I don't discriminate when it comes to what I'll do with a provider. It all depends on what she's willing to do with me.
Ok, there's one exception to that. A couple of times I declined to offer DATY because of a hygiene issue. Needless to say, I didn't see those providers again. As to whether providers get jealous when they read about what I do with other providers... I really doubt it. If they do, it's all on them.
I was wondering if providers get a little jealous when they read in reviews that one of their favorite customers are performing an act on another provider that he doesn't perform on you? Example, he performs oral sex on another provider but never on you! Have you ever asked a customer to perform a sexual act on you once you read his reviews and found out that he had performed that act on other providers?
No because...Lets be real here.Its all about the envelope
He paid higher rates for her, did less with her, asked less of her, and was one and done with tha bitch!
I don't discriminate when it comes to what I'll do with a provider. It all depends on what she's willing to do with me.
Ok, there's one exception to that. A couple of times I declined to offer DATY because of a hygiene issue. Needless to say, I didn't see those providers again.
As to whether providers get jealous when they read about what I do with other providers... I really doubt it. If they do, it's all on them.
I don't know about provider's point of view,
but as hobbyist, i do felt a bit jealous when I read the review of my ATF's that she perform certain thing like, she did longer BBBJ or she allow longer lazy dog or she let him pound her harder, whatever it is....
bottom line this is all about YMMV, so yes feeling jealous is normal, after all we are all human. I always keep in mind that this is all about YMMV.
...because everyone knows that everything you read in a review is true!!
So long as it fits in with your level of safety and comfort. I.e. if a client is reviewing people and doing dangerous activities with other providers, I would pass on the next date and avoid.
I don't like reading clients' reviews on other providers if they have seen me, then seen another provider. For me, it just feels creepy and stalker-ish. (And quite honestly, I have read one or two friends' reviews and I didn't like the feeling. It didn't sit right with me.) Now, if a client reads my reviews with other men, I don't mind. Doesn't creep me out until he starts complaining that he didn't get as many M&M's as the next person.
However - when reading a review, no matter which end it is read from, you don't know what led to him doing DATY on someone else. And you don't know what led him to not do DATY on the person he didn't perform it on. (Unless he specifically states why.)
What I will say is, there are things I don't do now that I used to do. And there are things I do now that I didn't use to do. Has to do with a lot of things.
If you think about it, if you have an ATF - maybe they do Mish and CG more, because they feel a connection with you and want to be as close to you as possible - or see certain views - or feel certain pockets of cushion that the other provider may not have.
Maybe the ATF just wants to take advantage of their favorite parts of being with you, while doing something else with someone else.
This is about variety in many cases. And if I'm going after a guy for seeing someone else and doing something else with someone else, well, I may as well get married or call myself the guy's artificial wife.
One of the most detrimental things here and elsewhere is jealousy. That shit will eat you alive, and ruin your fun if you're constantly watching people to make sure others aren't getting the bigger half of the grilled cheese sandwich.
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I really enjoy reading your posts Courtney, because they are always very thoughtful and informative. having said that, it kills me when providers say that they don't read the reviews of other providers and then they let it slip out by quoting to me something I wrote in one of my reviews.Lol It's OK if you read the reviews of other providers. I don't think us guys care. I think everyone enjoys pleasure and so I can see how a provider could feel a little neglected if another lady was getting more pleasure than she during a session with the same client. I feel a little neglected when a read about a provider allowing another client pleasures that I feel safe with but are not offered to me.Lol
I personally read all of the reviews of a provider to see if she offers the kind of services that I am interested in. I also avoid ladies that offer services that I am not interested in paying for and feel uncomfortable engaging in.
Oh lord they do! And I do before I meet someone, and I have in the past. My friends? Nope. I don't want to go eat lunch with someone with me knowing I read all of their reviews. To me? That feels creepy and I don't like the feeling.
Now, about two months ago, I read an ATF's reviews of other ladies he's seen after me. Guess what? It screwed with my head - when in all reality, they guy enjoys the fuck out of me, and I should not be putting that into my own head. It hinders my performance.
A few months ago, I wrote a blog on conformity. I had a dream that was about sheep eating my phone, which had pictures of a lioness in it. It pretty much told me the more I look at other people's photos, reviews, and the way they do things, the less of the best "me" I will be able to be.
I know musicians who did a fast on listening to music so their material could be more organic, less influenced by the music they just listened to in the car.
And as far as sex goes, I'll sit down and have lunch with a lady, we can share stories - and we do - and I realize, I'd rather hear it from her lips than some guy she may not have even liked. lol.
But I still walk away thinking "That's cool how she does this or that, but I'd like to explore something different." Works better for me that way. Plus. I have more important things to read - like troll posts. lol
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I had a provider that I see regularly a year ago ask me to see a friend of hers as a favor. I guess the friend needed the income. I generally don't like seeing friends of ladies that I see regularly but agreed to do her this favor. After I visited the lady and did the review, they started having problems. They actually stopped talking to each other. I had given the girlfriend of the lady that I see regularly a slightly better review than I did for her and I think it pissed her off because she started acting differently towards me afterwards. She told me that she would't read the review (it didn't matter to me) but I knew she did because she asked me some detailed questions about the situation that she would have only known by reading the entire review. She was embarrassed once she realized that I knew she had read the entire review.Lol
I wasn't speaking about you Court. You were speaking about your own experiences. Some here are dismissive and speak with certainties as if they know it all or speak for the group! They use words like NONE, ALL or THEY.
Oh. I was like wtf did I do? lol
I don't perform oral is when I have to hack my way through the jungle. If they're shaved smooth, they will all be treated equally with the best effort I have to give.
Why should provider A give a shit about you providing Oral sex on provider B and not her? Both are there on your behalf and neither would probably care either way. Keep in mind this is your fantasy, not hers. Not saying she can't enjoy some of her dates from time to time but I bet she is not tskin fb the time to read all of your review and thinking, "aww, why didn't dipstick 50 go down and pleasure me?" Provider A is probably glad you kept your mouth off her pussy. Instead of reading all your reviews she is busy scheduling appointments, taking care of her business, or enjoying her free time away from the Hobbits.
Not being mean, but the appointment is your request and what you do, while it is consensual, she is not there to get off as much as you are. Does it happen from time to time? Sure, but a lady could careless if you decide not to go down on her. I enjoy daty, but I am very selective on who I ask and do this with. Those I have not or do not do this with have no concern or care. She is there for your entertainment and pleasure and you are there to help her with financial needs. We may form certain hobby bonds or chemistry with certain ladies and some may even enjoy our company, but they don't care if you decide not to go down on them.
I guess you are a provider? Thanks for speaking on behalf of all of the providers out there.Lol
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Keep fooling yourself that she cares about and longs for your oral skills. Delusional Hobbits are good for the ladies. Stop obsessing over your skills and have a good time. Keep fooling yourself.
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Not to mention 20 years of hobbying experience taught me not to obsess over what I wrote in my reviews. Unless you lie, state she did or does things she did not do she does not care about your oral skills.
best description of mongers who obsess over reviews ever!
I had a client who I seen couple times, he paid my regular half hour donation but never tiped me even though I always gave him excellent service , then he met with my friend and he tiped her 100 on top of her hour rate. So I was a little jealous... Not of her. I was a bit offended ... So next time he called me I told him to go to my friend I was busy hahaha
I wasn't just talking about sex. I used that as an example of something that could make you jealous or envious.Lol It could be something as simple as the fact that he brings wine or other gifts to his other dates but not to you. Now that I think about it, the friend of the lady that I saw regularly charged much more for her hourly rate. Maybe that is what set her off!
and maybe your friend actually did give him that excellent service you claim to have given and that is what precipitated the tip?
People have a habit of looking outward for explanations when they should be looking inward.
Thanks for your input but I KNOW I GAVE HIM excellent service,,, how do I know you ask? Because I was exhausted after he left, which means I did a lot of work that he should appreciate by tipping me. Haha. my friend told me that she doesn't really care much about the clients experience. ..Anyways. Keep your two sense to yourself if you don't know the full story
People have a habit of looking outward for explanations when they should be looking inward.
For fear of coming off a little BSC...I've heard my share of snarly comments...One even admitted that she gets jealous reading reviews of certain clients, not mine.
To answer the question...
No, I would not care at all...why should I...
It's. A few of us providers that just do our job, and doesn't over reach by seeing what our clients are doing...I mean really.
Too many providers think they are entitled, and think so highly of themselves....vomit...
I absolutely love this post on this thread. Thank you for sharing this for Dipstick.
No, I would not care at all...why should I...
It's. A few of us providers that just do our job, and doesn't over reach by seeing what our clients are doing...I mean really.
Too many providers think they are entitled, and think so highly of themselves....vomit....
maybe picking another provider to see instead of them but I dont see your scenario happening.