Panthera 12, yes we can with a big bottle of wine of course. You are very smart. I just have to learn not to Re-Act to the way you express things. You definitely get everyone's attention........I remember when I got a DUI long ago, I went to an AA meeting in Charlotte very late at night. There was a Nun who ask everyone to try to express themselves without using fowl language or cursing.
This one guy did express himself, and I did understand every word he said. He opened the room up with his emotions and I thought it was great. After the meeting when I was leaving and feeling very Spiritual, the Nun stopped me and said, "I hope you were not offended" "These are the only words that some people have to express themselves" I told her it was one of the best meetings I had been to and it if this person had not been there, then I would not have gotten the message I needed at the time. So....living outside the box, being misunderstood and confused at times, many times is just part of being a highly evolved person..........I love your humor to.........Thanks, KelleyI was recently with a provider, one that I have seen on several occasions, but the last two times I have noticed an odor from her vagina. I know she is a clean person and there is no presence of the odor during DATY, but once intercourse begins I start to notice the odor. I have been around a long time and know there is always a slight odor, but this gets to be very strong and starts to be a turn off. How can I let her know about this without upsetting her? She is a sweet young lady, but I am surprised she has not noticed the odor. Any advice would be much appreciated.
How many flies have you eaten and kept silent? Don't worry about her feelings. You are nothing more then an envelope to her so just come out and tell her that it stinks. If you can't man up to a hooker, then move on and find one that is clean.
Here are the issues as I see it:
- something may or may not be off in her coochie
- telling her could offend her or embarrass her
- not telling her means you probably won't see her again
How to tell her tactfully so you might see her again:
- maybe email her with a link to this? that might backfire though seeing you were posting about it
- email her mentioning you were concerned for her health and explain she may need medical attention
- offer to maybe take her: it can be embarrassing to even make the call for help
- suggest maybe it was an off day, maybe she had noticed too, is everything ok now (or something)
Good Luck - Be Safe
I am not trying to be rude. I guess it how you say something. Words are containers of power, they can make or break your day. Speak Life to those who cross your path........An encouraging word is what can bring life to someone, a discouraging word.......you no, fuck up your day.......Kelley
Wait, whether you want or dont want to see her again... Still tell her!!
Aria, Drew, Panthera... Wow Ya'll make me laugh....
Julia.. Spot on!!
Stay warm everyone
Bi