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jaydalee See my TER Reviews 426 reads
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however like Courtney said why not send a pm via P411 if you are a member or email her directly.
While it would be nice to be able to look at a website and know where her homebase and/or touring cities are  sometimes providers don't mention it.I mention my homebase at the top of my website to avoid confusion perhaps she has not updated her ter profile to change the cities.

I become frustrated when I find someone I would like to see (and I sift quite carefully), and then I can't tell where the hell she is based, or where the hell she is at any one time.  So I give up.  Ladies, I might have seen you, but not when that happens.  I move on.

Example: her current profile shows her primary city is Las Vegas, with other city serviced New York.  But the last review says he saw her in Los Angeles.  Okay, that's understandable.  Yet her P411 header says Las Vegas, but outcalls and incalls not in Las Vegas but in Los Angeles!  WTF?  And on P411, her "visiting city schedule" there says Hartford and St. Louis, with dates.  When you go to her web site, there is nothing that says where she is based, and her calendar is blank!

I understand some providers travel, and it is no doubt a huge pain to keep things up to date, but please do be aware we can't see you if we don't know where you'll be, when.  I plan ahead with local regulars several days in advance, so, ya know.

If you have time to write this OP, you could have spelled out (tactfully in an email to her) your confusion and desire to see her - and asked her directly.

I'm curious how much time you're going to put into this thread talking back and forth, yet haven't taken one second to contact the provider directly.

There are THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS of providers in the US. You obviously want to see this one for some reason. Email her and ask. You'll have a higher chance of getting your wish.

Good luck.

then he wouldn't have had time to complain about it here!

however like Courtney said why not send a pm via P411 if you are a member or email her directly.
While it would be nice to be able to look at a website and know where her homebase and/or touring cities are  sometimes providers don't mention it.I mention my homebase at the top of my website to avoid confusion perhaps she has not updated her ter profile to change the cities.

... and I'm running into the same thing. And along with multiple cities, there are different rates on many of the sites. It sucks when a provider's own personal website's rates don't jive with her P411 profile rates (that she just updated today!).

It can certainly be frustrating and time consuming trying to figure out what's current and what's not.

I've seen a few ladies who offer an incentive to those who request an appt via their P411 account and it's not identified on their website.  Personally, when I see different rates on different sites, I will validate which site had the rate that is in my best interest (call me selfish, but part of this is a business transaction so I will treat it as such).  Then it's up to her to clarify.

I'd think you could tactfully and romantically inquire as to whether there's any chance she might be coming to your city or a city near you. After all, it's you that has to start the conversation, right?  

So listen to Ms Ova and others and come back and tell us how you fared. And for my final piece of advice. On second thought I'll refrain

I don't know why. Maybe it's easier for a provider to update her current city on P411. There's a lady who is now in Detroit most of the year, but occasionally gets back to Los Angeles. When she is in Los Angeles the city listed changes. Not so with her incall location and outcall area. Those still will show Detroit areas. So maybe changing that is more cumbersome.

...I still get asked where I am. OR I get asked about a whole city on dates it's clear i'm touring somewhere else.
No I WILL not be in Richmond on October 29th because if you'd read my fuckin' calendar you'd see Portland Maine is where i'll be around that time! :) Well my actual response would be MUCH nicer but ...

Thanks for the discussion everyone.  I now realize something I did not express.  I work at a place where we may receive 100 resumes applying for one job.  Now I realize that being a hobbyist is like looking at dozens if not more resumes per day, not to mention reading reviews and everything else you can find if you become interested.  So just one little thing---a misspelling in a resume applying for a job, or not being able to figure out where you're based and where you are if you're a provider---is just a little deal-breaker when one has this long list of potentially wonderful people to get through.  That's it, basically.  Yes, I can send her an e-mail to ask where she is at any one time, but someone like that is making me jump through a hoop others don't.  And do you know how many e-mails are sent without a response?  Lots.

To end on a positive note about great marketing: two providers who travel have lately started to send me (and no doubt every other contact they have in Vegas) an e-mail alerting me when they'll be in Vegas.  Another does that by text.  That's proactive and no doubt productive marketing.  Cheers, kids.

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