Amen clear-de-lion, amen
This is my Game-Plan as wellCuriosity leads me to get feedback! I for one enjoy DATY and would like to find out others' experiences.
Gents - Please describe your general experience with smell, taste and all physical attributes during orgasm.
Ladies/Providers - Please indicate if this is an experience that has varying pleasure with multiple clients if seeing them on the same day. Also anything else you can add.
Thanks.
I haven't gotten the "wet explosions" everyone else talks about.
Still waiting for a volcano of pussy juice to drench my face
I am in the same boat! I wonder if some reviewers exaggerate.
I personally love to DATY. It usually is one sure fire way to get me rock hard if the lady is clean and attractive. Most women I have experienced have very little to no smell, probably because they are clean. Some have a musky smell which is not bad at all, and I have run into a few that just smelled bad. Possibly due to not being freshly clean, but a couple in particular just had a bad natural smell as they were that way fresh out of the shower. Not their fault and I would dine anyway and didn't say anything. If I don't suspect they are clean and they smell bad I don't dine at all. Taste relates to smell for me. As for physical attributes during orgasm, women are different. To be honest I mostly pay attention to their facial reactions while dining. I am sure some have faked it with me, and I am sure some have had genuine orgasms. I know if you watch close you can see contractions of their pussy but they could also do that on their own while faking to make it more real. All in all I think a woman's vagina is a wonderful and beautiful thing if taken care of, and they have given me much pleasure!
There are three kinds of providers when it comes to DATY:
1. Those that truly enjoy it;
2. Those that are indifferent but pretend to enjoy it; and
3. Those that merely tolerate it.
Fortunately, I have enough experience to know the difference and will repeat only with providers in the first group.
Amen clear-de-lion, amen
This is my Game-Plan as well
Women are sure different in that regard. How many men do you think would be indifferent or tolerate a blowjob? Not many I don't think.
"I don't really like blowjobs, but she wanted to do it, so I let her go until she was finished." Lol
...since its my fave service (giving and receiving). Maybe some have had bad experiences in the past and now simply don't want it. Very very sad.
Of an issue with higher volume providers. I would imagine if I was getting my fourth blowjob of the day I might not be as enthused as I was with the first or second.
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and trust me when I tell you it is no picnic. There are those who got it and those who welllll not so much. I will say that I adore a man/woman who has the skill locked down. It is by far my most favorite The very reason I taken every opportunity to polish my oral skills.
So those guys that don't got it, do you tell them what they are doing wrong and what you like so they can learn and your experience will be better? I like to think I am pretty good at it but I am not a mind reader and if I was doing something they didn't like I hope they would tell me and guide me to their likes.
Anything even mildly critical, even if her intent is to be helpful, is going to destroy the guy's fantasy that he is a big stud with awesome lovemaking skills. Its like telling your wife her meatloaf sucks. Nothing good can come of it.
Not true with all guys.
Yes, I am not shy about this in the least. Further, I give a very detailed lesson in making me cum on my website. There are still those who just do as they wish. Makes me want to use my teeth so they truly appreciate what it feels like.
Thank you, Erin. Hilarious and from what I've heard only too true.
Telling her date that you are terrible at DATY or that your bedroom moves make her feel like aliens are probing her body (and not in a good way) is the stuff a RL GF might do, but not anything any paid provider giving fantasy GFE would ever do. Part of the GFE is the fantasy that you're a stud even though that is rarely true. Unless she is crazy, getting out of the business, or just can't take having her pussy face-raped by a man one more damn time, she will just grin and bear it. I know for a fact that when some providers say they're just not into DATY, they mean that most guys suck at it and she'd rather not get face-raped today.
Some prefer to be licked ... just saying
I think it's sad that they have to fake orgasms. Sad indeed. It's not necessary.
I can take or leave a blow job... It's not what I'm in this for
OK, I guess I'm going to be the occasional exception to the rule. There is one lady I see frequently and the sexual chemistry is unbelievable. The moment the door closes, its game on. She has become quite assertive in what she wants and I'm more than willing to let her take charge. We go from 0 to 100 in seconds.
I will come close and say: "I don't really like MEDIOCRE OR BAD blowjobs, but she wanted to do it, so I let her go until she was finished." I don't subscribe to the "there is no such thing as a bad pizza/blowjob" theory. I've had bad pizza before. I've had a bad blowjob before. I'll take a pass on both. If a girl is not good at oral, there are other games we can play I'm sure I'll enjoy.
BJs and sometimes let her do it anyway.
If they don't do it well I Ihink to myself "Can we just get this over with?"
I know service providers that say they aren't crazy about DATY but admit what they really mean is that most guys aren't good at it and - to use Erin's terminology - she'd rather not get face-raped today
I enjoy DATY when ladies wants that, but with a women I have not been with before I start with digital stimulation & sniff my hand before I take the plunge.
and only one for sure who gets off on it because she quivers, shakes, and shouts.
I enjoy all the manifestations from observing the orgasm to the taste, aroma, and pyrotechnics
I know that you're the mangina of all mangina's, but please don't babble that when you're paying for pussy that you can't get a gal to allow you to DATY.
If that's the case, and you're being honest here, please turn in your man card immediately.
I enjoy all the manifestations from observing the orgasm to the taste, aroma, and pyrotechnics.
oh, that's right, this is a fuck board and you can say anything ....
I = IGNORANT ... not that you get it.
It is an inside joke and he would understand. When he first entered the hobby he saw Bev Fisher who was an active escort then. That is how he got the name Mr. Fisher. So for us old heads we tease him with that name.
I = IGNORANT ... not that you get it.
I enjoy all the manifestations from observing the orgasm to the taste, aroma, and pyrotechnics.
I've read a lot of reviews and posts where reviewers claimed to give providers an O with DATY (or otherwise). I'm guessing at least some of those claims are accurate, but I strongly suspect they are frequently less accurate than we guys like to think. These girls are actors and God bless them for it. Much better to have a hot, steamy, passionate fantasy than a cold, mechanical reality. Go for the Oscar, ladies. We'll come back for more. But if I were betting, I'd put money that most of those shudders, shakes, and shouts are just a polite way of saying "let's wrap it up and move along to the next activity now, OK?" That being said, only your provider will ever really know which boat you're in. But if you're with a provider, does it really even matter? If part of your fantasy GFE experience is to give her an O with DATY, isn't a well-played fake O just as good for the client as a real O? What the client doesn't know won't hurt him?
So except maybe for GaG, I think we're all still learning.
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Thanks to everyone so far for some great feedback. It is good to know that it is a sought after act for both males and females! In general, I sense that not many experience the ultimate fantasy (at least for me) of "creamy" orgasm. Perhaps watching some erotic porn (not too common) with drop dead gorgeous babes demonstrating this quality has left me chasing an elusive dream!
I would like to experience this with a provider. To raise the bar higher, I would love to have two or three female providers make this fantasy true. Nothing like undressing a sexy provider and finding her panty wet with pussy juice and then when she orgasms after DATY, some tasty cream!!!
DATY is one of my absolute favorites. I can, and have, spent an hour down there. Something about the mix naughty and the fact that a dick does one thing -- go in and out -- but you can do all kinds of tricks with your tongue. I love big sloppy kisses afterwards if the lady is ok with it.
I've never had anyone (partner or p4p) tell me I was anything less than amazing. I get that escorts are actors and are supposed to tell you you're the best in the world, but I really hope a least a few have been honest in their admiration. Real or not, it's a confidence boost and I love it so I'll keep doing it.
Interestingly enough, only done DATO once with a partner. Current one isn't too interested in it, and I have no idea how to breach the subject with an escort. Ladies?
Do you think we haven't heard it all before ? If they don't like dato then it wasn't done right or at all 😉
Let's face it, we're guys. We have no idea what any of that really feels like. Not to mention everyone is a little different. For example, some guys like ball play and some don't. I can't imagine women are all exactly the same in their sensitivity and preferences either.
No service provider can ever be trusted to give honest feedback on your DATY performance. They are ruthless flatterers by trade. (And I for one love them for it.) Anything less spoils the fantasy GFE.
I think male over-confidence in our DATY skills may be further proof of the Dunning-Kruger effect. See link. Basically, many of us are too incompetent at DATY to realize that we are incompetent at DATY.
Gents - Please describe your general experience with smell, taste and all physical attributes during orgasm.
Ladies/Providers - Please indicate if this is an experience that has varying pleasure with multiple clients if seeing them on the same day. Also anything else you can add.
Thanks.
Gentlemen 50+ (really 60+ 
eat pussy the best. Hands down.
Usually very sensual...Yes please lol
In regards to smell, the only bad experience I have ever had was with a civvie. They don't have to worry about reviews.
I detected a smell once that I thought might have been caused by a condom but other than that there is no unpleasant smell if the lady is clean and has no condition like a yeast infection.
I've done DATY with every professional lady I've ever been with. It's actually never crossed my mind that she wouldn't like it and I only once had an experience where I thought she didn't. I also like to do DATO and have never had an experience where the lady didn't like that either (the lady who didn't like DATY actually did like DATO very much and didn't want me to quit).
The best advice I can give is to be patient although the professional ladies seem to get off much faster than civvies do in my experience. Just do what your libido tells you to do when you go down and they will give you signals (heavy breathing) as to what feels good and then you just keep doing that until they come. Every one is different but it will be obvious when it happens. Some can orgasm over and over again and you can keep on doing it and some take more work but seem to cum harder when they do. I kind of enjoy the latter as a challenge.
The lack of smell can, unfortunately in many cases, be attributed to lack of natural vaginal lubrication. In other words you aren't making her wet and she is using artificial lube