Now no one but me is going to shave me, but washing of each other bodies is so sensual I just love it. Best way to start thing off, bar none. Also Both parties knows the other is freshly bathed. I hear that can be a problem for some of folks.
Just curious if you like showering with your lover or not?
I do not like to do the shower together where I need to wash my hair/shave- I like to be selfish with the hot water and just get in there and get out.
However, I do find it sexy to rinse off together just before sexy play starts-- how about you?
Or would you just prefer to arrive to your date and get to it????????
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I agree with you Brenda. If I am going in to truly get clean, wash my hair, do some manscaping, etc. then it is best to be alone. But a quick soap up and rinse down with a woman before sexy time can be awesome foreplay, sometimes even leading to hot wet soapy sex. A good excuse to touch each other all over. If it is afterwards, it can lead to more action, which can be good or bad depending on your financial situation and the ladies availability for an extended date!
I typically shower just before heading out to a play date, but a quick playful lather and rinse together can be a nice warm-up.
A rinse-off together after the main event ain't so bad either.
Now much more than that and I don't like sharing the hot water either.
Had a GF many years ago that only liked to give head in the shower. Instant access to a rinse I guess.
In my past relationships we'd always shower together. There's ample room and hot water in my shower. Shower sex is the best 
Not something I have done often but showering with a lover is always memorable. When else can you get a little dirty and have some good clean fun
One of the great inventions of mankind. The best icebreaker when you're seeing a new provider for the first time. It's good clean fun.
Absolutely WONDERFUL !!!
Now no one but me is going to shave me, but washing of each other bodies is so sensual I just love it. Best way to start thing off, bar none. Also Both parties knows the other is freshly bathed. I hear that can be a problem for some of folks.
I've got to be in the heat or I get cold right away -- so no. I like to hog the hot water.
...which I discovered when I first began broadening my horizons by trying Asian providers last year. Asian providers that have come from overseas often follow a fairly standard session script, which typically begins with a joint shower. It kills two birds with one stone: it creates an opportunity for some highly arousing foreplay (e.g. a "preview BBBJ"), and it also gives the provider the opportunity to ensure that her client is clean (especially where it counts the most), which improves the session for both parties. When the provider washes the client, it enhances the pampering aspect of the standard Asian session that many hobbyists appreciate.
I would suggest that other providers who have a standard policy of asking a client to shower at the beginning of a session consider the virtues of adopting this joint shower practice from Asian providers. The way I see it, I am paying for a provider's service and companionship - not for the privilege of taking a shower by myself, which I can do at home without having to pay for it and always do before a session anyway, even if I know from a provider's reviews that she will ask clients to take a shower once they arrive. Think of it this way: if you are paying $600 an hour for a session, the 5-10 minutes that the client spends showering by himself cost $50-$100. (You could get a cheap quickie on the infamous classified ads website for that amount of money.) I would prefer to have the provider spend that time with me.
I understand that some providers are concerned that the shower will mess up their hair or cosmetics, but this did not seem to be a problem for the Asian providers that I have seen.
True but some gentleman in the USA don't like that, in fact they find disrespectfull 
I personally keep showers to myself.
Really I just don't understand how anyone could find a hot woman fondling then in the shower disrespectful. I'll pay extra for it. To each their own I guess. I prefer mutual showers over just being bathed but in know way can I see a woman getting nude and playing with my junk disrespectful shower or not unless she goes out of her way to make it so. I just don't get it. I don't doubt you, I just don't get it.
hear any guy would find the shower experience disrespectful. Older gentlemen, especially, sometimes lose their freshness not long after a shower, so showering at home before heading to the incall may not be enough for the provider to truly enjoy the session as much as the customer. I still see indies occasionally, and now find it odd when I suggest a joint shower and they pass, leaving me to take one alone. The fact that its "on the clock" should make it even more attractive for the provider.
That the time won't be added to the session. Keep in mind, though, that a lot of us are "not clockwatchers", meaning the 60 minutes is often 65+ minutes. Reviews and board talk indicate that some overtime is hardly uncommon. I'd be willing to bet some ladies you've seen either went into overtime or were willing to do so. Especially some of these ladies marveling at your bachelorhood. LOL
Most of my clients take a 5 minute shower and, in those cases, I keep a looser clock. If a client 'wasted' 5 minutes on a shower but gained 5-10 minutes (or more) on the back end of a session, it did not cost him $50-$100.
Showering together is fine, but if I sense that it's requested on the grounds of cost per minute, I will likely be reminded of my own (opportunity) cost per minute and keep a stricter clock.
Love Asian girls and letting them scrub me clean.
Nay! Well I take that back, with one of my fav clients it call "the Brit" (condoms are def a must with all clients)! But in my civie life yyyaaassssss!!! Shower sex with someone you really like & dating is fun fun fun fun... Love getting anal in the shower!!! No lube needed!! Lol
I remember after an M&G several years ago, I had scheduled time afterward with a visiting lady, and when we arrived at my hotel room, she suggested that we both shower together before hitting the sheets. OMG, what a tremendous way to start things! The shower had a seat built into the wall, and before we soaped each other up and rinsed off...BBBJ to die for, but it was only foreplay. When we did hit the sheets, still damp and freshly cleaned, let's just say the next couple of hours were memorable, and ecstatic. We did that subsequently a couple of times, as well as bathing together as well at my favorite Vegas hotel. There were several (3) others as well, also with satisfying results. So, yes, I do like showering and bathing with my lady friends.
These are just hobby experiences. My first sexual encounter with my ex-fiancee started in the shower, so I may be just a little partial...
I don't accept dates if that's their #1 condition (trust me they are out there) anywho, I personally love showering alone, not even with my SO...to him it's a treat.
As far as my preference. ...I love clean. Will not see a man that smells and refuses to shower. I love guys like that they swear I'm a sex slave and literally try to argue. .. Take your stinky ass into the shower or else get out and no the donation Is a 100% mine. I likey dates non rushed. Getting right into it isn't my thing.
We all have things that are needed to recharge alone. I don't get not wanting to shower. Making the woman happy makes things much better in the long run. And smelling like ass is going to ruin the fun as the lady will not be into it. I don't get some men.
As far as my preference. ...I love clean. Will not see a man that smells and refuses to shower. I love guys like that they swear I'm a sex slave and literally try to argue. .. Take your stinky ass into the shower or else get out and no the donation Is a 100% mine.
I likey dates non rushed. Getting right into it isn't my thing.
it's one of my favorite with my ATF, leading to fucking is even better
and sometimes leads to a second or third pop.
I always arrive at a date freshly showered, as do the providers I've seen (with a couple of exceptions), so all I need is to wash my hands (also gives the provider time to check the donation if she wants to) and I'm ready to go. But afterwards, I love a shower together if there's time and she wants to do it. After we help each other scrub up etc., I get out so she can finish with her hair.
I do not feel like do my hair over and over actually...also it relly depends on the shower itself. Some of them scream get in here and have fun! Others are just too small to get both people comfortable. Love the double rain head showers in some hotels!
I am always freshly showered and groomed because I almost always host. If I am doing an incall I expect the lady to be freshly showered. After we are done; I love showering together. I am pretty good with showering with a lady and keeping her make up looking good and her hair dry. Lots of practice.
I especially love to bath together if I ever come upon a real deep soaking tub. If I had it to do over, I'd have had one put in my house. My last time was in Vegas, and I was fortunate to get an upgrade to a suite with a large soaking tub. My date was with a wonderful tantra gal out there and we made very good use of it, though I was feeling a bit guilty about it because I recalled seeing the sorry sight of Lake Meade which has been decimated by the long term drought out there.
In the middle of the night, I got up to use the bathroom, and there was no water. Great, I thought, I drained Lake Meade by taking that deep soaking bath. Now my picture will be on the cover of the newspapers for the ecology crime of the century.
It turned out that the hotel had a major water pipe failure
Indoor water in Vegas is recycled! I am still mindful of water use overall but not as much during play time.
...to see. Like me they have already showered prior to the session. Washing hair and shaving isn't necessary at this point. I shower at the location just to be sure I'm squeaky clean and having her with me makes it fun. Check my reviews you'll see showering together often mentioned. I have had many of the ladies shower with me afterward as well. Several have chosen to wash their hair at this time. One provider I saw wore a shower cap while in the shower with me.
...in fact here is a little instructional video. 😎
I'm the perfect shower mate
After a wonderful, intense, intimate 90 minute session, my lady invited me to shower with her. It was a wonderful end to a great time. She washed me and shampooed my hair as we talked and laughed together. It was all the best parts of a GFE . Incredibly intimate.
For full disclosure, I have seen this woman quite a few times and we do have a comfortable friendship. She quite obviously enjoyed the time as much as I did.
As to showering before, I would much rather wash my stinky arse by myself.
Unless the shower has multiple heads, I like to hog the hot water.
Now if there is a double bathtub in the room.....game on.
Baths and/or Jacuzzi can be a great time. Unfortunately the occasion has only been available a few time to me in the hobby.
Once I had a multi hour appointment in Vegas. I had a double bath in middle of the main room. Besides the normal bath play, we washed each others hair. Very sexy scalp massages
Love to shower with girlfriends if they are into it. Showered once with a provider over a decade ago, enjoyed it. For some reason never thought to ask providers I was recently with if they would shower together. Maybe I that is something for next time. Just have to be careful about poking with something or inserting something.
fucking in the shower. I shower with a provider I see a lot and enjoy it. In fact I get aroused and do what I have to do. That said, I can see the need for space.
hair wet or possibly smear their make-up. Proper positioning in the shower can solve these problems.
I Love Showering Together!
....looking back,-while in the "hobby"-I always prefer to shower with a new "date" before we get going-I find that it relaxes both of us-before we get close....if we met before-I often shower afterwards,just so we can get one more in!!....when I was with my LOVER,a shower was just another reason to make each other cum...