so you're as full of shit as a Christmas goose. I'm calling BS on you.
Hobbyists and providers do you think that sending a note of appreciation after a session with a client - provider is a nice touch? Would the lack of a thank you note be a factor in whether you see her / him again?
the San Diego board from a week ago. How about something original?
Post here with the grown ups then learn how to spell! You're like what we call a "clueless valley girl" in California. It's NOT a compliment.
Sorry to call you out again but this constitutes crapping on a tread.
Right away for plagiarizing the San Diego board. It was not too late at the time for her to edit the topic to something original.
I'm not a PC guy, so I will call it like I see it. Your insertion of an admonition might have some value to me if you didn't prove yourself to be such a mysoginist when you posted last week that you "don't give much weight to female opinion", an insult to the intelligent providers here.
You are the kind of hobbyist that HATES that you HAVE to pay for sex. I'm the kind thats HAPPY that I have this option. For me, civvies are often boring and too much drama. You have confessed to not much game with civvies, so you don't have as many options, which affects your perspective.
I posted out of a conversation I was having with a friend. see I have a life. I don't cruise all over each board here like you do all day.
so you're as full of shit as a Christmas goose. I'm calling BS on you.
And sometimes, if I really liked the lady, I'll express the hope that it can happen again. But the key word is "brief." She's busy with her life.
Sometimes they beat me too it because sessions tend to wear me out and I often sleep till noon the next day. Not always, but most times. I've been very lucky to have met so many truly cool ladies and very few seconds.
She has always seemed to have appreciated it, and I certainly do when the lady reaches out. Sets the stage for second meetings, and beyond.
his hobby email or pm never by phone or text.I get thank you notes as well.
I think it is a nice touch I have been doing this for years:
I use to always send a thank you next or email. Then I started putting a thank you note in with the donation. Either way the lady is definitely getting a thank you note from me afterward.
I typically send a note to a provider regardless of frequency. A lack of a note would not be a factor to me.
providers I've seen. It's a nice courtesy, I think, and an indication that meeting again would be enjoyable. I definitely notice the lack of a note and together with other considerations it MAY impact whether I see a lady again.
If I had a good time, I'll usually send a short email saying thank you within 24 hours or so. I don't expect thank you notes from providers, but I certainly don't mind getting them. Personally, whether a provider sends me a thank you note has little impact on whether I'd see her again. It's a nice touch, but a repeat hinges on how I felt about her looks, performance, client-provider chemistry, etc. If I don't send a thank you note, it could mean that I just got busy and forgot or it could mean that I didn't have that great a time. I may see her again in the former situation but unlikely in the latter.
the Happy Birthday notes you get from your health club, auto dealership, restaurant etc...
From time to time I get an honest message from a provider that confirms what occurred during the date.
I never send a TY note to a provider because generally I don't contact providers unless it's a first meeting.
If I had a good time, which is almost always. Especially if we click/connect. Especially if I plan on seeing them again. Takes 5 minutes, and it's just politeness.
...and fear that they have a new stalker.
Society being what it is today, I can see a lady getting the wrong idea from this innocent gesture, especially if she has had problems with a clingy client in the past.
the practice among clients is common enough that providers know (or learn) not to read too much into a simple, short thank you. OTOH, I could definitely see long, intricate thank you messages coming off as creepy/stalker, especially if there is too much communication outside the standard boundaries of setting up an appointment, logistics, etc.
If he was a good guy and sane in the session, I can't see a professional lady having an issue recieving a thank you note. Beyond that, without a response from the girl, would be a different matter.
To me, it makes a lot of sense for the thank you to come from the gal, as he (or she! Lol) just filled her purse with some very good money and he/she is the client, but I don't get bent if I don't recieve one. No real etiquette involved. No biggee for me either way.
I always shoot a text thanking them, telling them how beautiful they were, how much I enjoyed our date, I liked it when you did this, etc. The only one who gets other random texts from time to time is my ATF, and she does the same for me. We have a comfort level.
ladies. The other 5% were after encounters that didn't go so well for whatever reason.
Also, I have noticed that more MILF's (mid 30's and up) are more apt to send a TU to a hobbyist than a young hottie.
to my favs after a session if we communicate by email. I'm between favs right now but will again if it happens.
I always send the provider I see a thank you email a day or 2 after the session. Nothing too creepy just thank you for seeing me, I really enjoyed (something non sexual like a conversation about a common interest), hopefully you'll visit my city soon again. I read somewhere that it's good form to send a thank you note to your escort.
I don't expect one from the escort, and I've already made the decision on if I'd see her again, so a thank you email would have no impact.
I have never received a thank you from a provider.
I did provide a thank you to an ATF who was (she retired) amazing in terms of, well, everything! She was sweet and knew how to make a connection with each client. I have not come close to that experience again.
I always send a thank you to the agency (whomever helped me with the scheduling and/or the main contact person) because many of the ladies told me it was significant for them to have positive feedback sent to their "boss" (what is the right term?).
I also sent them often when I am on my way home and still glowing and smiling thinking about my date