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thickyjr 597 reads
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I'll take that as a compliment 🤕 ... not that this was Virgin territory to me IRL.
Just haven't found many I'd enjoy as much as I do this lady.  
First class all the way ... just can't afford to play now the way I could before.  
But I get the point.

thickyjr4228 reads

I'm meeting a provider for fun, dinner and then going to see Barbara Streisand with my friend. During a normal session, she mentioned that Babs tix were going on sale that day.  

I'm a real rock and roller but love all genres of music. So I went on line, put 2 tix on hold and asked her if she really wanted to attend the show. She said yes but I didn't have to spend that much for the tix and just being there would be fine. But I got great seats. I don't roll that way, cheaping out, hit the send button and bought the tix.

How many guys do this(?) just to spend some more time out of bed with someone whose company you enjoy?  

Last year, I'd never think of spending the money for her time. I've met some unique women since then and my philosophy on spending is much different. And I've reaped the rewards of these new relationships.  

Ladies, I'm guessing you'd enjoy this. Not necessarily with me, lol ... but am I right

wrps07952 reads

Don't feel guilty. Enjoy the time together. You can't fuck the whole time, especially if it is multiple days. They feel good to go shopping, what woman would not. It is fun if the date starts in the morning, get in  couple pops, eat breakfast, go out to a movie/shopping, then come back to the hotel and fuck again.

thickyjr726 reads

I'll probably have to pull the plug on apre sex. But it will be great b4.

GaGambler579 reads

A "happy hooker" is most likely going to make you very happy as well. Taking her to someplace SHE wants to go may very well pay you dividends in the long run. It's a lot different than dragging her to someplace that YOU want to go to, but an activity that she really can't stand.

Now speaking for myself, I can't imagine paying a woman her "hourly rate" to take her somewhere she wanted to go to any how, but if it makes you and her both happy, why not?

As for getting "great" seats rather than just "being there" Yeah, I agree 100%. Anything worth doing is worth "doing right" I don't buy cheap booze, I don't fuck ugly women, and I don't sit in the cheap seats.  

I will add, the fact that she cares about how much you had to spend on the tickets and her statement that it wasn't necessary for her to enjoy herself does speak volumes about the lady herself. It shows she doesn't take your gesture or you "for granted" I bet you will be rewarded for your gesture.

thickyjr558 reads

not a freebie but not her hourly. As for the long run, we'll it's a mid term relationship at this point ...lol.  

Posted By: GaGambler
A "happy hooker" is most likely going to make you very happy as well. Taking her to someplace SHE wants to go may very well pay you dividends in the long run. It's a lot different than dragging her to someplace that YOU want to go to, but an activity that she really can't stand.  
   
 Now speaking for myself, I can't imagine paying a woman her "hourly rate" to take her somewhere she wanted to go to any how, but if it makes you and her both happy, why not?  
   
 As for getting "great" seats rather than just "being there" Yeah, I agree 100%. Anything worth doing is worth "doing right" I don't buy cheap booze, I don't fuck ugly women, and I don't sit in the cheap seats.  
   
 I will add, the fact that she cares about how much you had to spend on the tickets and her statement that it wasn't necessary for her to enjoy herself does speak volumes about the lady herself. It shows she doesn't take your gesture or you "for granted" I bet you will be rewarded for your gesture.

GaGambler577 reads

If you are paying anything at all for "her time" you don't have a "relationship" mid term or otherwise. You have just what I said you have, a very "happy hooker" and that's all you have at the moment.

Not that there is anything wrong with having a "very happy hooker" of course, just don't read anything more into it, or we will start calling you "tubbo jr" instead of "thickyjr"

thickyjr712 reads

it's ok to assume I don't know the difference. But I do  lol  
Thank you. You have such a warm and fuzzy personality.
The ladies must like you

GaGambler568 reads

News flash, you don't have to be a BSU to get women to like you.

A man with a spine will get a lot more women to like and respect him than a spineless jellyfish. Not calling you a "spineless jellyfish of course, but it certainly would not surprise me to find out that you are of the phylum Cnidari

relationship
[ri-ley-shuh n-ship]
noun
1. a connection, association, or involvement.
2. connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3. an emotional or other connection between people: the relationship between teachers and students.
4. a sexual involvement; affair.

We have relationships with our bank tellers and Uber drivers. For chrissakes- you sound like a high-schooler terrified of commitment. Jeeze- relax, cowboy.  

If someone sees someone regularly, over decades, perhaps, but still pays his entrance fee, you're seriously saying there is no "relationship"? It's just a different kind of relationship. And the money defines the boundaries perfectly.

GaGambler345 reads

but when a john refers to his paid date as a "mid term relationship" he doesn't thinking "paid relationship" He is undoubtedly one of those guys who is reading more into the "relationship"

I dunno- maybe so. But I read it more like they've been through the honeymoon phase and are now settled into a regular flow of things. Like all relationships, ours have beginnings, middles, and ends.  

Just another reason to hold ever sacrosanct that envelope. The solid, impermeable walls of our precious, secret garden. :)

Posted By: GaGambler
but when a john refers to his paid date as a "mid term relationship" he doesn't thinking "paid relationship" He is undoubtedly one of those guys who is reading more into the "relationship"

Although by definition you're right, however, when a client uses the term relationship and is speaking of his escort, 9 times out of 10 he is not referring to the escort-client relationship.

But I'm firm on no OTC time. I'm also very firm on boundaries.

I would. Well, I have the time. And you can play the verbatim card whenever you feel ... Have any of the naysayers thought that they're  
being set up to express their automated opinions just by what and how a phrase is expressed. It's easy to get the sharks to come out to feed.  

Very sensitive trigger Fins, I guess you could say. Amazing to think that the brain surgeons on the board know so much about those  they've never met.  

I'll put an asterisk next to key words in the future to let y'all know when I'm speaking tongue in cheek. Thank me now, thank me later... thank me not at all. And while much of your responses (not aiming this post AT you GaGa) so many are so predictable and so easy to get the desired response from (DP) ... lol

Feeding time ...

a show or concert.

Last time is was an opera at The Met.

Enjoy the show.  Babs is a first class act

The Land of Make Believe?

Still love you in that cardigan.

Posted By: mrfisher
a show or concert.  
   
 Last time is was an opera at The Met.  
   
 Enjoy the show.  Babs is a first class act.  
   
 

Happens alot more than you would think here.  Enjoy it, it's a ton of fun

Front row MADONNA tix for my bday last year... He asked how many & I said 3 & bam .... 3 tix....  The concert was fabulous!!!!    

You can see the fab pix on my site titled: Madonna

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Congarts- you become a MAN. Man does know how spend his time enjoying things he likes  and not alone:)

Yes we , women , those who do like men and ot just money  and have well-balanced interests and life - such women do enjoy spend  time with man and share his interests with him.. it is  very helpful  when interest are matching  
- as myself - i do many things  
 such as  
 Opera, and classic rock . as to classic rock i want to share with lovers this link  
here you may see Mick preparing .. :) not really rare video .. yet not many have found it . Enjoy, those who Love Rolling stones. find on your face book  this  
 Le Pietre Rotolanti
@LePietreRotolanti

 
I saw Barbara Streisand in Whitney museum recently. And even spoke with her .. she of course did not admitted that it is her. .. ( who would say in own mind - yes It is me .. then there be a crowd.. she smiled  nod her head and walked by - I doubt that it is her at first, the  I saw Whitney Museum   making her exhibitions seems she starting do somwthignt there with whitney museum  

I generally love spend time with my dates and attending opera, and museums - my other favorite is  
Neue Galerie  East 86 I think .. there  amazing cafe to seat and talk about art ..
 I do know bios almost all artists .. as well as and composers.

Spend time with me for intelligent man is just delight .. and he is not paying his money for MY time - he is donation for his own enjoyment.  

Just find right person  to spend time with.  

Now you are man.. so you love time with women and beoynd when they are just naked .. it is takes a man  
 do you know saying ?
 The real power  of man is in a  smile of the woman who seats next to him  

I wish you the best in your new discover ,  am soo happy when I meet true men. And I meeting them quite often.  

Love  

[email protected]  

Pavleina

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thickyjr598 reads

I'll take that as a compliment 🤕 ... not that this was Virgin territory to me IRL.
Just haven't found many I'd enjoy as much as I do this lady.  
First class all the way ... just can't afford to play now the way I could before.  
But I get the point.

I have went to quite a few concerts usually this occurs on a clock-free date.I am more of a smooth jazz and r&b type of gal when it comes to music but I do like other genres as well.A gent and I went to see Elton John now he is not my type of music I generally listen to but the show he put on was great.Tons of energy everyone was dancing I might have not heard of some of the songs but I had a great time.
I have been on dates where I have seen Journey,Diana Krall,Kiss,etc.I enjoyed all of the concerts.
A few of these dates were with gents who have never done multi-hour dates or clock-free dates that included public time so it was nice to have a new experience.
Every gent is different some like an hour or two some like dinner dates,multi-hours,or weekends.
Do what is comfortable for you and have a good time at the concert:)

Explore this darker and twisted side for now but we will welcome you back in 2017...after the conversion therapy of course. LOL

thickyjr357 reads

we were so close back then ... now this?

Posted By: JackDunphy
Explore this darker and twisted side for now but we will welcome you back in 2017...after the conversion therapy of course. LOL

We have several excellent professors to teach you how to pay for the sex (at a discounted rate) but still get the OTC. LOL

The first step toward recovery is admitting you have a problem and you have now done that.  

You have to hit rock bottom first. Going to see Babs tells me you are close. VERY close. LOL

When you have the urge to go see Nickleback, call me immediately. :D :

thickyjr551 reads

figures you'd be lurking at the bottom 😆😆😆

I'm management and I'm here to help. LMAO

So why not spend all the rest of the time Doing stomething else.

Posted By: thickyjr
I'm meeting a provider for fun, dinner and then going to see Barbara Streisand with my friend. During a normal session, she mentioned that Babs tix were going on sale that day.  
   
 I'm a real rock and roller but love all genres of music. So I went on line, put 2 tix on hold and asked her if she really wanted to attend the show. She said yes but I didn't have to spend that much for the tix and just being there would be fine. But I got great seats. I don't roll that way, cheaping out, hit the send button and bought the tix.  
   
 How many guys do this(?) just to spend some more time out of bed with someone whose company you enjoy?  
   
 Last year, I'd never think of spending the money for her time. I've met some unique women since then and my philosophy on spending is much different. And I've reaped the rewards of these new relationships.  
   
 Ladies, I'm guessing you'd enjoy this. Not necessarily with me, lol ... but am I right?  
   
 

thickyjr622 reads

and translate them for everyone.  
Sort of the public service thing he's into  
I do understand what 15 is thoug

Get undress, Kiss plug my nose find the pussey plug my nose. Get dress leave a min early.

I have taken two of my ATFs to local wineries on extended dates and the time spent together was amazing. The candid conversations and just being out in public makes it a true GF experience. I would love to do more but it takes planning.

you may be the only straight man there.  The attention you get might make your date jealous.

Thin tie and sneakers and whistle....

"it's a beautiful day in the neighborhood"

 

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
you may be the only straight man there.  The attention you get might make your date jealous.  

The plans you have for your session sound like a great time. It's all about what you want... No matter what you decide to do, the Provider of your choice will make sure that you receive the fulfillment that you deserve. So, do what brings you enjoyment and you will always win;)  

As far as the question on the table, you are not right or wrong. If you want to do something, it's right because you genuinely want that particular experience. It's always right, if it's right for you. She's very fortunate to have you as a client;)

Best Wishes;) -Abla

extended engagements. A delicious dinner, a good show, and all the time in between make for a perfect engagement with someone whose company you enjoy. The icing on the cake at the end of the evening, and possibly more icing in the morning (if you're spending the night together), tastes that much better. Plus, it's rare to find someone who shares musical/gastronomical/theatrical interests in this arena, so when you find it, jump on it!

I'm resigned to attending operas by myself- mostly because I've only met one gent who loves it as much as I do in this arena. And he's my friend from many years ago. In recent years we haven't had the good fortune to find ourselves in the same city where there might be an opera. And I have absolutely nobody in my real life who would be interested. It's funny- sometimes I go to see a live telecast of a met performance near me, and I am surrounded exclusively by very elderly people with white hair. Lol! Just like when I'd go to the Kabuki in Japan. It's a shame more younger people aren't interested in these performances. In NY, when I actually attend a real opera, I see many more younger people. I guess Tampa is just not that cool. lol!  

My other love is metal, but I'm not holding out any hope there, either.

But seriously, finding someone you enjoy as much out of bed is really what it's all about for me. What's the point otherwise? People can be fascinating, and if I have the choice to meet someone for a quick roll or the chance to meet someone for an overnight that includes dinner and a show, I much prefer the latter. I love learning the intricacies of my lovers' minds, and this is so much more fun to do over time.

ETA: Streisand is a phenomenal live performer! Enjoy!!

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than spending ample time with a client, someone who you just vibe well with. Not feeling rushed to "get all the activities in", and just enjoying yourself in public and private. It is by far, my favorite past time. My advice would be never to suggest that she see you "off the clock", simply because you are doing an activity that she prefers over what you would. We get these requests from clients a lot, and of course it is our job to make sure that everyone understands that this is still an escort-client relationship and not a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship.  

Alternatively to that, let's say you knew you wanted to spend the majority of your time moving forward with just her rather than other escorts, and you were willing to commit to a monthly arrangement, where you pay upfront for the month x amount to see her x amount of times for untimed dates.  That is pretty common, for me and others on here I'm sure. It gives you the opportunity to not pay by the hour and worry about the clock, and it gives her the opportunity to know that she can count on your monthly financial contribution.

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