Most sites like this and others have a ladies only it provider only room that gives the ladies a chance to share info in private where us mongers can't see. This is good for them. Some sites have a similar men's room only. Sane concept. The only issue would be "leakers". Those who blab what should not be blabbed. Make sense?
Conduct yourself respectfully, always pay correct donation, obey her rules, and be safe and you don't have to worry about what the ladies think about you. They won't say whether they think you are hott, have a great or small dick, or if you brought them to an O. Mostly if they feel a guy is a risk or shady.Take care.
I seem to remember a provider showing me a website where she was able to rate and comment on clients. But now I can't remember its address or name. Any help?
Thanks
Fish
Maybe it's for a provider who just got ripped off by client.
but there are any number of black list sites where providers can inform on bad actor clients for anything from being a time waster up to armed robbery/rape
All they do is suck in money from whomever they can sucker into paying. No useful info to be gained, only business to be lost.
There are blacklist sites that are completely useless and can easily be manipulated. There are even worse sites that are simply scams to extort money from those who are listed there. Then there are a couple that are reasonably well run and provide a decent service. No single statement above fits all.
People should try not to speak in absolutes.
Yes: They absolutely thrive on Fear and Negativit
I do know the information on the BlackList is only as good as the mental condition of the girl who typed it in.
Girls have different levels of sensitivity, anxiety, and anger.
Someone may get BlackListed for saying the wrong thing, on the wrong day, to the wrong girl.
I read the information and then have to make my Own Decision on whether to see the guy or not.
Some hookers believe that EVERYTHING written about a "bad" hobbyist is true, regardless of the circumstances and some johns believe that ALL hookers lie and that NOTHING on the BL sites is worth taking seriously. Most rational people realize that the truth is somewhere in between.
i'm an impeccable gentleman with all my dates, have never done anything untoward. but one prospective date told me i was on a blacklist for shorting someone, which i have never, ever, ever done in my life.
so stuff happens. there's plenty of fish in the sea.
If not a TER member, the maybe-ripped off Provider should sign up and post "minimal" info to her local board. I can't recreate previous posts, but something like, "I met with a client who [provide some cryptic or partial info] "has a phone number ending in 123" or "has an email account with the name of a popular zoo animal." He left me an envelope full of Monopoly money!"
Other providers often reply with "I know who you mean. You are not his only victim. He uses other numbers and emails but it's all the same guy. PM me for more info" (as in, he's already on a list, let me help you). Or "Sorry that happened to you. See my website and contact me and I can help you spread the word." (as in, put the guy on a list). And stuff like that.
If she wants to sign up with a "real" Provider name and PAY for VIP she can also create an alias and get PMs
Maybe is or really is for a ripped off Provider? Provider rip offs have been discussed on the boards before.
Extremely Dangerous Client! - by MadisonMalone, 9/6/2016 8:41:28 PM
If you really know someone who has something to report, she can bring it to TER for help and advice.
Most sites like this and others have a ladies only it provider only room that gives the ladies a chance to share info in private where us mongers can't see. This is good for them. Some sites have a similar men's room only. Sane concept. The only issue would be "leakers". Those who blab what should not be blabbed. Make sense?
Conduct yourself respectfully, always pay correct donation, obey her rules, and be safe and you don't have to worry about what the ladies think about you. They won't say whether they think you are hott, have a great or small dick, or if you brought them to an O. Mostly if they feel a guy is a risk or shady.
Take care.