There's no excuse for habitual bad behavior from providers or hobbyists. I feel your pain. This just happened to me tonight too.

It happens...clients do it too, so don't take it personally

There are a few things that will make me abort an appointment with an unknown provider.  I assume we all have those red flags and lines we will not cross.  I also assume providers have things that make them feel more or less comfortable with a new client, and it will vary.   Some seem to like a lot of upfront small-talk and introduction.  Others just want to know when/where/how long/how much, and if you converse beyond those topics, they get annoyed and think you are out to waste their time.

If a provider flakes on me, I just figure she was worried about the neighborhood (and couldn't be bothered to google-map it to see the actual house), or it was too far to drive, or something happened with her ride, or I was actually texting a booking agent and not her, and/or she fell asleep, or...fuck, you know what, I DO NOT care at this point...my 'todo' list is 20+ deep, so I'll just move on to the next!!

Deal with reviewed agency's and indy's and you won't have any problems.    One over slept on me twice so I gave her a much deserved spanking.     Late can be fun.

My guess is, most of the women who post on this board don't flake.

In both instances (different providers) the provider told me that she's never missed an appointment before and that she's not a flake.  

The first instance, I didn't believe her.  

The second instance I did believe her, I texted her at 6:10 for a 6:00 appointment and she texted back that our date wasn't until 2 days later, then crickets chirping and an apology that she made the mistake after checking the booking form.

Either way, I'm left holding my dick in my hand, disappointing. I've not rebooked with either, the second lady I would rebook with

A well reviewed provider who comes around once or twice a month or so. Her reviews are mostly positive. I talked to her about 3 hours ahead of time telling her when I would like the appointment. Then confirmed via text about 15 minutes prior that I was on my way to her incall. Got there and texted I was there. She said she was returning from the store and needed a few minutes. I thought couldn't you have done that earlier but ok a few minutes is alright. 25 minutes later I text for an update. No response. So I text her that I am leaving in 5 minutes and I do. I see another lady and when I am done I notice the first lady sent a text about an hour after our scheduled time saying she had misplaced her phone. I don't think I buy that. Do you? Someone told me she will give preference to clients she has already seen and I think that is what happened. A repeat guy asked for my time slot and she gave it to him. I could understand that if true and if she had said that. I don't think I buy the misplaced phone though. That is their lifeline for their job. You don't just misplace your phone and if you do most providers have a second phone and they could call it to find it. Plus I had sent several texts that should have been making noise. She did say sorry but no offer to make it up to me or anything so very disappointing and suspect in my belief.

I don't know what it is lately but in 2016 I've had more flake outs then ever before.

I am not even talking about cancellations, I mean no shows or last second changes and then an attitude about it.

I don't get mad if an sp respects my time, as I try to respect them and their time, stuff happens.
However, the attitude some of them are taking lately, and I'm talking top price established providers is just crazy.

Is there a good function on ter to list this.  I don't feel right posting a zero point review, but at the same time if someone else had I wouldn't have wasted my time.

I swear it's gotten so bad that I've taken to reconfirming, I'm sure I annoy providers but I've had some absurd flameouts with highly reviewed providers.

I had a 2 hour 3 girl appointment flake out an hour prior.
Had confirmed it a week prior, and the primary got weird via text.  I had a funny feeling, but my dumb ass arranged everything made the long drive and halfway there sent a text to say on my way are all three of you all set, she cancels but pulls an attitude about it.
"I confirmed yesterday, why don't you find someone else to do this"

Honest to god, I'm sorry, I committed a huge chunk of change and time.....surreal.

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Here's what happened today and I want to know if I'm over reacting.

Had an appointment scheduled or 9am this morning.
Everything was confirmed, this is a visiting high price provider.

I had already confirmed the 9am appointment and mentioned I was driving in a ways and it would be 1 hour as I had to get on the road right after.  Everything was cordial.

At 11pm I get an email that says "I just remembered I have a call that's important, can we do 10am"

I emailed and texted back, "im sorry I have to be on the road, can we still do 9am"

She never responds.
I check my text and email first thing in the am, no response.

I text, I assume we are still on, it's a long drive, if there is an issue please let me know.

Nothing, no response.

My gut says she's going to bail, but she's very highly reviewed and has a long track record, and I've already made arrangements.  I figure I'll start heading her way, and see if she texts.

Anyway, I get there text that I've parked....nothing.
I text that I'm leaving.

Hour later I text, "that was hugely unprofessional, I don't appreciate you wasting my time, all you had too do was send me a simple text or email"

That time she responds "sent an email"
She was referring to last night.

No apology, nothing.

I honestly wouldn't be angry had she texted me, even 30 minutes before.
You claim to be a professional and have super high end rates....common courtesy is not to much to as for.

I've never stood up an appointment or been late, ever.
My problem is I treat them like I want to be treated, and so unless I actually hear back I don't assume.  I don't ever want to stand someone up because I assumed.

Anyway my rant.....

I imagine one of the main reasons that providers cancel at the last minute is due to the headspace that they're in. Many providers are college students, single mothers, and/or work full time jobs in addition to the hobby. Instead of showing up to a date stressed, aggravated, anxious, ect, it's probably just smarter to cancel instead, and offer the client a discount/extra time on another visit.

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it's why they don't communicate.  A simple email or text saying that something has come up is really not hard to do.

Had a provider cancel on me  two days before date stating, family emergency. Only to have her post pics of her VIP dinner and show date on social media on the night we had booked......i guess my money wasnt good enough.........karma is funny though because now she is complaining that shes having trouble getting clients, and she is very highly reviewed.........

slow response, lack of response. I've seen it all.
it seems very few escorts truly give a shit about the business, and are only doing it for some extra spending cash.
if they handled it with some business professionalism, i imagine they'd be a whole lot wealthier.

HOWEVER, johns have the same problem with poor communication. they email an escort and then stop responding.  

I wonder if any escorts approach this like a sales job, i.e. following up on a lead that has stopped responding.