What is the best way to handle the donation for a dinner date? Wait until we get back to the room, or how do the providers respond to that?
I have heard bad stories about giving the donation out prior to being in the room. Providers heading for the exit after receiving the donation.
I have heard bad stories about giving the donation out prior to being in the room. Providers heading for the exit after receiving the donation.
Seriously, when has anyone heard of a well-reviewed provider doing a dine and dash?
Reminds me of a blond with a fat ass I saw last week, working the drive thru.
Something about that McDonald's uniform that turns me on.
That's why you're FATvern.....
My best advice is to use someone who is verified and has good reviews so you know she's legit. It's very important that she receive your donation upfront so she doesn't spend the whole date wondering if you're sincere.
Personally, I like to receive the donation at the start of dinner. Put it in a nice card or gift bag and just exchange that way. Nothin weird about that. Plus, any provider worth her salt won't run on you after you've given her the donation!
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What do you do if you get burned on a diner date, provided the meal was paid for?
Not the sort of person I'd want an ongoing thing with.
I have heard bad stories about giving the donation out prior to being in the room. Providers heading for the exit after receiving the donation.
Not a question of getting lucky or a reduced rate (except the usual multiple hour rate), it's just nice to get acquainted with her (or catch up, depending), and look forward to what's in store.
But yes, get the donation out of the way at the beginning of the evening.
One downer I had was in my hotel room one time when I put the envelope in plain sight on the nightstand, but she just didn't see it while I was off to the bath. So things went along, and then in the middle of things she asked about it. I pointed to the envelope thinking she'd already checked it out, and all was fine. But the interruption was awkward and sort of broke the spell. Not romantic that way.
If you're willing to do incall, grab some carry out and head to her place. Also, there are some ladies that offer dinner at their place, on them 
I offer dinner and it not only saves more time for play but it's really easy. No to and from the restaurant and I highly doubt she'll haul ass out of her own place lol it really only takes a cab ride or uber if you're not in your home city or you don't have a car with you.
Hope this helps
XOXO,
TL
..."Thought you might enjoy reading this when you have time." Of course, I only date providers who know how to read. Lol
I love this idea, I'd love if someone gave me a good book to read!
a book or a card or some little gift that can easily contain bills. not a big problem.
of course i usually have some fun time w/my lady before we go to dinner (the blue pill works best on an empty stomach) so it's not a problem for me.
...and make her flip through 1,200 pages looking for the donation.
yesterday's dinner-concert date was cancelled due to a brief stay in the hospital. Plan on revisiting soon as soon as tomorrow night.
My first ... I usually just monger along, but this honey is just too interesting for me to ignore. All time highest trust factor too.
I guess I'd prefer to have the donation before playtime begins. Whether that's before dinner, or when we first arrive behind closed doors, doesn't matter to me. But if I've screened you, and feel comfortable with you, the donation shouldn't be an issue. (There was one recent exception - I got a bad vibe. Also when I worked w/an agency, I always wanted the donation upfront unless I was told he was a regular client, or something. Because those were people I didn't know and some of them hadn't been screened well, or even at all.)
If you're giving it to her at the start of the date, hand it to her discreetly - in a greeting card, perhaps - or buy her something small, like chocolates, and include the donation in the gift bag.
If you do some research, you should definitely be able to assure yourself that she won't grab the donation and dash. And you definitely want to research well, just to make sure that 1) She won't embarrass you while you're in public (I've heard stories about ladies trying to solicit business while on paid public dates - these were NOT reputable independents but more fly-by-night type girls), and 2) That you guys will have enough in common to have an enjoyable conversation.
I'd definitely look for someone established and reputable, and whose presentation seems indicative of the type of person you'd like to spend time with. Also, I'd pay a lot of attention to what type of vibe you get from her during your pre-date communications.
I've never had a dinner date client who didn't want to communicate at some length beforehand. Guys usually want some reassurance that I'm not only someone they'll like to talk to, but someone who's open to connecting with them in a non-businesslike kind of way
If you do some research, you should definitely be able to assure yourself that she won't grab the donation and dash. And you definitely want to research well, just to make sure that 1) She won't embarrass you while you're in public (I've heard stories about ladies trying to solicit business while on paid public dates - these were NOT reputable independents but more fly-by-night type girls), and 2) That you guys will have enough in common to have an enjoyable conversation
Hence, the reason I no longer book dinner dates. But if you're going to do it, NEVER do it on a first date.
I have heard bad stories about giving the donation out prior to being in the room. Providers heading for the exit after receiving the donation.
We went to dinner before playtime so I usually just meet upstairs drop off my bag envelope is usually somewhere visible.
Or if meeting at the restaurant first I wait until we are back in the room.
I have gotten my donation many times upfront before dinner.
Never headed to the exit stick with well-reviewed providers and that should not be an issue.
I have also had a gent give me a very small gift bag at dinner with the donation.
Or have dinner after playtime then no worries about the envelope
1-2 hour dinner date. paid in a greeting card. I love those!
Then the next intimate date starts after dinner is over, and that's paid in the traditional sense. It will cost you more, but if you're paranoid this would help...
Remember that just like traditional escort dates, if your dinner date goes over time you need to be prepared with the additional donation. We are paid for our time... yes even during dinner dates.
I always invite the provider to my room first where we can take care of the donation and if she brought a bag with her supplies, she could drop them off and not have to carry them to the restaurant. Then we either head out to dinner or we have each other for appetizers first ...which often happens. LOL
never do a dinner date on the first session. Most rip-offs like you describe are first-date experiences. Once you know the provider is legit and will go through with the session as advertised, there are little worries about her "heading for the exit" after getting the money.
I'm always starving hungry after a wonderful session with a beautiful lady. So I've taken a few of the ladies to dinner afterwards. It's always been so comfortable and being able to enjoy the company after being sexually satisfied takes the pressure off both of us.
Besides, sexual play on a full stomach is nowhere near as much fun for me.
Just my preference.