after an appointment because he asked you to call him your boyfriend?You are worried about him being married and with kids but yet you call him many times imo was just fantasy talk during a session?
Very weird.
At least 6 to 10 months ago; I had a client who got caught up in a moment of passion during our session---that he asked me to call him "MY BOYFRIEND". Due to the fact that he did not feel comfortable with being called a "CLIENT". Well, I have left him several voicemail after our session and after a few days of thinking about the whole incident. I told him in a nut shell that I did not feel comfortable with calling him "MY BOYFRIEND" for several reasons. First reason is that he was married for 20 years and has 2 kids(MAIN REASON) and the second is that he knew from the start that this is a business transaction between us. Don't get me wrong!!!!!!
If he was single without kids, then yeah I would have let it go further to see which direction it went. Fast forwarding to our conversation an hour ago. He apologized. He also said that he got caught up in the moment of passion. So, it appears that we are on good terms and we are back to where we started.
after an appointment because he asked you to call him your boyfriend?You are worried about him being married and with kids but yet you call him many times imo was just fantasy talk during a session?
Very weird.
I take it this is a regular you see often?
I think the key to this post is the last part where she states, "If he were not married............." Guessing the OP has some feelings for the dude, hence the rambling post.
By the way, Happy Basstille Day, mes Amis! Do something French to celebrate, like bringing a cold bottle of champagne to your ATF and making whoopee!
Hence the emoticon. I did not answer her question because there didn't seem to be one and she seems to already know it's not meant to be.
Happy Bastille Day. Have some champagne. Sounds like you could use it.:-P
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Some people call it dateing or a date it better than " clients" meaning sex for $$ and a "boyfriend" where you know a lot about each other. Most of these women have a sad story through I like herring the good story it a real turn on when she tell me how she got her DL back and life turn around. If you call him boyfriend it could put you at a legal risk if pull anything also a client is bad because it prostitution so a date is the term most like. That only if have tell someone in public like checking in. For me it mostly putting dick in pussey sucking face there should be no calling anyone anything.
If he was single without kids, then yeah I would have let it go further to see which direction it went. Fast forwarding to our conversation an hour ago. He apologized. He also said that he got caught up in the moment of passion. So, it appears that we are on good terms and we are back to where we started.
Sometimes when you get along with someone your hobbling with the lines start to get blurred. Respect of a providers boundaries is what I try to remind myself when getting into session with a provider who I start to hit it off with on a personal level.
I think we have heard this before
I'm glad to read that you've worked it out. It's ok to luv your client or provider. Just don't mistake it for Love.
More customers, this would not be the big deal you're making it, and you would not come across as desperate. BUT . . . Hooray! You got your customer back. We're all so happy for you.
I said that if it makes them feel more in the mood, to have at it.
There was no harm done.
have called me their "part-time" boyfriend. I'm cool with that limitation. Lol
For one gal that I knew very well, it was ok to say just about anything in session, including an ILY to maximize the fantasy, but we never let it creep into any OTC time, emails, or texts.
turns into a RL relationship, and that's a different animal. Just going out OTC with my regulars occasionally because I earned enough reward miles, that's when they would half-jokingly say I'm their part-time boyfriend.
I'm fine with that too.
The only thing I definitely don't want to be called is "late to dinner". It just sounds stupid.
default term used by almost every Kgirl I ever saw during the first session.
I find much more erotic. If I was looking for a GF I would be on another site. Daddy is more appropriate as it involves the transfer of cash which would be true in a parent / child relationship and correlates better with this business. Just sayin.
As my world turns, if any Gal I was intimate with called me Daddy I'd feel like I was transported
to West Va. or worse, Arkansas.
When I was late thirties my GF a hot early twenties stripper from Arkansas asked me for 500 bucks to buy Christmas presents, I informed her I'm not her Daddy.
She said her Daddy left her Mom and ran away with her sister after she caught them fucking.
Some of the TMI, strippers have told me I'd like to forget.
ago did you leave West Virginia?
GFE - Girlfriend Experience
Being your "boyfriend" and not a "client" was his fantasy. It sounds like he just wanted to pretend for an hour and you took it too seriously.
Are married.
Not being a smartass, Im just saying personally I don't judge. If it's not your thing it isnt. If those were the kind of request I got I would probably be jumaing up and down. A client that wants to be called a boyfriend for an hr doesn't seem painful. I've had ppl that want me to call them My husband, I don't and I'm actually engaged. If I were to put so much weight of words I wouldn't be able to read the boards lol.
An hour conversation with a client, come on call him Boyfriend at least once
is that I'm glad it worked out between you and the "client" and hope if it ever happens again, you can resolve it sooner.