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Even though I don't use dildos much either in RL or during sessions....
lopaw 29 Reviews 333 reads
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...I'd much rather see a provider sporting one than see a guy in a photo.  
On the right girl a dildo can be quite hot ;)

Inquiring minds want to know... ;)

Does it turn you off more or less than seeing a provider pose with a man?

Does it depend on whether the dildo is harnessed to her pubic region or attached to a wall with her lips wrapped around it?  Or perhaps with the lady poised to take it inside of her?

Are dildos too crude and literal?  Do you prefer a banana, cucumber, ice cream cone or popsicle instead?

Does it matter whether the dildo is realistic or colorful & playful looking?

Enlighten us, guys (& Lopaw)... :D

To the dildo resting between her thighs.  
This whole entire business is crude... So what exactly are you trying to say there? I can see the discomfort in another man being in provider photos but getting all wet with tears about a provider posing with a strap on and dildos is a bit of a reach.  

If it were me and the lady had other photos I wouldn't pay it any mind because it obviously isn't being marketed to me. Obviously she has clientele that enjoy that sort of thing. So she posts a photo to tantalize those specific clients

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There is no "discomfort" for me no matter what kind of ads a provider posts, some things turn me on however and others turn me off. A guy in the pic, especially if the guy occupies a prominent part of the pic is a total turnoff. Dildos are less of a turn off, but certainly NOT a turn on to me.

Now a woman wearing a strap on in her ads is a total turnoff, and it's VERY unlikely I would ever respond to such an ad, but as you said, Obviously I am NOT the kind of client such a provider is attempting to target. That said, most ads are designed to appeal to as broad a segment of potential customers as possible, running off potential customers is not what MOST advertisers are trying to do. Advertisers in "niche" markets are a different story of course.

The porn I do does not include a penis.

My data says that men  love to watch their woman have mind-blowing ORGASMS, REAL ORGASMS,  
                       when they are together, or on screen

open a whole new world of possibilities

But it depends on how they are done.  I think the pics on your personal website are well done, BTW.  It's good to have a few of those mixed in with other pics without any props.  I probably prefer seeing a dildo to a man in the pics, but both can work just fine for me to the extent that it's basically just a prop to bring out another angle of your best qualities.
   
I seem to prefer the pics that evoke oral imagery much more than the strap-on imagery.  Maybe that would be a different story if I wanted a MFF with you or if I wanted you to take me from behind with a strap-on.

A well done pic of a girl with a popsicle or an ice cream cone can be extremely sexy.  I'll pass on the fruit and vegetables.  To each his own, but that doesn't do anything for me.

Realistic or colorful and playful looking don't seem to make any difference to me.

These pictures are a marketing tool, so whether they will work for you personally depends not so much on whether guys in general like them, but whether the guys in your target market like them.  With the natural hair look, you are a niche provider.  Personally, I like some bush but I like it trimmed at the edges, trimmed in length, and usually shaven at the lower part for DATY.  I'll take a pass on armpit and leg hair.  Tastes vary on this and some guys not only love fully natural but will pay extra to get it because it's so rare these days.  So what you really need to figure out is how guys that love the full natural look feel about pics with dildos.  Maybe their preferences will dictate a love of natural fruits and vegetables, who knows?  I'll be interested in seeing some of the responses.

Good luck

...I'd much rather see a provider sporting one than see a guy in a photo.  
On the right girl a dildo can be quite hot ;)

I don't really care how explicit the photos are, as long as they give me a good idea of a provider's appearance and personality.  The man in the picture is a riskier endeavor with me, unless they're like the black and whites in the thread below.

Are bisexual, it just tells me she likes sausage at least as much as tacos, so it would militate in favor of me seeing her.

....would it matter if she were sporting one for someone else's pleasure rather than using that dildo on herself? Would it make a difference

The benefit of any doubt that if they are displaying "insertables" on their website that they would enjoy using them in themselves. It's still not a guarantee that a provider is not an outright Lesbian who merely "tolerates" sex with men because it pays well, but is just one if the things that would tilt the scale in her favor.

I like seeing that the lady is horny and the knowledge that she pleasures herself, whether true or fantasy, gets me excited

I think its good to mix it up - I tend to do 3-4 looks per shoot and generally only one of the "looks" includes a strapon.

Then another "look" might have a hand held toy or suggestive prop (I recently shot with a bubble wand, which I would NEVER stick in someone's ass, but it sure looks hot).

I know that photos of me wearing a strap on alienate the guys who don't want to suck my dick, don't enjoy gender fluidity or versatility, or are uncomfortable with the thought of someone (no matter how cute, how sexy, how sensual and skillful I am) playing with their ass.

For me, that is the point of generating new photos: diverting the folks who are looking for something different from what I offer, excel at and really enjoy but MAGNETIZING the individuals and couples who are into the same things as me.

xoxox
Tori

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I love when women wear their strap-on in pictures! So sexy!

Thought I checkout your website and you look amazing ... who needs matching shoes😉

There are  few housewives buying a cucumbers ..
 First one :
- Please, may I have one - longer.. but not so wide?
The Second :
-And I please, do prefer cucumber to be not so long yet thick ..
Third one :
- and for me please, it has to have small bumps all over and thicket to the end ..

And last one  
- I just cooking today and need it for a salad.

All that post about bananas  haha reminded me this anecdote.

Myself I would never have pictures with dildos in the add  for public view.

 yet I would share privately such and would suggest a use of those toyes..

And  do love when men makes a presents - toys - for our ONLY use.

 I cant stand - when I am asked if I have toyes and I need to bring those toys on the date - i do point him - how comfy you are to use those used toys?  
 His response is - are those YOUR toys ? and you use them ONLy for you ?
 Common .. as he do not know how those toys are used.
 I just cancel date with him at all.
My dates asking me  what they have to buy for us - or reposting money for me to buy  those toys what he wants to have on date.
used on other clients toys? even if it a condoms and washed?  
OMG .. No ... no no..

But I already asked once to help me to produce pace of art and I need for that no less then may be 500 vibrators.. new once -post was removed.  
If you as community want have this peace of art and honor our hobby and TER and so it would be in musuim one day - lets create this all together.  
talk to me about this project with vibrators - we need find fund to produce this peace of art.  
 yet with new Vibrators - not used Please...

Posted By: Zoey Zacquery
Inquiring minds want to know... ;)  
   
... Or perhaps with the lady poised to take it inside of her?  
   
 Are dildos too crude and literal?  Do you prefer a banana, cucumber, ice cream cone or popsicle instead?....  
   
...horny or hungry! (haha)

But to answer your question, my reaction depends upon how big it is.

Some years ago, while visiting a couple of friends who attended UC Berkeley, we took a trip to SF and do the tourist thing by spending the day in the downtown area perusing stores. I was wearing dark shades so my eyes had to take a moment to adjust as I walked into the stores.

I had no idea where I was or where I was going - just followed my friends. So I'm taking in the sights looking all around when I notice they're no longer in front of me. I then look into the doorway of this store and see them so I head on in. After the moment I walk in I do a sudden stop as my eyes started to adjust and start seeing dildos in all sizes all over the place with some over 3 ft. tall.  

Without realizing it, the words OOOH, MY, GODDDD! loudly came out of my mouth. Next thing I know, all these women in there turned around at stared at me.

Oops!  (lol

FatVern221 reads

The last thing I want to see is a strap-on, I scan pictures from top to bottom, nothing ruins the image of a woman, more than something that looks like a penis. Except a real penis.

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Iheartsports317 reads

it has it's perks.  

Most guys probably will pass on it but the guys who like it will LOVE it.
I learned when you step outside the box be prepared you might lose some however the ones you gain will appreciate it

Smallfish279 reads

Any kind.  Any shape.  Any color.  Whatever makes her happy.

And if she brings her favorite toy along for our appointment....even better.

Posted By: Zoey Zacquery

   
 Are dildos too crude and literal?  Do you prefer a banana, cucumber, ice cream cone or popsicle instead?  
 
And no they aren't too crude or literal for me. But skip the strap-on. Those are.

Now I do prefer food over dildos. I have a huge food fetish and the site of an attractive lady playing intimately with her food I'd a huge, huge turn on. Yes to the banana. Yes to the cucumber. Yes to the popsicle. And a huge yes to the ice cream cone

...posed insertion is cool...instead of "items" i always prefer a tongue...providers that advertise with toys usually get a message from me of some sort,just to see where we can go..i use toys with "non hobby" girls that i date....fun for everyone!!!

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