I generally stick to a few of my ATF's, one of which I've been seeing for 14 years.
One latter rip me off the other also quit providing. But most just Changed there numbers or street corner
Out of the 25 or so providers I seen In my life I only seen two twice.
One latter rip me off the other also quit providing. But most just Changed there numbers or street corner
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If I see a provider I like I will keep seeing her as long as she is available. I'm not a "one trick pony", I see others as well but there aren't many providers that I have seen only once.
I generally stick to a few of my ATF's, one of which I've been seeing for 14 years.
One latter rip me off the other also quit providing. But most just Changed there numbers or street corner
same day? Or ever?
I repeat 75% of the time. Fortunately, I'm happy to say NONE of the ladies I have seen have ever changed their street corner.
I always keep a rotation of 2 - 3 favorites that I keep coming back too.
Ideally I'd like to see 50/50 share of those favorites in between trying/auditioning new talents.
Due to scheduling and other conflicts sometimes it just doesn't work out 50/50 as planned
My advice is to stick with well reviewed providers.their are alot of ladies on here with excellent reviews with rates as low as 60!Research please.I also see you are new.so if you have any more questions feel free to pm me
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If I have a good first experience, I like to repeat at least once. There have been a few cases where I would have liked to see a provider again, but it was impractical due to distance or she retired soon after I met her. And there's been a few cases where the experience was ok but nothing special compared to my fav providers, so I didn't repeat. And there were a couple early in my hobbying where you would have had to pay me good money to see them again.
I have seen several ladies more than 4 or 5 times each. ONE Lady over 20 times in 2 years. I avoid bp and street walkers dude. Higher quality ladies result in higher frequency of return visits.
One latter rip me off the other also quit providing. But most just Changed there numbers or street corner
After being in the hobby for a number of years and really enjoying the variety. A couple of years ago I decided to try to find a regular. After a couple of false starts I found my ATF about 18 months ago through TER.
Since then I have seen the same woman over 20 times and she rocks my world when we are together. From looks, to outfits to GFE / PSE suggestions and just an all around sexiness what an amazing woman...
We have amazing times in the bedroom, but we have also been on dates and dinners numerous times and are going away on a trip together for a couple of days, before the end of the Summer...
BTW - before you ask, no I will NOT share info on who this woman is, sorry
How many have you seen that you wouldn't repeat with?
I've repeated with a few for different reasons. Sometimes it's location/convenience/price. Sometimes it's the mind blowing experience.
I look at it this way, there are many I've seen once that I'd repeat with in the right circumstances. Something like 10% I flat out wouldn't see again. Not that the dates where bad, sometimes there is a lack of a connection at any level or they where in some way unattractive to me. Actions/words/looks etc... Sometimes it's simply a cost/benefit thing.
so there was no reason to go back.
As far as any whom I'd never see again for any reason, maybe one or two, which is pretty damn good
50% I see once, 33% I've seen 2-3 times, several I've seen multiple times, a couple I've seen many times. I can usually tell within 3 minutes if a session w/someone new if the session will be good or not. Fortunately, I've gotten better at "choosing."
6-1/2 months ago, I was running at 42%. So I guess I'm on a pretty good run right about now.
I typically only see multiple girls when I am between regulars and I often see some of them more than once. Once I find somebody I like and the sex is great I will usually see them "almost" exclusively for a long period of time at least twice a month. Longest is 2 years. I'm on the hunt for a new girl right now.
If your having issues with them changing their number it might just be you. You must be doing the street corner thing mostly. If the are reviewed on TER it's not that hard to get their new number.
Every woman I've seen, I would definitely see again but I've only seen 2 twice. As for the remaining 6...
1 rarely tours my area and the last time she was down here I had an appointment set up but she had to cancel
1 rarely tours my area and I was on vacation last time she was down here
1 Doesn't tour my area, when I saw her, I was on vacation
1 Occasionally tours my area, last time she was down here I was on vacation
1 retired, I saw her when I was on vacation and she retired before she toured my area
1 Saw on vacation, have no idea if she actually will tour my are
I have been hobbying pretty regular over the past 10 years. I have seen one girl 3 times and five other girls twice. I got to say, when I got to a hobby destination like Montreal, Brazil, or to an FKK there is so much darn talent it is hard to repeat with the girls that were outstanding because there are so many new girls to try.
In the USA I try control myself a little more. Here the price is so high and the pickings are slim and there is the outside chance of running into LE. Here, I can see why a guy would want an ATF. Having said this I have only repeated with two girls in the USA. One girl last December was outstanding so I agreed to see her a few days later. She showed up in a new outfit and she did a great job but to me it was just so-so. Why? Because I had her already. Variety is the spice of life.
Interesting. I like knowing what to expect and I'm always a bit nervous when meeting someone new (IRL as well as the hobby) so the 2 times that I've repeated, I've had a better time than our first time.
I am shamed to say I cannot stay faithful to my providers. As much as I would like to see most of them again, I ... just have to try the next new thing ..
Wanna tell you about the girl I love
My she looks so fine
She's the only one that I been dreamin' of
Maybe someday she will be all mine
I wanna tell her that I love her so
I thrill with her every touch
I need to tell her she's the only one I really love
I got a woman, wanna ball all day
I got a woman, she won't be true, no
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I said I got a little woman and she won't be true
Sunday morning when we go down to church
See the menfolk standin' in line
I said they come to pray to the Lord
With my little girl, looks so fine
In the evening when the sun is sinkin' low
Everybody's with the one they love
I walk the town, Keep a-searchin' all around
Lookin' for my street corner girl
I got a woman, wanna ball all day
I got a woman, she won't be true, no no
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I said I got a little woman and she won't be true
In the bars, with the men who play guitars
Singin', drinkin' and rememberin' the times
My little lover does a midnight shift
She followed around all the time
I guess there's just one thing a-left for me to do
Gonna pack my bags and move on my way
Cause I got a worried mind
Sharin' what I thought was mine
Gonna leave her where the guitars play
I got a woman, she won't be true, no no
I got a woman, wanna ball all day
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I got a little woman and she won't be true
(Hey hey what can I do)
I said she won't be true
(Hey Hey, What can I say?)
Hey hey, what can I do
I got a woman, she won't be true
Lord, hear what I say
I got a woman, wanna ball all da
For me, the experience gets better each visit in most cases. There is a sense of trust since they know you are not LE and you know they are legit as well. Also expectations have a greater chance to be fulfilled with repeat visits. I'm not talking about what a girl will or won't do, because boundaries should be respected regardless, but I'm talking about having a better rapport, conversation, and relaxed atmosphere. And there is a level of excitement that comes from arranging to see someone you had a great time with before. While I enjoy researching and seeking out a new girl from time to time, still some of my greatest sessions are with those that I have seen in the past. I will continue to enjoy the sensation that comes from seeing those that I have had a great time in the past.
I'll let things go at that. In the meantime, keep the posts coming.
A gentleman goes through many different stages in the hobby. Especially considering the dynamics of acquiring a date have changed so dramatically over the years. With that said, in the early years, based on hit and miss methods, and lack of funds, seeing a lady twice was a rarity indeed. As the years progressed, and the funds increased, there was a better possibility of seeing a lady twice. Playing a little more often meant that she still might be at any given venue when I ventured out. With the advent of internet dating and reviews, all the numbers changed. For the last ten to fifteen years a gentleman could be very selective, thus increasing exponentially, the chances of a repeat. Obviously one has to make some type of connection for a repeat, but when you see only ladies with great reviews, it's likely that'll happen. Finally, there's an end stage to the hobby which is having an effect on the percentages. I just don't hobby as often as I used to. It's not that my interest in sex is waning. Rather, my interest in chasing around is waning, thus decreasing the many opportunities of a secret encounter.
So with all the variables that go into the hobby over a lifetime, here are my current statistics. Of course, repeating with a beautiful lady entails way more than mere statistics, nevertheless, in my life, I've repeated with ladies 19.582765% of the time.
I try to find out if the provider will be a match for me in terms of looks personality and performance before seeing her. If everything works out I will see her multiple times. If they are late or pussy gets too loose I will not see them for a while.
In almost 5 years of hobbying, I've seen 56 providers, but just 5 of them account for nearly half of ~130 encounters. Currently stuck on 3 lovelies that are all wonderful in different ways. So something like 50/50 repeats vs. new encounters feels about right. The joy of the hunt, the surprise of the new, and still the happiness of the familiar.
Highest number of repeats was with one provider, about 25 times over the course of two years.
When I first entered this little world, I was like a kid in a candy store. I saw as many women as possible, and rarely repeated. Over the past year or two, I've repeated more and more to the point today where I repeat two or more times about 90% of the time. Where I'm less likely to repeat is with a touring provider (usually due to scheduling challenges) and of course those ladies I just do not "click" with.
I've also found myself coming back to see providers I may have seen only once during my "candy store" phase, and reconnecting. I recently reconnected with a great provider I saw several times a few years ago, and it was a great experience.
If I look at just those I have seen in total and repeated with as a whole, I repeat 60-70% of the time.
a good ways away, so I only get to see her about once every 3-4 months or I would go broke. I'd fuck this girl every day if I could. Since I am in a low-volume, low-quality area, when I find a good one I stick with them. My last two regulars have moved away, but I saw them about every 3-4 weeks until then. Haven't stumbled upon another one and have mostly been window shopping but nothing regular since.
One latter rip me off the other also quit providing. But most just Changed there numbers or street corner
The most number of times was with one of the most recent ladies. I have aeen her 5 or 6 times in the past 7 months. Another I saw about 6 times over the course of a year. Those two stand out in my mind right now as ATF's who I plan on continuing to see. There is a UTR lady I see for a last minute thing here and there who I have probably aeen 7 times in the past 3 years, but she's more of an afterthought type than a "I cant wait to see her" type. Other than those three, other than the occasional 2nd go round I think I mostly have be a one and done guy with most of them in the past 25 years.