...reviews of their sexual performance? Ladies having sex for money with some guys whom they might not otherwise give the time of day? Yeah, I'm sure there are a million different "isms" that could and have been applied to this game. But ultimately it's about TWO people having a meeting of minds, each offering something the other wants. At that point, nothing else really matters does it? Certainly doesn't matter what anyone else would label it or think about the decision-making process that lead to these 2 individuals meeting up. Just be respectful to each other and uphold your end of the deal and that's it.
And if thinking about the decision process of the other party and what that MIGHT say about them is disturbing, then anyone is free to choose a different path, either with meeting with any particular individual, or with continuing with this hobby in general.Or just pure marketing
Reverse racism. You are appealing to a customer she prefers a certain race . It's the opposite of not liking a certain race.
Except I wouldn't define "reverse racism" that way.
I have a feeling that when most hobbyists seek out a provider of a certain race it has no much to do with race and more to do with complexion, body type, something physical but not ethnic or cultural.
These days everything is racism. Therefore I don't care anymore. Anyone offended can go f themselves.
This is an f board. The purpose is not for the people to f themselves. We are here to share the task/joy.
By the way I agree with your sentiment. Please send money to the "Foody crowd sourcing funds for victims of too little hobbying". We are all victims.
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It's a fucking fuck board for fucks sake.
but aside from that I agree with the sentiment, we are NOT "all the same" What kind of boring ass world would this be if we were, and fuck political correctness. Preferring chocolate over vanilla on a certain day doesn't mean I don't like vanilla, preferring a latina one day over a white girl doesn't mean I don't like white girls. I think Sasha needs to lighten the fuck up with this PC crap.
Seens to me that a lot of apparently black ladies market thenselves as mixed or latina. So racism does exist?
There are black Latinas, and many are mixed ... So?
It is descriptive and an element in what you have to offer like height, hair color, build.
Also, TER and P411 profiles include a listing for "race." Are those sites racist?
over his stated preference for Asian women.
Jerry replied that it's not racism if you like their race.
Seems to work as a practical matter.
No? Then disclosing ethnicity or race isn't racism, either. 
(This from a self-admitted ageist!
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... you can offend all the people all the time
Just askin'.
unless they're every bit as hot has the white, Latina, or other black women that I've already seen because they were so fucking hot
Good question but I think you already knew the anTSwer. 😉 xo
Why would it be racism ?? Telling the truth of who you are, or what you like, isn't racism.
...reviews of their sexual performance? Ladies having sex for money with some guys whom they might not otherwise give the time of day? Yeah, I'm sure there are a million different "isms" that could and have been applied to this game. But ultimately it's about TWO people having a meeting of minds, each offering something the other wants. At that point, nothing else really matters does it? Certainly doesn't matter what anyone else would label it or think about the decision-making process that lead to these 2 individuals meeting up. Just be respectful to each other and uphold your end of the deal and that's it.
And if thinking about the decision process of the other party and what that MIGHT say about them is disturbing, then anyone is free to choose a different path, either with meeting with any particular individual, or with continuing with this hobby in general.
Advertising your ethnicity can actually help protect YOU from racist people. For instance, some black women are...well, not that dark skinned; in fact, some of them are so light brown that they look white in their photographs. So if they didn't advertise their ethnicity, and a grand wizard from the KKK booked a session with them...well, it wouldn't be pretty. It's the same principle as a TS advertising as TS so she doesn't run into any men who would turn violent if they were fooled. It's all truth in advertising, something that never hurt anyone.
In the minds of those kind of racists it's perfectly ok to "fuck" an "N", you just can't associate with them or accept them as equals, but slavemasters have been fucking the help for hundreds of years.
Now if Sasha were to show up, THEN some sparks would fly. Unless of course they were in the closet about that too. lol
For example, “I’m a white, blonde haired blue eyed spinner with a golden tan” is descriptive not racist because it is not using race as the primary determinant of ability or inherent superiority.
However, an ad that read, “I’m white so you know I’m clean and safe” could arguably be viewed as racist
Or perhaps, "I am black, and you know chocolate melts in your mouth?"
I guess that doesn't have the same ring, does it? lol
I wouldn’t include puffery statements as racist. I should have said that in my post. But everyone already knows that Indian chicks are the spicy ones.
but I will have to say the Latinas have a well deserved reputation for being "apasionado"
Not all stereotypes are bad.
you would qualify as Vindaloo.
That's because they are always currying favor.
No, I'm pretty darn sure that statement is racist.
As a great philosopher might have said, "Racist is as racist does, ma'am."
could it be other than racism? Maybe, they're allergic to chocolate? Or, she doesn't like black hair?
What else ya got?
1) She's had bad experiences in the past with pimps. They were all AA. Thus she is trying to reduce her risk of another bad experience. This could be considered racist, but it could be more a case of working the odds.
2) She's AA (you didn't say), and wishes to reduce the risk of having a client who may know her. I've seen this kind of rationale used before to advertise "no (fill in the blank)", so it's possible. And not racist IMO.
1- I don't deal w/pimps...or agencies, just indies, so it's just one-on-one w/her and me
2- I've only noticed "no AA's" by Caucasian ladies
(I once tried to set a session with a gal who is 1,000 miles from me - I was gonna be in her city on biz. She asked where I live and I told her - she said she wouldn't see me because she's from my city. This is a one off of your AA not wanting to see an AA because they might know each other)
It is not racism to advertise what race you are. Most If NOT all guys want to know.
Now Some Ladies only want to see certain races, or not see certain races. U Still believe it's your or her prerogative.
That's all.