Today I met with my ATF and she had very quiet smooth jazz in the background. I loved it because I did barely noticed it.
Most young girls, like yourself, have either the TV on or noticeable rap/pop/rock music. I find this annoying and always ask them to turn it off.
I prefer nothing, but my ATF has found the perfect volume and type for me. Thus, I actually enjoy it as it sets the mood.
But, such a question will have a different answer from each and every person.
My advice is that you inquire what your dates prefer. Each will be different. Thank you for asking. I wish other providers would follow your lead.
Yeah that seems right. These preferences will vary person to person, and just asking your dates is probably a great idea. But then, what should you buy for your collection to be prepared for the answers? If you're trying to get a general concession I'll throw in my vote. I've met a couple ladies I was pretty crazy about but I just could not stand the rap they played all through the sessions.
I think showing up at a lady's incall and finding a turntable and a record collection would be very sexy-cool. If we're talking about where to spend money on vinyl, I'd say buy whatever blows YOUR skirt up. Then, when your collection fits the bill for what someone has asked for, that will be something for you to bond over. When they ask for something you don't have on vinyl, punch it up on your phone or whatever. For some people, a record collection is almost sacred. Don't put one together for other people's needs, go out and get what you're passionate about.
Just my two cents.
Asking is a great idea, but I'd be likely to disappoint unless I want to collect some from every genre. Perhaps a simple choice, like "Beethoven or Mahler" or "classical or swing" would be better
Jazz is a great suggestion! In fact, I just ordered some Billie Holiday and Ella Fitzgerald...I hope they're more sultry and less moody when played at the right moment.
oral, and swing during mish and CG is just fine with me. Wish you were in California. I get a lot of young providers playing electric music, and I have to ask them to turn it off. Its completely annoying.
I hate to sound like a "too good for pop culture" hipster, but...I do think popular music from times gone by was far more thoughtful and just pleasant to listen to. 
I am assuming that the majority of your suitors are extremely cultured and well educated. I myself tend to gravitate to some smooth R&B or some jazz when I engage in activity with someone of your stature.
http://youtu.be/dmTZvfahcAs
There is everything for me and him.
I may change to other.. depending on the mood .. but this steady, love making seducing, sharing, massage, , sharing bottle of champagne or two . building a moment together ...
OOOO this music does for me all on 1:36 - min lets say ... culimations and celebration of passion .. then on 1: 39 .. smooth touching after culmination .. and all over again ..we can break love making session with going out to real club.. come over and all again .. clothe just dropping on the floors with passion kissing .. I love to share with you this -
http://youtu.be/dmTZvfahcAs
I have many more such ..Time seems is dissolving and we feel just own bodies ...
as well as I love classical music and I have more then 367 days of listening classical music on my tablet. ..
Dancing .. show, yes .. but that one I am sharing is my favorite -as 4- 5 hours are as one hour.. enjoy.
Of course it is well takes a woman's I am to create a very private show with interesting ... developments.
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Listen swan song on the end 4.15 6 min .. something like that .. I just am melting when he still is kissing y neck and my hands and my body .. there no time to start over .. yet .. night is long ..life is long.. fantasy.
With love to you all
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Thank you for sharing! I could definitely see this working.
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are playing smooth jazz in the background when I arrive.It is my fav
As long as it is relaxing and not distracting perhaps some Sade,Kem,Maxwell(old maxwell urban hang suite)
an office building lobby, or the set of an old style porn flick?
Smooth jazz should be called sleep jazz.
Posted By: jaydalee
are playing smooth jazz in the background when I arrive.It is my fav
As long as it is relaxing and not distracting perhaps some Sade,Kem,Maxwell(old maxwell urban hang suite)
To my dearest Jayda,
I am assuming that we can always do a little something something until the cops come knocking.
Background music for us hard of hearing old gents just makes understanding things said more difficult.
I have to keep my hearing aids in and on,especially with the gabbier gals. Frankly I'd love to take them out because they "scream" with feedback as ears change positions relative to body parts, pillows, mattresses. But I haven't found a way to convince fellow human beings to shut up for 10 seconds.
When hard of hearing folks miss something if the gabber expects a response, things come to a stop while they repeat the same question with the same words, same rate, same tone. Only about 1 in 10 (and they are angels) thinks to reword their question.
I guess I got off on a tangent ...
One of my favorites to get the ladies in the mood.....
about this as well and I have asked a few of the gentleman what they think and I didn't get much feedback about it. So thanks guys for your input on this. Great question
And cool jazz or some of the modern digital. Sort of synthesized loop tape kind of thing with a steady rhythm. My favorite jazz for years has been Regina Carter. I don't like lyrics, especially in session, because lyrics are too much of a guide to the emotions. Think about it, Wildwood Flower is unrequited love with the lyrics, but instrumental it's just wherever your mind and the music takes you. Most digital is so repetitious on one phrase that it's just voice as instrument.
Sort of like the aria in Bachianas Brasileiras No. 5 (Villa-Lobo), there are lyrics, but it just fades into the voice as a soprano instrument, and doesn't dictate the mood
Posted By: RosieManhattan
I have a turntable and love playing music during a session; I mostly choose swing music or classical (it's wonderfully diverse, and can set the tone to be soothing, invigorating, romantic, or all at once), but I want to build my vinyl collection, so I'm wondering what clients might like to hear as they make sweet, sweet love to me.
and then you have to get up and flip the record over.
At one time there were automatic turntables where you could stack up to 6 discs which would automatically drop down on top of each other in sequence, thus allowing for a few hours of uninterrupted music. However, doing this invariably led to the discs to get scratched up pretty badly, so these quickly fell out of favor.
Today, most gals use a service like Spotify on their iphones often with some kind of wireless speakers to enhance the music. I think this is the ultimate in getting relaxing session music.
Being the fossil that I am, I still have a large collection of vinyl and a turntable, but I only use this when doing some serious listening.
My favorite music for a session is the kind of ambient music that Brian Eno used to specialize in, especially one hour long piece called Thursday Afternoon, which incidentally, was his first opus on CD. It is perfectly timed for a one hour session, even the last ten minutes or so of it is a cool down period. Interestingly, I used to see one massage gal every Thursday afternoon for several years, and brought this CD to play during our session. Can't find a more apt title for a CD than that.
Here's a link to it in case anyone is interested. Listen very carefully to the first two notes; they're sort of a subtle double take
so while I like background music, it needs to be low enough to not be distracting... or at least let your guest select volume. I KNOW for a fact I am hypersensitive to sounds. I think you need to switch to recorded media at some point. Many gals use timed playlists & it's easy to have a choice of jandra. I think it would be fun to have a few of each type ready. Aiming the speakers toward the door & away from the bed area helps mask sounds & softens the music.
Hi There
I always music in my sessions. Its a good ambience.
Cheers - Alley
I think it would be interesting to see what the frenzied rhythm of Cannibal Corpse or Deicide could do for some lovemaking.
playlist for actual play time... but on longer time sharing together... what a gas to spin vynal while we recharge and enjoy some light refreshments!
fits neatly on 1 side of vinyl...and because Bo Derek...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KgpEru9lhw
Joaqluin Rodrigo...
I have soft spot for Spanish music and dance it better then Latinos you know - just classically trained in folk dance of many European countries
That is is why French and Russian and German and perfect Spanish clap is perfect
We need establish dance club may be - I still am looking for partner for Ball room dances in NYC who would be passion as I am about that and will dedicate nice amount of time and efforts to learn how dance let s say rumba and tango if not just a bolero
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Pavliena
Just not too loud, and no commercials! Jazz and classical are least distracting...Barry White always works. Save the Floyd, Yes, Beatles, Stones, and classic rock for afterglow time. And never with '70's disco...
Music to me is often related to things beyond the hobby, so you need to be careful not to tap into outside memories. Then again, you'll never go wrong with "Life's been good to my so far"!
That is proves a need in intimate communication BEFORE date will take place - to taste the waters - if there anything what he or she must to know about each other in order to date be fulfilling its purpose-
I want ask ladies and gentlemen .. how you do approach such need in knowing each other before date?
So it would be not over the top and would not misslead a client that escort just seeking for real life date?
That is my problem - I do screen and do share and communicate intimately and want to know more about gentlemen to the point that he started think that I am looking for husband
( especially me being Russian - by some reasons american men do believe that we need them just for marriage )
We need you for sex and fun that is correct - somehow American dogs and Russian sluts are the best fir to each other with no any complications about emotions and being politically correct...
Yet because of my carefull screening and desire to meet all his expectations and know him before - make many men be very uncomfortable as if I want to enter his life for ever and do not leave.
That is so wrong about me - I never was married in states and received my citizenship on political asylum so if I not married back then for wrong reasons -( as make life easier and accept of love and sex man I do not want - OOO no way ... I so happy to be gorgeous had turning full energy, bold saying and doing all I want not looking at any other options - make people follow me, adore me , want me and yet be FREE from any wife- husband relationship _ when I walk in NYC and I see how men do look at me having their wives and GF s on their hands - I am smiling and celebrating that freedom and long legs and fit body ..and Happy that I found TER ..
so I now I am way too far form any desire to have traditional hubby - I do enjoy too much dates , dinners, vacation and passion intimacy and sharing staying totally free yet in fantasy of true love multiplied on passion of porno.
So How you gentlemen and ladies gathering information about your date so you would not cross professional boundaries - yet staying intimately connected?
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As I started hobbying with some semblance of regularity, I noticed that almost all providers played music during the session. Most had an affinity for smooth jazz. It wasn't my genre of choice, but I didn't question it. Plus, I was there for the music, if you catch my drift. One provider I saw played hard techno trance. Now *that* was freaking awesome! Even though much of it had to do with chemistry and being close in age, rather than the music. I got really into the session like never before, and pretty much floated out of her incall afterwards 
. That provider was Charlotte, who, unfortunately, retired by now.
What turned me off music during sessions is my past girlfriend's insistence on having music during sex, and quite loudly to boot. Her music of choice was soft rock, similar to the song during the "Zack and Miri Make a Porno" sex scene. I found the music to be distracting, and it made sex feel more intense and serious than I was comfortable with. I now request not to have music on during appointments. Most providers oblige, although one said it made her feel safer to have it playing, because it drowns out "natural" noises, in which case, I had no problem with it.
One of these days, I'm going ask a provider to play the 70's-era porn music. The kind with drums and rim shots, punctuated by occasional strings. That should be really fun.
