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On the flip side I love to mix DFK and a little LFK but I've met gents who didn't like to DFK.-e-
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...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had
dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....

What did the other reviews say? was there lots of kissing involved. is your dental hygiene an issue ?

She was a 80 dollar special but want a exter 100 for kissing I call her up after so I pass on her.

Posted By: mrposition
...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had  
 dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....

If their reviews indicated that they normally DFK, but they didn't for you, then I would wonder. Or, if they stated the no kissing/DFK rules right after kissing you a bit. If that's not the case, maybe they just happened to have rules that existed before and it's nothing against you. Your last review was quite recent and it sounds like you got plenty of DFK. Has anything changed since then? (Diet, drinking, smoking, etc.)

I can't imagine doing this without kissing, but I'm sure there are some providers that would find my menu puzzling.

-- Modified on 8/17/2016 7:18:26 PM

Many men seem to think that aggressively tasting a girl's tonsils is erotic, which might explain why some girls aren't into it. Kissing should be teasing, slow, and gentle (in my professional opinion).

-- Modified on 8/17/2016 10:25:30 PM

Posted By: mrposition
...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had  
 dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....

John_Laroche327 reads

and she ended up getting the millionaire.

“Everything, but I don’t kiss on the mouth.”

-- Modified on 8/17/2016 8:43:51 PM

FatVern316 reads

I can't trrust a gal who doen't kiss

Guys if you want an authentic experience it doesn't pay you to book an hour and then 10 minutes after arriving shove your tongue down a girls throat and tickle her tonsils. If you want something not faked, and I guess not all of you care much about that either way, my advice is to book painlessly and for as long as you can afford, arrive punctually as minty fresh as your day has allowed, be nice and complimentary, a little friendly chit chat and banter, touch, and lead into the DFK with some LFK first. Check up front before booking if this is on the agenda to start with though.
It is a really intimate part of sex for us gals and it's like the guy who lays you down and shoves his fingers inside you when dry - very unpleasant!!

I hate it when a guy tries to shove his tongue down my throat.  When it happens, I pull back and work to direct him on how I like to be kissed, gently.   If he still doesn't get it, and continues with the tongue shove --no more kissing because I won't be able to move forward if I'm turned off.

You guys want an authentic experience not fake, right?

-- Modified on 8/18/2016 12:37:10 PM

In my last 2 experiences, it was the provider shoving her tongue down my throat - the most recent one literally after I closed the door to the room. It was a bit of a turn-off for me - like  you ladies, I like to get a little comfortable with someone before getting down to....you know...

Posted By: olivialeon
I hate it when a guy tries to shove his tongue down my throat.  When it happens, I pull back and work to direct him on how I like to be kissed, gently.   If he still doesn't get it, and continues with the tongue shove --no more kissing because I won't be able to move forward if I'm turned off.  
   
 You guys want an authentic experience not fake, right?  

-- Modified on 8/18/2016 12:37:10 PM

Odds are, that's the ticket.

Avoid garlic as much as possible.   It gets into and stays in your blood stream for several days and is transferred to your breath via the lungs, so no amount of brushing or mouth wash is going to help.

A number of years ago I endeavored to focus on my oral health and the results are palpable.  A lot of gals that didn't like to kiss now kiss up a storm with me, to our mutual pleasure

Garlic, onions, coffee and cigarettes linger long after they are gone.

my ritual is to carry a toothbrush & toothpaste & small container of mouthwash in my car at all times.

just before i go up to the lady's incall, i give my mouth a quick brushing and quick gargle.

the only time kissing has been an issue with me was with a lady who wanted to upsell for dfk.  needless to say i never saw her again (other issues w/her as well, tho she did get me stoned afterwards lol)

Ha! oral hygiene has NEVER been a problem...i've just met a few gals that didnt want to kiss at all!-just have sex-!i thought that was strange....just wanted to know if people like having sex with kissing...

Posted By: mrposition
...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had  
 dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....

For some, kissing is as intimate as, if not more than, intercourse. We both love it and can't imagine not doing it. We have found that people have different preferences about what they like. Some actually like soft tender kisses with limited tongue. Others like FCK--Full Contact Kissing with extreme tongue involvement. And, btw, it cuts across both genders. Some of the most aggressive kissers we have enjoyed were very petite women.

In the end, we agree with you, we can't not doing it when we get together.

FatVern345 reads

Now if I could only get her to return.

Gypsybbw430 reads

It's weird before I started doing this work I never ever kissed during sex... Always thought that it was only something that you would do if you were in a long-term relationship. But now I'm very big into kissing and I do kiss with most of my clients. I feel as if though it breaks the tension and nerves if you're meeting someone for the first time and it also creates a greater connection for a date.

Now i think its hot😜

Posted By: mrposition
...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had  
 dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....

Posted By: mrposition
...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had  
 dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....
I do think oral hygiene is very important but so is lip hygiene. I have found that many men past the age of 50 neglect their lips. Perhaps it's because they don't look in the mirror as often as they used to, or so I have been told, but regardless, lips are always important. Just think about how much you love to look and kiss a woman with beautiful soft taken-care-of lips…why wouldn't you want to give her the same? So exfoliate and keep those things moist, but not too moist (super wet kisses are a little off-putting). Chapstick is a must and keep it clean, check the corners of your mouth if you've been eating recently. Just try to make yourself the way you'd want her to be and things should go well.  

I have many times wanted to instruct or help clients with kissing techniques and the like, but when you're in a situation where someone is paying, it feels like the advice may not be welcome or it may not be your place to make suggestions. So it's a hard place to be in, just remember that asking is always a possibility and most experienced ladies can handle a conversation like that with grace.  

My advice is to always go in soft and work your way up to more aggressive kissing if your partner seems receptive. And of course as others have said, keep the tongue in check and let her set the tone. And no one kisses or likes kissing like they do in porn…at least I don't know anyone who does.

Posted By: EstellaAyrs
 I have many times wanted to instruct or help clients with kissing techniques and the like, but when you're in a situation where someone is paying, it feels like the advice may not be welcome or it may not be your place to make suggestions.
maybe you should offer classes w/field work.  i'd take one!

beach is better than kissing in a field, IMO.

Sometimes I just go for a fbsm finding a girl that will at least be nude. I figure I don't want to have sex/intercourse if there's no kissing or kissing without tongue. I'm a Scorpio, there must be kissing.  

Posted By: mrposition
...girls...is it me or what????-i love kissing-but in the last few wks" i've had  
 dates where kissing has been an issue???-(cant imagine fucking without it!)!...had a date that would kiss but no tongue..date that would suck but not kiss...is being good kisser that important?....

Have you brushed your teeth in the past couple of hours? Flossed? Mouthwash in the parking lot before you enter?

Do you let her open the door, let her say hello, then tongue fuck her esophagus? Do you let her breathe, close the door before you play tonsil hocker?

 
If none of these are you, to each their own.  
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