My ATF regularly plays music I've mentioned I like during our sessions, remembers details I've shared before (like my ongoing cold war with my work nemesis), and a few others things that tell me she listens to me.
She's also such a complete grown-up. She knows herself by now and is always calm and relaxed. She doesn't allow drama in her professional life and doesn't ever impart any to me. I'm always anticipating our next meeting, knowing it's going to be equal parts relaxing and intense.I feel blessed everyday to enjoy clients of all different genders, races, personalities, and income points.
Yesterday, I had probably one of the nicest correspondence days of my "career" and really woke up today just invigorated- so I am curious what others are feeling.
Of course sexual relations should be top on the reasons to enjoy an ATF but I feel there is more as anybody can fuck.
Is it for guys you know we do not care how much money you make (if you paid for our time- you make enough-lol) so there is no pressure- so you relax more?
Is it you can just be completely honest about maybe some kinky stuff you feel your wife would judge you on?
The ease of just knowing we are there just to make you happy and are not going to bitch about if you forgot to do something?
Ladies, I hope you will join in!
A few of my favorite ATF's traits are
1- they make me laugh - a good hearty - silly - fun laugh
2- they indulge my kinky desires and allow me to try out some new crazy toy or idea without too much fear!!!
3- they do something really unique and thoughtful that lets me know when we are chit chatting at dinner or in between rounds- they are listening and let me know they care about me as a person first, fuck doll second
4- are always offering to help me as a person if they have a business that I can use for something- just the comfort of knowing they will get it done extra special for me - just to let me know that maybe if I have stayed overtime- they want to let me know it was truly appreciated
5- the safety of knowing we can just be ourselves without judgement
Of course, the answers will vary here but we are all in a vulnerable position when we go play. If we always remember the other person has emotions the same as we do, perhaps there would be less negativity / troll activity and a little more fun on this board.
I know I am enjoying life to the fullest, more everyday with an extra special thanks to my ATF's and those working on joining that club!!!!!
xoxoooxoooxoxo
She gives me the illusion of love for an hour or more, without the quibbles of everyday chores.
That illusion can include a lot of things!
Precisely when to STFU. She gives me peace.
One of my favorite things about my ATF is that she is always happy to hear from me and happy to see me and always a bit sad to see me go! I feel exactly the same way as it relates to her !!! I have been seeing her for 5 years-we know it is business-but there is no reason we can't have friends among our suppliers and vendors in every endeavor-including the hobby !
1. Sex does not feel like it is just about me. She has specific needs and wants that she pursues, so the session feels more real.
2. I am fully convinced that she enjoys the time together. She is generous with time, and seems enthusiastic about stuff we do once the BCD activity is done.
3. She remembers seemingly obscure details about out conversations and sessions. This helps her feel more real to me.
4. She is fanatical about being reliable and on time. When I reach out to schedule, she is often back to me in minutes. Impressive.
5. We share details about what is going on with each other IRL. There is trust and respect. We care about each other as people. I am convinced that it is not just an act.
6. I hear from her sometimes between sessions. Completely out of the blue. Once when there was a natural disaster near where I live (we live in different cities). She wanted to know if everything was OK. Makes me feel good.
7. And HUMOUR. Some of our discussions and activities lead to serious laughter. Damn, her laugh when we get going is such a turn-on. We had a text session recently, that was so funny, it took me hours to settle down. People nearby had to have been wondering what was up.
8. This woman is pure class in every way possible.
Overall, she manages to make the experience feel like friends with benefits, in spite of her time being compensated. No judgement. Ever. I will only stop seeing her if she leaves the business. No matter how many sessions we end up having.
1. arriving naked under her coat on the coldest night of the year ...
2. cupcake with a candle lit on my birthday dressed to the nines
3. remembering me at holiday time with a card or call
4. surprising me with the sexy panties I bought her a year earlier and that look on her face when she got out of her car ... with only the panties and a short knit top on
5. meeting me for breakfast and going up to some cops and asking about her license to carry ... lol
6. making love to my limp cock with her exquisite mouth and waking him up on video ... a fantastic surprise the first time she said grab your phone let's record this... the two minute version. There also was an 18 minute CIM/COF video
That's why ... two gals, then and now ... with a little sex thrown in for good measure
but the bottom line is that each makes me feel wonderful just thinking about seeing them.
I think 90% of the joy of this hobby is the anticipation of seeing someone
I recently had the pleasure of meeting a lady who quite honestly left me speechless. That's not an easy thing to do. Her text messages after I departed put a sheepish grin on my face. I know she's anticipating meeting up again soon.
He punches them in the throat.
(Can't name him but you old timers know whom I mean.)
>Showers at start of session or just before
>Has a sense of humor
>Either DATY's or refrains from glaring at me disdainfully if I need a little pre-bonk lube
>Likes CG and K9
>Doesn't try to sneak a finger in my ass during CG and K9
>Likes cuddling and making out
>Tells me they prefer no makeup, un-straightened hair, and boy-shorts over thongs
Ok, that last one has never happened, but it would moisten the panties for sure. 
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We've not met yet. But I really don't care about the make up, the hair being done perfectly. I don't care if you are wearing baggy pants and a t-shirt when we meet. Boy shorts on a perfect ass are a turn on
you haven't met her or what her ass looks like.
Can you tell because it doesn't have a finger in it?
I have a hard time envisioning an alias. But I will
occasionally wonder about several of the ladies,
past and present. Lopaw, Truth, Sasha2cute, etc
Yea, I know, S2C is real ... and you can never B2Cute
Easy. With the exception of 2 particular blondes , none I've met are active here. Yes, they have reviews but that's about it. No ads, no board postings, etc.
So that's why I can make that statement
how that helps you "identify" an alias and comment on her ass ???
... but no problem, no further explanation necessary.
I was the one with the classy tat.
and I'm not making reference to the ink. Yea, seeing you in a pair of boy shorts would be very, very acceptable.
If I could bottle and sell what she had, I'd be a wealthy man. From the moment I first walked into her door I felt at ease. Conversation flowed freely. There was no rush to "get down to business". Her sense of humor was similar to mine, so we laughed a lot. I could be myself. She made me feel like I was the only man in her life. Her skills were amazing. There was nothing I suggested that she wouldn't do -- and well. And needless to say, her hygiene was impeccable -- I can still smell her freshly shampooed hair. One last thing, whether I met her at her home or at a hotel, the place was neat and clean.
My ATF regularly plays music I've mentioned I like during our sessions, remembers details I've shared before (like my ongoing cold war with my work nemesis), and a few others things that tell me she listens to me.
She's also such a complete grown-up. She knows herself by now and is always calm and relaxed. She doesn't allow drama in her professional life and doesn't ever impart any to me. I'm always anticipating our next meeting, knowing it's going to be equal parts relaxing and intense.
As far as I can tell she does not advertise any where. When I found her she was on P411 and had a web site. Both are gone now and I have looked for other possible ads for her.
I can only assume that she is a low volume provider and only see a few select guys. She reaches out to me more then I reach out to her to set up a session. She has a way of making me feel special each and every time we meet. Plus she is a nympho when it comes to the fun part of the night.
All I can say about her that is awesome and fun to be around I am looking forward to our next session.
She has a very sexy butt and loves that I love it.