I understand the thinking that this is "soliciting" one's company, but a nice hello from someone that likes your online personna on a fuck board as it's referred to regularly (because it is) works for me and obviously others. No harm No foul?
have been curious about a guy on the board, read his reviews, found him intriguing, then sent a PM asking when you were going to meet him.
There's a lot of guys that shudder to think a hooker would send the first message. But PMs are private so it's not a matter of blowing his cover. I'm gonna pay regardless of who initiates the first call, so it wouldn't bother me ... find it kinda cool. And of course it's an ego rush. Obviously
Guys, anything new to lend on the subject? Not the same old if you can think out of the box for a moment.
You are one of the few women that are active on this site as a "hobbyist", so I'm not surprised. I'm 100% certain you have your own following of ladies who appreciate that fact.
....some of whom are no longer just curious 
Someone has to show them, why not you. The question is when are they going to write a review of you? I'd be most curious to read their side.
...more like doubling their potential client pool 
And I could only imagine the things that some of the providers that I've seen would write! OMG!!!
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I do enjoy the personalities.
When I see that a guy posts things that I am thinking,
or, I see a review where I know I could Rock a service that he seems to be wanting--
I feel we would do good together.
Still, I was not taught to go get the boy
Is just not satisfied until he is the sexiest motherfucker in the room. I can't imagine contacting him hitting him up for a session. Unless he becomes a mind reader and geolocation hacker, we likely will never cross paths. Lol
Sometimes one must take the risk in order to obtain the reward.
PM's in response to board posts. Some providers agree with me and some disagree, but want to keep our discussion private, which I always respect. I don't usually view these as them "making a move" because something I posted prompted the contact. But sometimes after a few PM's they will say something flirty or invite me to see them. I don't mind them changing the subject in this way. After all, they have a business, and I am a potential customer. I will then check their websites and if it seems like a good match for me, I will see them. I love smart women, and many who post here are very quick, which is extremely attractive. However, there needs to be physical attraction, too, and that is often where it ends. Their photos just don't close the deal.
As far as having a provider just hit me up out of the blew, like a solar panel cold call, it hasn't happened to me yet, so not sure how I would react.
To answer your question,yes but only when they make an ISO post.On my regional discussion board every once in a while, I respond to ISO posts send them a private message.It burns when they don't respond lol.they almost never respond.Anyways lesson learned.If a gentlemen wants to see me I just wait for him to reach out to me
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There's a lot of guys that shudder to think a hooker would send the first message. But PMs are private so it's not a matter of blowing his cover. I'm gonna pay regardless of who initiates the first call, so it wouldn't bother me ... find it kinda cool. And of course it's an ego rush. Obviously
Guys, anything new to lend on the subject? Not the same old if you can think out of the box for a moment.
That's the only thing that would stop me from contacting someone I find intriguing on the boards.
There's a lot of guys that shudder to think a hooker would send the first message. But PMs are private so it's not a matter of blowing his cover. I'm gonna pay regardless of who initiates the first call, so it wouldn't bother me ... find it kinda cool. And of course it's an ego rush. Obviously
Guys, anything new to lend on the subject? Not the same old if you can think out of the box for a moment.
if I paid you 400 for your time ...
BTW .. free what? .... lol
There's a lot of guys that shudder to think a hooker would send the first message. But PMs are private so it's not a matter of blowing his cover. I'm gonna pay regardless of who initiates the first call, so it wouldn't bother me ... find it kinda cool. And of course it's an ego rush. Obviously
Guys, anything new to lend on the subject? Not the same old if you can think out of the box for a moment.
I'm particular about whom I meet, and I need more than just a simple ego boost from getting a fan letter
There's a lot of guys that shudder to think a hooker would send the first message. But PMs are private so it's not a matter of blowing his cover. I'm gonna pay regardless of who initiates the first call, so it wouldn't bother me ... find it kinda cool. And of course it's an ego rush. Obviously
Guys, anything new to lend on the subject? Not the same old if you can think out of the box for a moment.
I complimented one of the local providers on a photo she posted, and she PMed me with "Thank you, we should meet." The only problem is, she's a little out of my price range, and she's low volume, so she can't budge on her rates. I think it's driving us both nuts.
I understand the thinking that this is "soliciting" one's company, but a nice hello from someone that likes your online personna on a fuck board as it's referred to regularly (because it is) works for me and obviously others. No harm No foul?
I'm really happy for the reach out. A few of them have researched my reviews after my comments on certain topics and suggest that we might be a good match.
The communication has always been in context and really, to me, appropriate and sexy. The ladies that have done this have been eloquent and are intellectually attractive to me.
I enjoy many different ways of seduction. Whether it's my attempts or theirs.
When I return home from my travels, I intend to follow up with these ladies. After my research, I believe they are correct that we may be good matches.
Obviously, anyone can buy looks. But that above and beyond attraction is what turns me on immensely
Let us know how that works out. Have fun. Be safe. Repeat
The communication has always been in context and really, to me, appropriate and sexy. The ladies that have done this have been eloquent and are intellectually attractive to me.
I enjoy many different ways of seduction. Whether it's my attempts or theirs.
When I return home from my travels, I intend to follow up with these ladies. After my research, I believe they are correct that we may be good matches.
I have not seen either of these ladies although I did do some research to see if we might be compatible.
I had met her years earlier at an M&G in NYC, for all of about a minute before her existing clients dragged her off. She was one of the best known ladies nationally at the time, and her reputation was sterling. The lady in question was not from NYC, though she toured here often. I was put off by the cut-off, and never followed up with her. Four years later, she followed up, which isn't supposed to happen. But it did, yet another great chapter in this hobby! Lady is from WA, still friends with her. Go figure.
I have been pmed by a couple of ladies about a post who have suggested a meeting. I find it pretty flattering actually. I do respond to any and all pms and have been lucky enough to have met some pretty amazing ladies that tour in my town that way. If I had the funds and the ability to travel I would have tried to meet almost all of them.
saying the like my posts, or support my side of an argument. None have asked for a meeting, but receiving the PM does inspire me to check their pics and reviews. Don't remember specifically but a booking may have resulted from at least one of these. Bottom line...unsolicited PMs are not offensive in any way.