremost. If it is someone you don't enjoy talking to for example, but they really raise the flag pole for you then stick to the appointment length that matches your desire for rolling around the bed, kitchen counter, sofa etc. You may want an extended date of just pure sex. Having a second gal join you can make a 3-4 hour session seem like an hour lol if you are in the mood for pure raw great sex.
Often times an extended date involves public outings in between playtime.
If there is a gal whose company you seem to enjoy on a multidimensional level then an extended date is always fun. As you can imagine, sex typically drives the date of course. So for example, getting together to play and enjoy a round across the finish line is usually on the agenda. Then dining, shopping, a museum, the pool, golf, an event or some activity you enjoy doing then comes next. It is amazing how being together and flirting in a public arena (especially if she is wearing something that really turns you on and you might consider requesting something specific for your visual benefit), it allows you to reload for being together again after the activity. Some men want to be teased erotically and prefer not to have a first round but to get right up to that point and then wait until after the activity to consummate their fun.
Overnights allow you to really immerse yourself in your own sexuality and that of the companion you are spending time with. While I'm a passionate woman, I find sweet snuggling a very sexy thing and keeps my sex desire burning in between goal driven play. So an overnight is great because you can enjoy non stop sort of arousal during the time you are together even if you aren't having sex, you are enjoying the other person's company and touching and kissing etc. With that said there is a certain synchronicity with overnights that works best if you both are on the same page. Some women do state they need 6-8 hours of solid sleep during the night (which means no monkey business from the time they sleep to getting up). Others are able to be spontaneous and roll with the snuggling-turns into-light- sex- or-more during the night. I would say that a morning play session is always expected to be on the menu with an overnight and if you like a GFE thing then that is very much like waking up with your lover sans make up and looking very natural which can be fun. You both can shower together in the morning and other fun that just makes the whole experience very sensual and has a natural evolution. Some companions only do overnights with fellows they have met previously and each woman will have a certain expectation that fits her being able to be her best for you (ie: need some solid sleep or she can't function the next morning for you).
Overnights in a different locale for both of you (you are on business for example in a different city) or you both fly to a specific destination, are truly great because you can explore the area together and intimacy just naturally comes into play alot since it is like a mini vacation. If you still are at a loss of what to do with a specific lady you have in mind, then chat with her on your next date about the option and you both can figure it out together.
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3-4hrs pure raw great sex!!!? Lol
There should be! It is usually more discreetly indicated as follows....
My assistant: "Will this be an all indoor date or should Sophia plan on dressing for dinner/sports
event, pool time (insert whatever activity here")
Client: This will be an all indoor date! Tell her to get a good nights sleep and drink some coffee
before coming over we are going to have a marathon! (just kidding nobody says that).
OR....
Yes! I've made reservations at X restaurant so please tell her to wear something that drives
me wild at dinner and makes it impossible for me to stand up after dining! (Nobody says that
either hehe)
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I pretty much always go 90 minutes to 2 hours. That is usually taking turns with oral pleasure, maybe a toy or two, and a few positions fucking.
Oh yeah, I like the ladies I see and we usually talk about all sorts of things too.
With one of my regular ladies gives me a really awesome S&M session, which can vary with bondage and blindfold. That can take a long time. We usually end with a tender GFE finish. That can take 3 to 4 hours.
When I arrive at incall I take a shower. Have fun, relax, clean up. Go for a 2nd round then take a shower before I leave. I bring my toys and it takes time to put them back up in the proper places in my bondage bag. Many times GFE providers will want to chit chat for a few minutes to get know if they have not see you before.
Younger providers are different, they can't wait to get into the action and want to go for a 2nd round right away. I have to tell them that my min refractory times is 10 minutes between pops. On very rare occassians I will get 3 pops in a 2 hour appointment, that is because the provider wants to go for a 3rd round and is very horny. One time I saw one that was part asian, caucasian, and black. She got turned on by me eating her pussy while she was in hand cuffs.
And then play solitaire till dawn with a deck of 51.
Smoke cigarettes and watch Captain Kangaroo.
Now, don't tell me I've got nothing to do.
Smoke cigarettes and watch Captain Kangaroo.
Now, don't tell me I've got nothing to do.
I have one client who is a regular and we get along very well. Dare I even say we are friends. We are. We have fun an we play in the room, we go out to eat and have drinks . We have gone shopping together, to the petting zoo even! And it was FUN!! We just do whatever we want to do. Next month we are going to see a movie of a book we were both reading.
Plenty of times we have spent hours in the room playing and talking. It just flies by.
Other clients want to chill in the room and relax, no stress no fuss , just relaxed fun. If you want to spend a few hours with a lady then tell her what you had in mind. Or just see where it naturally goes.
I only do extended time with women I've already seen prior. It is helpful to know whether any time longer than an hour is worth it or not.
It's always been a complete fuckfest for that time. I have no issues going for that length of time. I'm one of those with a high level of energy. Usually it's her asking for a breather.
Dinner or dessert, play around XOXOXO , through the night about 3 play again and possibly in the morning again depending on his age lolol. fun to have one special someone. One is better the many.
That's the benefit of being an adult. We get to choose which craving to satisfy first.
to spend few hours or even over night with my ATF.
I usually book 1 hour with my her and I see her once every 2 weeks if she is available. (Now she is on her 3 weeks tour assuming she will see me if she is back, but she is going back out touring again, the girl does needs time off and rest). But I always wish that one day we can spend the night together but so far it'll probably never going to happen, because i most likely won't able to afford it.
But to answer your question if i can, the past few sessions before she went on tour, we have gone 30 min, and sometime even 1 hour over our 1 hour session, but all we do is just talk and we have great conversation between 2 of us, and why i consider she is my #1 ATF. I wish i can do fuckfest like for 2 hours straight, with MSOG, but honestly I really can't but great conversation with someone can be just as fun.
If anyone wondering who my ATF is you just have to read my reviews, there aren't many.
I paid for an extended date and it was a HUGE mistake. I thought it would be erotic conversation and a fuckfest. It was not. It was me watching her eat, drink and then a regular session in the room. What a waste of money.
That being said, I have done MANY extended dates and one overnight, but NEVER pay for the time outside the room. I have some ATFs with whom I have developed a "friendship with boundaries." When we meet, I usually offer a dinner, drinks or shopping after the date (occasionally before). Since these are low volume, touring ladies they accept my offer almost all the time. It is never hard feelings if they take a rain check.
Some of these dates have led to unscheduled extra sex and even a spontaneous overnight. But, I ALWAYS pay for the sex time, but not the sleep or dinner, drinks, shopping time. I will sometimes buy them a dress, or gift as I would any woman I take on a shopping date. All have come back and always reach out to me to schedule our next date.
These few ATFs are some of the most wonderful women in my life and spending time together is a mutual reward. If a woman asked me for money to spend time outside the room, I would politely decline. I do not begrudge a lady for asking. That is their right. Mainly, I have no problem finding gorgeous women to take to dinner and chat. I like escorts because of the boundaries. I am no Brad Pitt by any means, but my ATFs really like me. We often spend many hours having a fun time on the town.
My ATFs are beautiful, smart women who like a well dressed gentleman, who can make them laugh, smile and enjoy life. These ladies are more than just escorts. They are wonderful people with lives just like hobbyists
1st hour----lots of kissing, titty action, ass rubbing then BBBJTC, russian & HJ combination
2nd hour---order dinner from room service, then take a shower together
last hour---fuck in as many positions as possible, then bust a nutt
My favorite was a four hour booking that turned into an overnight. It wasn't anything special, we drank beer ordered pizza, cracking up at comedy shows, and fucking in between all this. We went at it about 6 different times before heading to bed: ended up going over the appointment time by 2 hours, and he asked me to sleep over instead of trying to call an uber to a rural area.
Around 3am strange things happened, his dog was barking at the window, we were freaked out thought we were seeing shadows, ended up being his tree bending in the wind. We were awake so we went at it again.
What I like most about extended session is that I'm not rushed, we can do as much as we need to and take our time if we want. Nothing has to be planned and there's no rushing out at the end.
...just 2 or 3 times. (Or more if an overnight.) Frankly, I'm not a fan AT ALL of 1 hours, especially when meeting the lady for the first time. I like to get to know the woman, and I also like to share a bottle of wine and fruit or snacks and perhaps a shower or even a bath (if in a nice hotel) and this isn't possible in 1 hour.
...& time fly's when your having fun, I always feel like I shorted myself if I only booked one hour.
we usually spend a few minutes catching up. She has moved and only comes this way every 3-4 months. Then, we make out until she warms up and starts ripping my clothes off and really fucks me good. For the rest of say a two-hour session she lays with me and her hands are constantly caressing me somewhere. A kiss here, a stroke there, maybe a light backrub and then an attempt at a second pop, which I can rarely finish but its nice of her to try. She never stops "working" me one way or the other.
However, I have had to stop doing overnights with her because the last time we did, she showed up at my house at 8pm and by 11:30 I had locked myself in the bathroom laying on the floor sobbing..."NO MAS, NO MAS.....lol.