It might just be the way they phrase it. Just like escort just "model" for you, or serve as "companions". Get it?
So many of these women on SD sites say they are looking for a.mentor. WTF? I'm not looking to give career advice or take you under my wing. I'm here to pay you to fuck you.
Paying someone so you can fuck them... a whole nuther thing.
And maybe they really are looking for a mentor, among other things.
it may just be marketing, but SBs want to believe the relationship is more than P4P
Or maybe it's just a thing that sounds nice...like when reviews call a girl a "keeper" or instruct others to "treat her well" or whatever. BFD.
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so I'm not going to stop browsing them. Just saying that all the profiles mentioning mentoring are getting tiresome. And no, they're not looking for a mentor, they're there to make money. In exchange for sex.
It might just be the way they phrase it. Just like escort just "model" for you, or serve as "companions". Get it?
... so you won't bother them!!
very funny...but stupid!!!
now bring in alan sues and joanne worley and you've got a hat trick!
If, for example, they are new to sugarbabyland, they might want to meet their very first sugar daddy and learn what it's all about. If you believe that. But even if you don't, it gives you a clue as to what sort of "relationship" could be in store.
Otherwise, if they don't specify that they are looking for a mentor in business, in one of the fine arts, in one of the more crude arts, or in some entrepreneurial pursuit...then it's just bullshit. So that tells you something else about her that is useful to know.
Good fuckin' luck, dude!
That they mean like career path advice, networking tactics, business/entrepreneurial acumen, that sort of thing. Whether she spoke for all of them or just herself, who knows
At least someone asked a Sugar Baby what she thought a mentor would do for her...! Perhaps there are some additional SB's who could add to the commentary ?
just give them this universal advice.....
measure twice, cut once
...You're a mentor! See how easy that was?
just give them this universal advice.....
measure twice, cut once
I read it as being used in the sense of looking for older 'wiser' men, you know like a daddy. Mentor type Daddy's would help with not just money, but like a surrogate fatherly figure who may leave her with some helpful tips or more mature perspectives about life. She may not have access to successful role models in her life. I believe it's looking for SD who would care to engage in intellectually stimulating conversations, along with the fun.
Mentoring "Daddy types" are usually less crass than to speak of her with the attitude you have. I'm not putting you down, that's your choice. Just not what she is looking for. Obviously, not a fit for you.
Also, there are some successful sb/sd relationships that have involved 'mentorship' that also involved money/networking to fund her entrepreneurial pursuits. One lady had a sd 'mentor' her & he funded the launch of her company that led to success and now she is making millions two yrs into her company. (True stories-YouTube) I believe these success stories have led more intelligent, educated women to these sites, looking for their "mentor" as well. Some mentioned using the site and ad as networking with these types of gentlemen have helped their businesses, which is a bonus in addition to the funds.
Just a woman's take on it, I have never been on that site. With so much ambiguity over there, I don't understand why you would seek over there, what is so readily available here? Nothing's free.
Just another opinion.
You are so right. Thank you for someone else on this board who have a brain. When you put mentor in your ad that means that you are looking for someone older who can help you along the way with your business ventures. I only look for guys who want to be mentor. Everyone isn't a dumb slut. Some of us have brains. You use what you got to get what you want. First thing is invest in yourself.
You can get lucky on these SD sites with girls who do not know their value - yet.
That's why they are fun. You want pussy- They need money- Some arrangement can be worked out.
SD sites are a way for a girl to sell pussy and still keep her perceived self worth. She has a back-up excuse and lie ready and waiting.
She's thinking she's Not Really A Whore and she is not going to get the judgements from society, by slinking around, receiving donations for her pussy contributions.
She also thinks LE won't know what she's doing or that it would be harder to prove a crime was committed , by wearing her SugarDaddy disguise.
It reminds me of the advertising site, ER*S, that sells pussy, but they have to disguise all the advertising of the girls by being careful of the crotch shot and by being overly careful of the words in the text. Oh No!!!!.... No pussy being sold here!!!
lol- (the banks aren't buying it.)
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This can be actually true. Courts have ruled that mistress relationships are not illegal even if the mistress is showered with cash and gifts.
She also thinks LE won't know what she's doing or that it would be harder to prove a crime was committed , by wearing her SugarDaddy disguise.
... and the first civil case is filled against a SD because the girl is suffering from stress disorder because the man tricked her into selling him some pussy.
The women writing this probably just think it's something that sounds a little classier than the stereotypical BP ad.
Would you like them all to ask Fancy to write their ads/profiles for them? LOL.
I think they think it makes them look more mature and therefore more desirable to older guys.
They're still whores.
It's simple don't write to them. Every guy don't just need to get their nut. Some guys want to feel needed and want to help the woman move in a better direction preferably away from someone like you. I've never had a problem finding someone who wanted to be a mentor towards me. I've learned a lot from the last relationship I was in for 8 years. Maybe you should just stick to escorts and prostitutes because the what you wrote you sound like a complete asshole. And if you took the time to read some of the ads some of the guys on there say they are looking to mentor.
no matter how you choose to phrase it. You may be "looking for career advice," but you're still sellling your pussy. As far as sticking to escorts, please keep your advice to yourself, I've found and fucked lots of whores on these sites. And never had to give them career advice lol.
You say that as if we should take offense! But dear, whore is just a word!
Means nothing to me. Let alone being hurtful.
You sound angry and your lack of respect for the women
who serve you, shows you have nothing to offer what some 'whores' desire.
So obviously your offended by the word mentor.
But Ok I'll play ball, if you knew the true definition...so are YOU.
Just reflecting
I'm on those sites and my profile states that I am looking for a mentor. Because when you are looking for a sugar daddy you aren't just looking to sell pussy. That's not what a sugar relationship is about. It's an actual relationship with attachment and teaching/learning/mentoring/experiencing. if you just want to pay a girl for sex then stay on this site. But being a sugar daddy is about more than just the money and the sex. it's a friendship first and foremost.
It's sex first and foremost, but go on deluding yourself.
Client, trick, john, dumbass, atm, misogynistic prick - Which would you prefer? You call women whores so quid pro quo is only fair, right?
that being with men in better positions changed many courses in my life. I had them (eventually) tell me about how to better manage my money, business and skills to do better for myself. We discussed different ways to increase business (my civilian job) and other ways that the married men I had been with (I was a mistress a few times over) have helped me. In return, I helped them. Ahem. I didn't initially go in looking for a mentor but it is how it all turned out. I appreciated the help. They appreciated me paying them for that help. Ahem again ;
I've had several "mentoring" relationships where an hour session turns into several hours of just lying around in bed, talking about career, school and life in general. I don't think this equates to OTC time, a dirty acronym around here. YMMV?
I understand that there are lots of guys that will take advantage of time if allowed, but in my case, when I have the time, the lady can hang out as long as she likes. Usually, there is no additional sex, but there are times when it happens. I consider it
a second pop, because we rarely use all the paid time during round one. So for women secure enough in their own skin, these are never "you took advantage of me and I never want to see you again" sessions. More like I enjoyed our time together and look forward to seeing you again. Some of those repeat sessions are just p4p "timed" sessions of sex only and some turn into are extended visits, even a few overnights, just shooting the shit. I'm sure the ladies aren't cancelling or declining appointments just to hang with me ... lol
There haven't been many gals that will swing this way, about 5, and many of you would recognize their names. I consider myself lucky to have made these type of acquaintances. But perhaps there's something more than money in it for them.
For the record, I don'r divulge names should someone inquire here or by PM. I feel that's up to each lady to decide how they want to share their time. I may have alluded to extended time in a review when I was a bit newer to the game, but I'm not going back in time to edit this post to make sure someone can't say gotcha. It's meant to touch on how some p4p women view "mentoring" ... I doubt that it's my big cock or charming personality lol ... not that I have either 😉