Surely she can come up with some imaginative excuse for not wanting to extend.
For example she could say she already promised her cancer-stricken dying mother that she would be at her bedside to hear last minute good bye right after the date so she can't squeeze in anymore time than the one hour already scheduled. Or that she's receiving the Pope flying in from Vatican City and he's coming 30min after the originally scheduled date. Etc... etc..I saw the ad of a lady I had seen previously so I contacted her for a sequel date of 1 hour. She responded immediately agreeing to meet and provided her new addy. An hour later, I realized I had a 90 minute date alibi so I messaged with the request for a little extra time. She answered that she preferred to keep it at 1 hour as she recently underwent a boob revision and was sore from that. Not wanting to run the risk of finding myself flossing with her breast sutures or have my lips stuck to her chest by surgical grade super glue or causing discomfort, even pain, from the prospective physical activity, I cancelled. When is it time to go back to work? When would you schedule with a provider who had recent surgery?
Well, I'm not a provider, but if that was your reason, you may not be allowed back. She was willing to play with reasonable restrictions and you kicked her in the teeth, so you ask for a replay at your own peril
sounds like he just wants "unrestricted" fun.
She should have mentioned any restrictions upon initial booking.
If I am reading the OP correctly and his facts are correct, she should have revealed any issues to him at the time of booking that would scale back any of the usual activities.
At that point, it would have been up to him to play under those restrictions. Or not.
And the "kick in the teeth" comment is absurd.
Again, if the scenario played out as he states, she showed a bit of unprofessionalism by not being forthright with him from jump street
i wish more providers would be professional about their situations and restrictions before booking. i am personally thinking of one girl who didn't bother to tell me she was having her period until i wanted to stick my fingers up inside her. if i had known she was riding the red wave i would have postponed the date for a week or so. as it was, she made my "not the most professional" list.
Many of us much prefer naturals to surgicals (or vice versa). If there was an unadvertised change in the fixtures, she should have told him up front.
Many possible reactions to her up front disclosure from a guy who has met her before:
1. But you were perfect the way you were! I think I'll pass.
2. But you were perfect the way you were! But I'd still like to see if perfection has been improved.
3. I didn't want to say anything, but I was going to suggest an enhancement. I can't wait to see them!
4. Thanks for telling me, but I'm really much more into that beautiful (face, ass, legs ...) of yours!
Etc.
As is often mentioned here, UNFULFILLED EXPECTATIONS is one the most common causes of client disappointment ... even when it's due to seemingly minor things like a hair color or hair length. A boob change is much more dramatic.
SHE SHOULD HAVE TOLD HIM UP FRONT
If you ever had a man card, turn it in, and do it NOW.
What the fuck is wrong with you? The lady clearly stated she was "sore" if I wanted sex with a woman complaining the whole time about being sore, or uncomfortable, and wanted to restrict my actions due to her being sore, I'd get married.
This woman still wants 100% of her rate, but is unwilling/able to give 100% performance, I would damn sure have canceled my appointment and told her to let me know when she was at 100%. If she never got back to me because of this, I would consider it a "bullet dodged"
Now drop down and give me fifty push ups, go get your testosterone checked, resubmit your application and MAYBE we will consider re issuing your man card.
What a fucking putz indeed
Wow. So I see by the number of "likes" that this board is completely swayed toward the provider getting paid at all costs even if she is totally at fault. OzzieM is either a clandestine spy for Team Provider or has no balls whatsoever. Odd how in addition to having no reviews, he has still managed to be Whitelisted by a provider.
Any who, from personal experience, I can say that having a session with a provider still "sore" from surgery is no fun! I wasn't informed that she had recently gone under the knife to get bigger boobs (nor did she have any bandages/stitches). What ensued over the next hour was countless complaints about soreness, don't touch here, don't touch there, can't do this position, it hurts when I do this. I don't blame her for being sore as I don't know the feeling of having implants or cosmetic surgery, however, a heads up would have been nice prior to administering the BJ and me trying to fondle a boob. All done strategically after the donation was handed over I might add.
I have seen a couple of threads being posted stating that clients who have the flu, a common cold, respiratory infections etc should stay home and not hobby until they are in the clear, so as not to compromise the providers ability to work. So whats good for the goose is good for the gander. I think I speak for the majority of us clients who just want an honest and up to date assessment of any recent surgeries that may hinder both our enjoyment of said mutually beneficial session. In the words of KD, OzzieM you're the real putz.
I arrived for the session and was THEN told that she was not feeling 100%. You would not have found out until you got there had you not asked about extending the session. I think she had an obligation to tell you anyway when you booked and give you the option to postpone for two weeks until she was back at full speed. Its like renting a car and then you go to pick it up and they tell you to go slow because one of the tires has a leak. Bad form on her part.
Her issue was with an extended date. Not a limited date which is what most of you are implying. She also may have had another appointment after him and was unable to extend his time but as many of you have mentioned before. Admiting that as a sex worker you have other clients than the one you are currently speaking/booking/having a session with is taboo according to these boards...
Surely she can come up with some imaginative excuse for not wanting to extend.
For example she could say she already promised her cancer-stricken dying mother that she would be at her bedside to hear last minute good bye right after the date so she can't squeeze in anymore time than the one hour already scheduled.
Or that she's receiving the Pope flying in from Vatican City and he's coming 30min after the originally scheduled date.
Etc... etc..
I know you were being facetious, but if a provider told me about something like that, it'd put a big damper into the appointment. Not to mention it's simply TMI. I remember a provider asking me to reschedule slightly earlier, because she said she had a birthday party to get to. I'd rather she say something like that.
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We are going by what the OP has told us and what he has told us it would be "limited" per the girl. I am really having trouble understanding how she would be perfectly fine for 60 mins but an extra 30 mins would put her in distress.
Again, if that indeed is the case, and I can't rule out that possibility, she should have told him up front so he could make an informed decision as that would be the professional way to handle this.
And who is advocating she needs to tell him another dude is scheduled after the OP? Why cant she simply state she in only available for 60 mins and leave it at that? She doesn't need to give a reason. It's none of his business why she isn't available
to postpone mine so the other client could have an extended session. It was still wrong of her to NOT present the option and let the person paying decide which they would rather do.
Escort had just had implants and said she still had a problem with one of her nipples. She was upfront so I went for it and left said nipple alone. Sadly she ruined her breasts, especially that nipple which is now permanently deformed but that is not the point. The point is my expectations were well managed by her.
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for about a month. The procedure was thru her nipples and she allowed I was first to bless the twins if I was careful. They were magnificent before and after and I got to gently remove her bandages but couldn't touch tehm. The sex otherwise was the usual. Spectacular.
The gist is she told me in advance so I agree with you up to the point of being annoyed or impatient. It's your dime and the decision is yours to make, but if you politely backed out without any drama, she'd be yours when she was totally available.
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I don't have breasts, obviously, but I'd wager a guess that breast surgery can leave the area pretty sore. Which can be problematic if the guest wants to play with them, do Russian, or both. Now, some guests will be OK with leaving them alone and just enjoying other activities. Others consider breasts to be an essential part of the experience. I'm the latter 
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So the OP's provider should have told him about her surgery situation, and what he can and cannot do during the session as a result. Then be willing to accept the possibility of a "maybe later". I, personally, wouldn't feel comfortable scheduling with a provider shortly after her surgery. Because I'd be worried about hurting her, which will make the session less enjoyable, which will make her worry she's doing something wrong. Not a good chain reaction.
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Yes I agree, when I had my breast surgery I waited 2 weeks before I started back. After I came back from surgery, before I scheduled with anyone I let them know in advance that I had surgery and that my breast were completely off limits. Some people decided they didn't care and others preferred to wait.
. So the OP's provider should have told him about her surgery situation, and what he can and cannot do during the session as a result. Then be willing to accept the possibility of a "maybe later". I, personally, wouldn't feel comfortable scheduling with a provider shortly after her surgery. Because I'd be worried about hurting her, which will make the session less enjoyable, which will make her worry she's doing something wrong. Not a good chain reaction.
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I do think she should have told you earlier and that you made the right call.
I also feel like pointing out that there is some likelihood she was not trying to 'pull a fast one' on you or anything. It is possible she felt comfortable giving 100% and the normal activities for 60 minutes but not 90. You said you two had met before, so maybe she felt it would go fine according to your tastes during a short session. A misstep, sure, but I'm not convinced she was trying to be sneaky or anything. She did tell you about the surgery when she could have said no to the extension and not divulged why. Sounds like she just kinda fucked up, but wasn't trying to fleece you.
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"btw, I just got implants" seems to me
Fact one she had a recent boob job and they could be off limits or dampen her performance. Playing with her breasts is an important menu idem to me. Possible play restrictions should have been brought up at the first.
Fact two she majorly changed her looks without notification. I am not a fan of oversized breasts. What is oversized? It varies by the woman but usually I like B to C cups, and to book that and get breasts bigger than that would be considered deception by me and I would walk. Better not to risk that and cancel until I can see an updated photo or two.
Actually after finding out she failed to notify me of a major change in her looks I doubt I would book her again regardless of the out come. This is a looks based industry and it would be like buying a red car but getting an orange one instead. Breasts are important to me. This is like a forty year old lady using twenty year old photos. Possible menu restrictions and major look changes are a big deal when not disclosed and is deceptive not to notify clients of the change
For my regular friend to get over her cosmetic surgery. Its been almost 5 weeks now. Last time I talk with her she said that she should be ready by the first week in August. Not sure on what she had done to herself, but I will find out soon. I am glad that she told me that she will be taking a few weeks off because of it. I guess it pays to be a regular client.
what you were encountering. That is positive that she told you. I have a provider that I see often (or did) and she underwent oral surgery the day of our appointment but did not tell me until we met. I was very disappointed in this because we kiss a lot and she was in no condition to do so. Needless to say I was fuming after I left. Have not been back to see her but due to finding better providers.
Why not honor what you originally proposed? If that's not satisfactory, then decline/cancel, and move on.