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5 or 10 mins early is not a problem for me I'll say come on up
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Posted By: capsde58
This is a small subject, but it's something that has always played a factor in having appointments. When determining how long it will take for me to get to the incall , I frequently give myself too much time getting there. I end up getting to the incall location (Hotel) 10 minutes before the actual set start time.  
  I don't have too many issues
I am usually always ready early  
If you don't want to sit in the parking lot early go to get a coffee/soda and text your provider and tell her you are around the corner  
I would do that or drive around
I guess you also think about getting your full hour, I would if I were a guy.
The gentlemen who visit me don't have that worry.
Just do your best
The fact that you are thinking about tjis is a good sign that you are considerate and also looking out for your safety
 This is a pet peeve for some ladies, and for some it's not. I do realize that you ladies may not be ready for us guys if we get there early, but it's only because we want to get there on time. I will say it's nerve wracking for me sometimes.  
   
 I set an 8pm appt. and get there between 7:50 and 7:55. I park the car, and text a lady that I'm there. She's still getting ready which means I have to be on stand-by for another few minutes. Waiting in a parked car in a hotel parking can be noticeable by some and can raise suspicion.  
   
 Are we the hobbyists the ones at fault for this happening? Most likely yes. So please ladies, take in consideration that the only reason some of us may end up arriving 5-10 minutes early is only because we don't want to be late. We take your consideration for meeting us very seriously, and do our best to be on time so that you won't get upset. We tend to overestimate our travel time mainly due to traffic and whatever route we take to get there. I'm not complaining, I just wanted to get it out there. So please do not take this the wrong way.  
 With that being said, do any of you ladies have any tips on how to handle this type of situation? And guys, do you ever face this predicament?  

This is a small subject, but it's something that has always played a factor in having appointments. When determining how long it will take for me to get to the incall , I frequently give myself too much time getting there. I end up getting to the incall location (Hotel) 10 minutes before the actual set start time.  

This is a pet peeve for some ladies, and for some it's not. I do realize that you ladies may not be ready for us guys if we get there early, but it's only because we want to get there on time. I will say it's nerve wracking for me sometimes.  

I set an 8pm appt. and get there between 7:50 and 7:55. I park the car, and text a lady that I'm there. She's still getting ready which means I have to be on stand-by for another few minutes. Waiting in a parked car in a hotel parking can be noticeable by some and can raise suspicion.  

Are we the hobbyists the ones at fault for this happening? Most likely yes. So please ladies, take in consideration that the only reason some of us may end up arriving 5-10 minutes early is only because we don't want to be late. We take your consideration for meeting us very seriously, and do our best to be on time so that you won't get upset. We tend to overestimate our travel time mainly due to traffic and whatever route we take to get there. I'm not complaining, I just wanted to get it out there. So please do not take this the wrong way.  
With that being said, do any of you ladies have any tips on how to handle this type of situation? And guys, do you ever face this predicament?

Posted By: capsde58
This is a small subject, but it's something that has always played a factor in having appointments. When determining how long it will take for me to get to the incall , I frequently give myself too much time getting there. I end up getting to the incall location (Hotel) 10 minutes before the actual set start time.  
  I don't have too many issues
I am usually always ready early  
If you don't want to sit in the parking lot early go to get a coffee/soda and text your provider and tell her you are around the corner  
I would do that or drive around
I guess you also think about getting your full hour, I would if I were a guy.
The gentlemen who visit me don't have that worry.
Just do your best
The fact that you are thinking about tjis is a good sign that you are considerate and also looking out for your safety
 This is a pet peeve for some ladies, and for some it's not. I do realize that you ladies may not be ready for us guys if we get there early, but it's only because we want to get there on time. I will say it's nerve wracking for me sometimes.  
   
 I set an 8pm appt. and get there between 7:50 and 7:55. I park the car, and text a lady that I'm there. She's still getting ready which means I have to be on stand-by for another few minutes. Waiting in a parked car in a hotel parking can be noticeable by some and can raise suspicion.  
   
 Are we the hobbyists the ones at fault for this happening? Most likely yes. So please ladies, take in consideration that the only reason some of us may end up arriving 5-10 minutes early is only because we don't want to be late. We take your consideration for meeting us very seriously, and do our best to be on time so that you won't get upset. We tend to overestimate our travel time mainly due to traffic and whatever route we take to get there. I'm not complaining, I just wanted to get it out there. So please do not take this the wrong way.  
 With that being said, do any of you ladies have any tips on how to handle this type of situation? And guys, do you ever face this predicament?  

I guess it makes a difference if I had my own place like I used to in Greensboro, I would greet my dates at the door fresh out of the shower and in my "Birthday Suit" Yet, if I am having to drive to a location for an in-call which I really do not do that much...........It may take time for me to check in. And I have no control over that.

I have no control over the traffic when traveling and most people do not. People are in a rush during the day, have to get back to work, and they may run into traffic or may not get out of the office on time............etc

Other factors..............they may not have a clean room until..........or the
The lady in front is having a long conversation with the Front desk Clerk and he does not seem to see the line of other people wanting to check in.--

I think it is probably best to spend the night there before or have a permanent  outcall location. Unless you travel, which I have never done.........That is my 2 cents........Kelley

-- Modified on 1/12/2015 5:41:23 AM

Ohhh, I so wish I would be met at an in-call by a provider in their Birthday suit.... SCHWANG!!!! But most in-calls I have been to have been hotels, so it's usually woman behind door in something more modest than a birthday suit.

Now, the real adventurous of you women may contemplate meeting at an out-call and knocking on the door in your birthday suit

Birthday suit...........Yes that was perfect for me because I did not have to think. I would get up in the morning, hop in the shower, I would leave the door unlocked just so no one would have to wait, and much to my surprise, I would be greeted with a warm welcome. Wet hair, no makeup, and a heated morning wake up call...........Gosh, Location, location, location.  

It goes to show that the people I saw loved more than just the so called "Model" I even had someone show me how to put dimmer switches in........The Naked Electrician.........Fun, fun, fun.....that is what it is all about for me.........Kelley

I time my "pre-play" shower so I'm out and dressed within the hour of starting, but there is nothing wrong with just coming out of the shower. I'd prefer that to the alternative.

Posted By: kelleywhite
Birthday suit...........Yes that was perfect for me because I did not have to think. I would get up in the morning, hop in the shower, I would leave the door unlocked just so no one would have to wait, and much to my surprise, I would be greeted with a warm welcome. Wet hair, no makeup, and a heated morning wake up call...........Gosh, Location, location, location.  
   
 It goes to show that the people I saw loved more than just the so called "Model" I even had someone show me how to put dimmer switches in........The Naked Electrician.........Fun, fun, fun.....that is what it is all about for me.........Kelley

... drive around a little more or if they are not there yet but realize they are going to be early they make a stop to get something like snacks for us or something (even though I usually have some). I've had guys show up like 15mins early expecting me to just like come on up....15mins can be a huge deal if she's still getting ready and you don't want to get your provider all frazzled trying to hurry up. Trust I don't like the idea of someone sitting parked and waiting to come up either.    

That being said right on time is most ideal, A LITTLE early is fine, late is the worst. You don't have to wait in your car...walk to a store nearby if possible or go in and get some coffee etc.

-- Modified on 1/12/2015 5:36:14 PM

Every hotel has a restroom off the lobby: use it!  Take a seat and text away, keep pants on if worried.

Go to the lobby and take a seat to watch TV for a bit.  Usually have free coffee too.

Chat with the front desk about weather, travel, checkout times, breakfast times.

Before going up pretend to call someone, "Bob, I'm tired of waiting down here, you got a bottle, right?  I'm coming up."

If exiting elevator with others, pretend to text like a teenager and walk like a drunken sailor.  That explains why you went the wrong way down the hallway and had to backtrack.  Or just own it with confidence.

At the door can knock and say "honey I forgot the key" if she doesn't have the door already opened but someone is nearby.

Like you, I arrive early to allow for traffic, flat tires, bad directions, wrong hotel, etc.  Will detour on the way if too early and park to take a phone call or text an important business message if anyone asks -- but no one ever has.  Then go to hotel so I'm 5 minutes early, and text or await call using variations of the above.

You do have some valid points. Although I wouldn't be so sure about lingering around the lobby and engaging in a conversation with the front desk. I feel a bit exposed whenever I go thru the lobby and I avoid to attract attention. I wouldn't want to strike up a convo with the front desk either. They could easily become inquisitive on why you're there. And for all you know after you end the convo to head up to the room, they could easily check the camera's to see where you're going. I do fake a phone call and a text message whenever I walk through and it works, but I still keep an eye out for those suspicious of my presence. I may sound paranoid, but the truth is that the less exposed you are the better.

Although there is one scenario that played out for me very well. Back in July I went to see a provider out in RTP who was staying right by 40. As it turns out a school group was staying at the hotel. The lobby was full of people from the group, and the front desk lady was too pre-occupied to notice me slip by. That is a sure fire way to sneak in

I have had a provider make me wait.  Had one to make me wait as much as 15 minutes before she provided me her room number.  Nothing like sitting in a hotel parking lot in 90 degree plus temperature waiting.  My truck a/c was broke and I finally broke down and waited in the lobby.  Needless to say, I requested to take a shower before the fun began

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