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Re: The girls I see . . . .
salmonking1962 1 Reviews 572 reads
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I appreciate the provider taking care of it , then bringing a warm cloth and cleaning area. Followed by cuddling until round 2:) good question btw

Ok, so what is your preference clients and providers when it comes to this?
Do you prefer to have your provider take off your orgasmed in condom and grab a wipe etc, or do you prefer to take care of it yourself. For me, this has been a tough one.
On one hand, I love going the extra mile, and doing anything in my power to really "take care" of my client. Taking off the condom, disposing of etc, is just another way to put the "full" in full service. However, from a GFE perspective, it doesn't quite fit the description of girlfriend material. It is a bit mechanical, and requires me to separate from you, dispose of it etc.  

Dying to know what the poll says.

take it off themselves.  By the time I finish, they realize I'm a little clumsy and they're afraid I might spill it all over their incall.  I'm okay with that as long as I don't see them putting it in the freezer or in the drawer with the turkey baster.

 

***Seriously, your instinct to go the extra mile to take care of your client is correct.

I appreciate the provider taking care of it , then bringing a warm cloth and cleaning area. Followed by cuddling until round 2:) good question btw

....but I do appreciate it when my GFE provider gives my kitty a nice spit-shine after we're done. My kitty really likes it.  
Makes her purrrrrrrrrr.

i don't mind taking the condom off myself.  i do appreciate the lady getting me a warm cloth or kleenex to wipe up the mess.

i was having an otherwise stellar session with a wonderful girl, but after i finished, she left it up to me to get up, dispose of the condom and find myself some towels to wipe up.  i am used to my lady friends supplying the clean up materials.  it wasn't a big deal, but it did kind of throw me because she was the only woman i ever encountered that didn't volunteer without asking to get me some clean up cloths.

as i say, it's no deal breaker.

making her have to pull it out.  

Posted By: Sugar-julia
Ok, so what is your preference clients and providers when it comes to this?  
 Do you prefer to have your provider take off your orgasmed in condom and grab a wipe etc, or do you prefer to take care of it yourself. For me, this has been a tough one.  
 On one hand, I love going the extra mile, and doing anything in my power to really "take care" of my client. Taking off the condom, disposing of etc, is just another way to put the "full" in full service. However, from a GFE perspective, it doesn't quite fit the description of girlfriend material. It is a bit mechanical, and requires me to separate from you, dispose of it etc.  
   
 Dying to know what the poll says.

Generally, I can and do take care of the condom myself.  However, I certainly appreciate any offers by the ladies to assist even if I decline the offer.  So in most cases I don't think you can go wrong by offering and following the gentleman's lead on his preference.

Now if we were involved in some activity without a condom when I went off (BJ, HJ, BLS, etc.) and I end up a mess, that is different in my view.  In those cases, I do expect or at least hope for some assistance from the lady such as fetching me a hot wet wash cloth.  And if she doesn't offer a hot wash cloth, I will ask her to do it anyway.  It's not exactly GFE per se, but it is a service that I appreciate.  And you are service providers after all.

But I do very much appreciate, and to be completely honest, kind of expect her to get a wash cloth to clean me up after she's gone to spit and/or clean herself up.

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Posted By: Sugar-julia
Ok, so what is your preference clients and providers when it comes to this?  
 Do you prefer to have your provider take off your orgasmed in condom and grab a wipe etc, or do you prefer to take care of it yourself. For me, this has been a tough one.  
 On one hand, I love going the extra mile, and doing anything in my power to really "take care" of my client. Taking off the condom, disposing of etc, is just another way to put the "full" in full service. However, from a GFE perspective, it doesn't quite fit the description of girlfriend material. It is a bit mechanical, and requires me to separate from you, dispose of it etc.  
   
 Dying to know what the poll says.

Before the appointment, I'll sometimes fill a well-insulated thermos with warm/hot water and place it in the bathroom so that I won't be waiting for the faucet water to heat up after a round. Just speeds things up, especially in the winter.  A high-quality thermos will retain heat just fine and is far less conspicuous in a hotel than a washcloth heater.

I am perfectly happy to have the provider remove the condom and bring me a hot towel while I relax, to me it doesn't break the GFE mood at all. It just seems like a nice thing a girlfriend would do anyway.

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