If I thought she is dangerous or less then honest in her business dealings I would warn him, if not I would keep out of it staying neutral yet honest. I am not going to lie. I am not going to be vindictive because of past personality clashes.
Your at a M N G or at a social function where hookers and clients are enjoying a fun night out
You run into a provider that you had a major issue with who you saw in the past but no longer talk to
Someone asks you about this provider at the event
Do you
A Tell the guy she throws a hell of a session and leave it at that
B Tell the guy she is Bat Shit Crazy but will rock your world.
C Tell him to pass
D Tell him you never saw her
E Really piss her off and tell him that her best enemy was the better lay and hope he sees her
F Eat your pride and introduce the two.
Looking forward to seeing where this goes
"Ask Zak what provider he had a major issue with but no longer talks to."
Can you tell us?
Looking forward to seeing where this goes
On what the "major issue" was I suppose. Also the relationship you have with the someone asking the question. If it is a friend, maybe. I wouldn't interfere and just start blabbing negative information about a provider as it may come back to burn you. I think I'd be more inclined to just mind my business and move on about the room. Regardless of what you say and who you say it to, she is still going to get clients. But as a client/hobbyist you may be blackballed depending on your status.
You run into a provider that you had a major issue with who you saw in the past but no longer talk to
Someone asks you about this provider at the event
Do you
A Tell the guy she throws a hell of a session and leave it at that
B Tell the guy she is Bat Shit Crazy but will rock your world.
C Tell him to pass
D Tell him you never saw her
E Really piss her off and tell him that her best enemy was the better lay and hope he sees her
F Eat your pride and introduce the two.
Looking forward to seeing where this goes.
I think D would probably be the wisest. Not hurting, not helping.
But I think I might go with F. F would be rising above, and that's what I hope I would do.
...He could introduce himself. You don't know him from Adam so an intro from you would be worthless. Also, an intro from you would make it worse since you probably aren't one of her favorites because of your "major issue."
Best answer in this thread!!!
It's not your place to say shit, just because you had a bad experience that may not the case for someone else!!!
Unless I can get him along to talk to him before hand his 15 min will be up which will piss him off but I only have a problem if she don't put out or her pimp robs me. I can't remember the face of most of the hookers I seen even if kiss them the three where the pimp rob me at fists fight I cant remember. And the ripoff are so fast I can't remember her eigher. The one I may remember I want more bad review on ter for her. So I would do D.
You run into a provider that you had a major issue with who you saw in the past but no longer talk to
Someone asks you about this provider at the event
Do you
A Tell the guy she throws a hell of a session and leave it at that
B Tell the guy she is Bat Shit Crazy but will rock your world.
C Tell him to pass
D Tell him you never saw her
E Really piss her off and tell him that her best enemy was the better lay and hope he sees her
F Eat your pride and introduce the two.
Looking forward to seeing where this goes.
You run into a provider that you had a major issue with who you saw in the past but no longer talk to
Someone asks you about this provider at the event
Do you
A Tell the guy she throws a hell of a session and leave it at that
B Tell the guy she is Bat Shit Crazy but will rock your world.
C Tell him to pass
D Tell him you never saw her
E Really piss her off and tell him that her best enemy was the better lay and hope he sees her
F Eat your pride and introduce the two.
Looking forward to seeing where this goes.
This is because I haven't had a major issue with anyone yet. Of the providers I have seen, they know I am one of the more laid-back gentlemen they will ever experience. And since I am a peacemaker by nature, if I did have some issue with someone, it would not be enough to warrant spoiling someone else's experience. The only thing that might trigger me to speak up is if something catastrophic happened, for example if I was robbed, then of course for the safety of others, I would steer someone away from that situation.
If I thought she is dangerous or less then honest in her business dealings I would warn him, if not I would keep out of it staying neutral yet honest. I am not going to lie. I am not going to be vindictive because of past personality clashes.
Someone asks you about this provider at the event Do you --snip--
The mongers you see there are generally old, out of shape, socially inept dolts. Zak would fit right in.
as for the rest of your post, it looks like you have nailed the "essence of Zak"
and honestly, just how fucked up do you have to be to be getting into "drama" with the hookers you fuck? I have what passes as drama with some of the BSC hookers on the discussion boards, but never with the hookers I actually meet up with and have sex with. Isn't one of the main reasons to see hookers is to avoid drama?
What's there to fight about?
Option B. Because it was true. Note that the night I met that lady at an M&G, five years after the blow-up, we were cordial, and friendly. I saw her three times, and her quality as a provider was never in question. Should have been more careful about what I posted, though...she was volatile and insecure, and took offense when I was trying to compliment her, and things went south from there, resulting in our mutual agreement to not see each other again. Oh, well, shit happens, it's an imperfect world.
I don't have an issue with anyone and I'm not going to the m n g tonight in NY but I was wondering what happens in these cases. If I had to answer I would think I would do F.
Enjoy your day.
Zak
You run into a provider that you had a major issue with who you saw in the past but no longer talk to
Someone asks you about this provider at the event
Do you
A Tell the guy she throws a hell of a session and leave it at that
B Tell the guy she is Bat Shit Crazy but will rock your world.
C Tell him to pass
D Tell him you never saw her
E Really piss her off and tell him that her best enemy was the better lay and hope he sees her
F Eat your pride and introduce the two.
Looking forward to seeing where this goes.
B since that's the truth. Maybe D since I'm not one to get involved with other peoples business. But I'll never go to a M&G and if I knew someone I disliked would be at a M&G, I wouldn't go.
would make me feel like I couldn't talk with her. I'll speculate that how long ago the issue occurred and what is was specifically would play into my actions.
IIn any case, I suspect I'd have no problem introducing the two. Let bygones be bygones; grudges are a waste of time and energy.
So do we as hobbyists.
I would go with C option.
You run into a provider that you had a major issue with who you saw in the past but no longer talk to
Someone asks you about this provider at the event
Do you
A Tell the guy she throws a hell of a session and leave it at that
B Tell the guy she is Bat Shit Crazy but will rock your world.
C Tell him to pass
D Tell him you never saw her
E Really piss her off and tell him that her best enemy was the better lay and hope he sees her
F Eat your pride and introduce the two.
Looking forward to seeing where this goes.
If I was a guy I'd appreciate a heads up and like you say we ask other provider for references on clients and I'd vibe really upset if a guy was rough and mean and the provider hadn't told me about it when asked 
You left out the best answer. Avoid social functions where clients and providers hang out. Not a smart thing to do.
Next best answer. .. if she truly provides a great session and you know it, make the referral.
I knew a lady I had seen many many times (20 or more).
After A While we went through some "shit" and I felt slighted and jaded. She did some things and after taking a long look at it and self reflection, I realized I did some things too.
I was so damn tempted to post some negative reviews, to discourage guys from seeing her, but I realized, this lady provided me with over 20 amazing and mind blowing experiences. She is a great provider and other men would be dumb not to see her. So I refrained from posting anything, continued to encourage guys to see her when I was asked, and over time my lady friend and I resolved our misunderstandings and have had two great sessions recently. Sometimes Time Away from all this shit is what we need. Avoid drama and just have fun. Do right by one another but Don't lose sight of the overall goals for both people involved.
Just because there are a few nuts in our world? That's ludicrous. A couple of friends of mine attended a Meet & Greet in NYC last night and had a great time. I've never heard of anyone having an issue at one of these parties, as long as they are well run and everyone is screened properly. They are great ways to see gals the way they really look and never have to worry about photoshopped pictures. You also can get a pretty good idea whether you''ll "click" with someone. And if you're a decent-looking gent with even barely adequate social skills you'll have no problem attracting the ladies.
Of course there are possible complications that might keep some guys away, but I know lots of married fellas who go all the time with no problem.