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Re: You're upset over public boards and opinions.Go make money.Have a TLC day!
Jenn-Jenna See my TER Reviews 551 reads
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Thank you. I do want to clarify that Im not upset at all because I am happy with me.  I just dont understand Why people want to be so mean. .... That and I have not posted in a long time and thought this would be a good topic of discussion :-)

I know everyone is intitled to their opinions. I also know Im not the most beautiful women out there. But I believe true beauty is internal and Im happy with who I am and what I look like. So why do people have to be so mean. Don't hey have anything better to do?
Below is an email I recieved while on a 2 week vacation with my responce below it....  Just looking for opinions and thoughts.

The email
Please stay on vacation nobody's missed you at all,, the only time anyone want a massage is when you got a hot younger helper and all you do is cock block and lose business for your jealousy of guys not wanting you,. But hey you can always troll the senior citizen centers,for some wrinkles like you

My responce
Im sorry you feel that way. I would suggest. Not looking at my ad anymore. Since you feel like that.... But just for your information; I dont update very oftern because Im always booked up. No Im not the most phyicaly beatuiful women in the world. But I do have personality and massage skills that make up. Remember true beauty is comes from the inside.  
 
Thanks for your opinion
Jenn

All opinions and thought are welcome  

 

 

 

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Posted By: Jenn-Jenna
I know everyone is intitled to their opinions. I also know Im nit the most beautiful women out there. But I believe true beauty is internal and Im happy with who I am and what I look like. So why do oeiple have to be so mean. Do they have anything better to do?  
 Below is an email I recieved whike on a 2 week vacation with my responce below it....  Just looking for opinions and thoughts.  
   
 The email  
 Please stay on vacation nobody's missed you at all,, the only time anyone want a massage is when you got a hot younger helper and all you do is cock block and lose business for your jealousy of guys not wanting you,. But hey you can always troll the senior citizen centers,for some wrinkles like you  
   
 My responce  
 Im sorry you feel that way. I would suggest. Not looking at my ad anymore. Since you feel like that.... But just for your information; I dont update very oftern because Im always booked up. No Im not the most phyicaly beatuiful in the world. But I do have personality and massagr skills that make up. Remember true beauty is comes from the inside.  
   
 Thanks for your opinion  
 Jenn  
   
 All opinions and thought are welcome  
   
   
   
   
   
 

Thank you. I do want to clarify that Im not upset at all because I am happy with me.  I just dont understand Why people want to be so mean. .... That and I have not posted in a long time and thought this would be a good topic of discussion :-)

GaGambler487 reads

"Dear sir, I honestly don't remember you, but I do seem to recall a short, pudgy, balding gentleman with a little tiny 2 inch weiner with a rather strong odor about him, that wasn't you by chance, was it? I am sorry, but even us old fat hookers have standards. I hope you find what you are looking for, but PLEASE stop looking here"

I have found when dealing with people on the internet the person who gets mad is the person losing the battle, I make it a point to NEVER be the one getting mad.

It's nice that  you are happy with you, if you don't like yourself, who else will like you?

LasVegan434 reads

This question has been asked over and over again.  Who can accurately catalogue all the reasons people have no manners.  But I will share one reason I am very confident of.  Some slimy, small-minded men, who have no prospect of every getting any respect from anyone, love to hide behind their computers and spew insults.

They feel safe.  While they know they could never get away with hurling those insults to anyone's face, they feel untouchable behind their computer screens and feel a sense of power they do not feel in their everyday lives.

I know one individual in particular, I even invited him to visit Las Vegas and am willing to miss that day at the fitness center and do my workout on him.  But, you guessed it, he is happy to hide behind his computer and will never take me up on my offer.  Bet that little girl of a male even comments on this post.  Watch!

Just avoid those who are unable to appreciate you Jenn and know it is THEIR problem, not yours.  They are already their own punishment.

That was my thought too...You are 100% right on that... Thank you :-)

Posted By: Jenn-Jenna
That was my thought too...You are 100% right on that... Thank you :-)
Do you feel better now?

Posted By: Fancy8888
 
   
Posted By: Jenn-Jenna
That was my thought too...You are 100% right on that... Thank you :-)
Do you feel better now?
 
Lol.   Yes :-)

Posted By: Jenn-Jenna
 
   
Posted By: Fancy8888
 
     
Posted By: Jenn-Jenna
That was my thought too...You are 100% right on that... Thank you :-)
Do you feel better now?
   
   
 Lol.   Yes :-)
Ranting got you what you wanted girl.Go make money and put smile on your face.LOL.

GaGambler516 reads

There is a huge difference between exchanging insults on a discussion board and the message that Jenna received.  

Speaking strictly for myself, I talk pretty much the same way IRL as I do here, depending on the situation of course. I am an asshole, not an idiot and I don't talk this way in "polite company", but in "locker room" type situations like we have here, yes it's an appropriate way to interact with people.

Now what Jenna received is just plain mean, but it does happen. There are a LOT of small minded, cowardly people who feel better about themselves by tearing others down. This was not "banter" this was just a cowardly attack by someone who most likely resented the fact that he not only "has to" pay for pussy, but can't afford to pay for what he perceives as "quality"  

There are a lot of very unhappy guys who resent the fact they "have to" pay for pussy, these guys are at all price points, just look at posters like OTM, it's obvious he despises hookers, most likely because he thinks he is "above" a lowly hooker, but it's his only outlook for sex. It really must suck to hate "yourself" so much.

As for advice to the OP, just the obvious. Don't let one jerk ruin your whole day. Even responding to him gives him a certain validation. Don't play along and don't give him that validation. Just like a board troll, he needs feeding. Don't feed him and he will crawl away and die.

JakeFromStateFarm514 reads

LMAO!  I'd say that's more like an "internet piñata."
Not to mention being unable to tell the difference between having words on the boards with another poster, and sending a woman a nasty, hurtful email out of the blue.
Personally, while I have insulted lots of losers, I have never said a mean word to a woman here.  Not once.  Unless the poster in question is actually a woman.

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FatVern235 reads

Perhaps, a person looking for a discount, hoping that they hurt your self esteem, obviously they would try to book under a much nicer persona.  

 
Personally I'd take joy in such an email, knowing that the person who sent it is a miserable piece a shit. If it wouldn't validate them by responding, I'd send them a message to go ahead and jump.

Hi Jen,

I looked at your website, you have a very cute face, smile, some people just don't have any brains or compassion for others.

I looked you up...you're an attractive woman who obviously excels at your type of services...your reviews vary widely on your appearance scores but are much more consistent on performance...what people find attractive is far from universal...

In this "information" age, and thanks to social media, everybody believes that their opinion matters...the best way to deal with it is to not care what the negative people think...not easy, I know, but something to at least strive for...

Be well Jenn...

Posted By: jelloman42
I looked you up...you're an attractive woman who obviously excels at your type of services...your reviews vary widely on your appearance scores but are much more consistent on performance...what people find attractive is far from universal...  
   
 In this "information" age, and thanks to social media, everybody believes that their opinion matters...the best way to deal with it is to not care what the negative people think...not easy, I know, but something to at least strive for...  
   
 Be well Jenn...
One thing about social media shut it down and go find something else to do.

It's good to know you're not upset, however the absolute BEST way to respond to ignorance is NOT TO. You shouldn't have even taken the time out of your lovely day to respond!  

Do you know how upset that would make them? They just want attention, next time don't give it to them unless you're attaching a photo of your feet up at the beach sipping on cocktails while they're miserable trying to find company at the bottom!  

Next time, just delete and carry on! You wouldn't be you if there weren't plenty of people that adore you! Enjoy your day! ;)

I don't know if this is appropriate but Miss Moore you are DELICIOUS!!!!

Hi There

Since Im been in LA there is a lot of mean people and low life souls. Delete them and stay strong.

Happy Tuesday and stay beautiful.

Alley

I get where you're coming from etc etc... but if you're always booked up, why do you care  
about this never-will-be client?  

At the end of the day this man doesn't pay your bills and he isn't apart of your circle.  
Block his ass and continue with your day. You should already be the BEST of friends  
with your block button.  

In this business you WILL come across pieces of absolute shyt and that can't be helped.
Block him and forward his info to your escort friends or ladies in the area so it stuns his
chances of meeting anyone else. Simply marking his email as spam does wonders. His  
email will never again make it into anyone's inbox.  

Don't be/ feel so powerless, don't let anyone make you inferior.

shoulda just ignored it.

Hi Jenn,
Anyone who could say things like that must really hate themselves and it's easier to sling that hatred at other people. You're a convenient target for his own self-loathing. The best any of us can do is have pity for someone like that and move on with our lives, reminding ourselves of our own value and strength. I'm sorry you were a target, but it's not about you. You're doing great. Go kick some ass!
Much love!

Sooner or later, many ladies get that kind of insulting crap in our mailboxes. So please know it's not just you.  
 
As others have suggested, it's probably best to not reply at all.   Block that person from emailing you again and immediately delete the message so you're not tempted to respond.  

From the tone, I'm actually guessing it's another provider or a VERY immature & angry person.  Possibly both! ;-)

 
Keep your head up and think on how unhappy this individual must be with his/her own life to spend time and energy trying to ruin your day.  You are better than that. :-)

 
xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxo

It really sounds like a pissed/jealous provider.
IF I even responded at all, I would have told them..."if you don't want to fuck me, you can always go fuck yourself!"  
Chin up babe, haters will hate and they are just miserable with themselves really.
XOXO,  
TL

But I don't want to lump people into catagories.   Don't worry or fret about it; he does not define who you are, only you can do that.

I'm sure you had a great vacation anyway, despite taking time to respond to that small, little piece of shit

it was mean & nasty...  the person went out of their way to insult you.  How totally RUDE!  They are entiltled to their opinion but there's no reason to write it down to sent it.  Since the message says 'cock-blocking' I'll suggest that it's a guy who was refused services that were not on the menu.  Frankly, every provider has the absolute right to run her business as she feels right...  including the menu.  There are always some guys trying to get something for nothing.  Put them on your No Not See list.      
The first visit is always something of a gamble on both sides.  
I had one just the other day...  It was an experience but although she was nice, it just was not a good fit.  No ill will.  Just moving on as they should.        

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I used to weigh 420 pounds. Over the last three years I have been dieting and excersizing. Now I weigh 205 pounds and am thrilled.  

Anyway back when I weighed about 350 I was running around a local park excersizing raising my metabolism. I was proud of myself as I was just finishing my first mile jog since I was a kid. This looser I didn't know at the end started heckle me. Calling me all kinds of not so nice names like orca and making fun of how slow I was running.

It hurt. It was all I could do not to turn around and beat the living shit out of him. But instead I went home and cried. I always was ashamed of my weight. My wife, the incredibly wise women she is, came in and told me great words of advice. She asked me why I gave that looser such power over me. I of course denied it. She then Ponte out that because of that looser I was upset instead of celebrating my first mile run in God only knows how long, instead of celebrating loosing the 70 pounds I already lost, and instead of celebrating my increased health. She was right.

You see asshole are everywhere. They attack others because they hate themselves. You can't escape them. The trick is to ignore them if possible, confront them if not, but under no circumstances should you give them the power, like I did, to hurt you or get you upset. It is what they want. They want to make you miserable like they are. Don't give them that power. I know it is easier said then done.

My honest advice is the next piece of hate mail you get is just delete it and forget it. You are happy with who you are so that is all that really matters. I look your photos up and I find you attractive by the way. Rejoice you are happy in you and forget the haters. To quote Taylor Swift "Haters are going to hate, hate, hate.... Shake it off. Shake it off."

GaGambler475 reads

At 205 you could have chased down the little fucker and beaten the crap out of him. lol

As you are quite aware, I am not one to "turn the other cheek" but somethings just aren't worth responding to, but it's like fighting, when you do get into a fight, the object is to win. I completely agree about not giving people power over you, and the VERY worst thing you can do is "get mad" that's exactly what internet and IRL trolls are trying to accomplish. Don't give them the satisfaction.  

For the record I don't make fun of people who are trying to better themselves, I don't even make fun of people who "try and fail" I do however have very little respect for those who "play it safe" and don't even make the effort.

But if I did, it would have been over. He was basicly a twig and I bet he would be just as easy to break in two. But I bet that was what he wanted. Feedback and to make me like him. Always ignore the true assholes of the world whenever possible.

Right there with you, brother...down to 198 from 403...and the amount of shit I took from people over the years is astronomical...

Even now I get shit from people who accuse me of taking the easy way out and opting for surgical intervention...funk them, they didn't live it...

Keep on, Scoed...

GaGambler410 reads

and all the other surgical procedures I plan on having someday whenever I need them to stay looking young, Some dipshit will say "he only looks young because of all the surgery he's had" at that point I will most like be in my 70's and me and all my thirty something girlfriends will laugh at the dipshit for the loser he is (or will be) lol

If I were 403, you can bet I too would have most likely opted for the surgery.  

At 198, do you really give a fuck how you got there?

Posted By: GaGambler
At 198, do you really give a fuck how you got there?
Not in the slightest...

Chalk it up to him being an idiot and forget about. Ive just read sone of your reviews and you seem to be doing fine. And I think you are cute. I dont want to soubd naive but can you tell me what he meant by " cock block"?

Posted By: Jenn-Jenna
I know everyone is intitled to their opinions. I also know Im not the most beautiful women out there. But I believe true beauty is internal and Im happy with who I am and what I look like. So why do people have to be so mean. Don't hey have anything better to do?  
 Below is an email I recieved while on a 2 week vacation with my responce below it....  Just looking for opinions and thoughts.  
   
 The email  
 Please stay on vacation nobody's missed you at all,, the only time anyone want a massage is when you got a hot younger helper and all you do is cock block and lose business for your jealousy of guys not wanting you,. But hey you can always troll the senior citizen centers,for some wrinkles like you  
   
 My responce  
 Im sorry you feel that way. I would suggest. Not looking at my ad anymore. Since you feel like that.... But just for your information; I dont update very oftern because Im always booked up. No Im not the most phyicaly beatuiful women in the world. But I do have personality and massage skills that make up. Remember true beauty is comes from the inside.  
   
 Thanks for your opinion  
 Jenn  
   
 All opinions and thought are welcome  
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
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I am sorry you had to receive that. But you know what? I just looked at your pics and I think you are being too hard on yourself. You have nice hair. Nice face. Why not make some improvements to your look for you, not the haters? A new 'do, some hotter clothes and some body improvements and I think you could be one of the better looking girls you refer to. Unless you are happy now than just be you!

You were kind to even reply to that loser. There are many like him, cowards who hide behind their keyboards. Just ignore it and move on Jenn. Not worth getting upset over.

Look we put ourselves out there being providers. I don't expect everyone to find me attractive and I am OK with that. I love myself, have a great heart and mind and I like what I see when I look into the mirror. I am not going to place any significance on what anyone thinks of my looks. Why would I?  

  Truth of the matter is some will find you or me, or any woman on here to be a goddess, while others might be like NO WAY!! Everyone has their opinions and likes and dislikes and you just cannot get all caught up in that.  

  You are beautiful and you and unique. Plus who wrote that email anyway? The person that took time out of their day to sit down and type that email out and then send it, is atrocious. Sad. Vile and just an ass. That email speaks volumes about the sender.  

 Was it a man of a woman? Or do you even know? Many times other jealous providers will stoop so low as to pretend to be a client or a man and will send something  like that. It's sick.  

  Brush it off and enjoy the rest of your summer!!

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I am a Professional Sales Rep and learned a long time ago that not everyone is going to love you.  Close to 25 years of outside sales, for every negative situation I have encountered, the next 99 are much more positive.

When dealing with miserable people, I always tell myself, that I only have to deal with this wretch for maybe an hour, but He or she has to deal with themselves for 23 more hours, which is a pretty lousy proposition for them, because they are really miserable people.

Sometimes I put on an arrogant twist.  I have told previous Supervisors that they can fire me, but they cannot judge me.  I will not allow that to happen to me......the same with difficult customers.

Jenn, I am glad that you have discovered that similar to true beauty, true comfort arises from within.  The little sh** who sent you that email is just that....a little sh**!

...I think most of us know just by reading the original E-MAIL who composed these stupid mean spirited words. Although this is just one more example from this idiot, because this is an open forum & I guess he still has a right to post here, I guess it's up to the rest of us to ignore him.

NewYork_NewYork306 reads

Skill I learned from a camp leader when I was in elementary school. It works. Takes time to make it convincing, but people give up when they know you are just going to agree and move on. No emotional support to their strategy.

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