In all buisness some Clients become Fravored over others.In this , The most personal of buisness, that is even more true.The term YMMV has allways ment to me that I can count on at least as good a time as most reviewers write of depending if I'm into the same activities.With only one exception I have allways been encouraged to return. I credit my mileage to allways trying to make a DATE a Celebration of our time together. I often bring the wine,toys,attitude,and absolutely groomed presence to the provider. Take it from an older guy ; This makes all the diffrence. It creates the ever elusive CHEMISTRY that we all seek in our relationships no matter how breif.
Recently a review was posted for a lady I'd seen in the past. The reviewer stated "I wish reviewers were more honest in their comments - it would be a truer reflection of the provider and a true aid and help to us hobbists." I wrote one of the reviews referred to and all I can say is that my time with this lady was a wonderful, enjoyable experience. Nothing was off limits (except a trip to greece), and the lady was very responsive, kissing (deep and passionate), oral (both ways), and vaginal (lots of positions). The reviewer went further with a " Warning - beware of what you read as the review may not be a true reflection of the provider." Guess this is the YMMV, but I just don't understand how it could very that much.
So, a questions to the ladies. Do you ever limit or disallow services listed in your profile because, for whatever reason, you don't click with the hobbiest? This is a business and you receive a fee for services. Part of your advertisment are the profiles in TER, the "Services Offered". Hobbiest use these profiles and reviews to determine if they wish to see a provider, and if we can't count on their validity, then why bother using them at all? Why don't you cancel the appointment and not accept the fee since you are not going to provide the type of service you advertise?
In all buisness some Clients become Fravored over others.In this , The most personal of buisness, that is even more true.The term YMMV has allways ment to me that I can count on at least as good a time as most reviewers write of depending if I'm into the same activities.With only one exception I have allways been encouraged to return. I credit my mileage to allways trying to make a DATE a Celebration of our time together. I often bring the wine,toys,attitude,and absolutely groomed presence to the provider. Take it from an older guy ; This makes all the diffrence. It creates the ever elusive CHEMISTRY that we all seek in our relationships no matter how breif.
And any hobbyist who's been around for some period of time has had the experience of backing off doing something with a provider that he'd otherwise intended to do because the chemistry (or hygiene) wasn't right.
Dude-
Even if its abusiness- this is a pretty intimate service-no two sessions are ever goona be the same. And the guys are different, too.
Plus, sometimes you feel like a nut- sometimes you don't!
I agree with some of your points, but you must made aware of another one. The profiles of the providers listed by TER in the review section are not made by the providers as an advertisement of her service... it's a report of the client reviewing her, that lists what services he received during his session. There is a very big difference. You can't hold the provider accountable for what another client wrote.
I agree that many reviews are simply shills, false or greatly embellished. However, YMMV also applies with many providers, as many reviews are honest. I think the best advice for a reviewer is to be detailed as possible so the reader can get a better idea of what he can expect from the lady.
Now I know that providers don't like detailed reviews for many reasons, but I believe the review is MINE, and does not belong to the provider. I have every right post whatever details I want, and while a provider may ask me not to post a review... she shouldn't expect me to comply. Remember, this is a business. Most of the time, providers who don't want to be reviewed are providers who aren't worth seeing and don't want the word to get out.
The idea of the profile was a good one, but it is not serving the purpose originally intended. The only profile listed is the one written by the first gentleman to review the lady. When others submit reviews on her, they fill out the form, but it never amends the first one. This can be a problem if the first review is not reliable.
For example... run a search on Brazil, the famous latin provider. You'll see her profile shows she offers Greek... this is not so and she never has provided that service. However, the first bonehead to review her marked the box with a "Yes" instead of a "no". Is this false advertising? No, it's a symptom of people who rush to submit a review without carefully looking it over first.
The "porn star" provider is another problem. There are tons of profiles listing a provider as a "porn star" when she really isn't. Why? Because the goof who wrote the review forgot to check "no" under that specific category.
Providing details in the review will give the prospective client enough info to make an educated decision. It will also help providers by reducing the amount of new clients who "expect too much".
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Well I have always tried to be honest and not embelish my reviews. If anything I leave stuff out. Sometimes at the ladies request. SOmetimes because they will do something with me they don't want everyone else to expect. But mostly I will give a bad review for a bad visit (not had a real bad one yet) but will give an honest review based on what I consider it deserves. I don't throw around 10's unless I am totaly blown away. Because to me a 10 is an ultimate incredible experience where it couldn't be better, not just a damn good one. I have had providers upset because I wouldn't give a 10. I told them if I walked out after the visit wanting, then it isn't a 10. Same with looks Very very few women rate 10's. A 10 is near perfect. Not what I see rated as 10's. And a 7 is by no means ugly. COme on guys don't give ladies 10's in looks when they are flabby, look like they have had 10 kids in 7 years. Or otherwise are not outstanding Beauties. A ten is exceptional, the best of the best. An Average looking woman is capible of a 10 performance ( I know I have had a couple) or an outstanding beauty is capible a a mind numbing 1 performance equating to a cadaver. Something I have come across in private life twice. Thank god never where I forked over large sums of money.
I know one who has done it.
I know some reviews are not accurate...whether the guy is exaggerating things(or just guesses on the answers to some of the questions) or maybe the provider or a friend of hers may be writing the review
I was wondering if it's considered bad form to ask the lady before you have made the appointment if anything in her profile is not correct
Is that allowed? Or is it like asking her about specific sex acts...prohibited until you have seen her?
Well I know way too many people embellish. I mean a 10 is something exceptional. and while subjective nobody could give a 10 to some on the women I have seen and know in person, nice yes , attractive yes, a 10 NEVER. Same on performance. A 10 leaves you walking away in awe.... I have seen only 2 10's in my life. but quite a few damn good ones. a bunch of averages ones And a few real slugs. I will name no names. But a half assed attempt looks like a half assed attempt , if someone gives that a 10 then what would they call a 10.
As far as asking specific acts its taboo. Why, because how does she know you are not law enforcement. its for their protection. I have asked a few questions to verify their profile without asking anything incriminating of them. Thats whats great about this board. You know what to expect before you make an appointment. Would you buy a car you never saw before and had no idea how it was equiped and how it performed?