29 is under 30 and so is 21.
what to charge for a 24 hour call...
If a lady has a $250/hr incall, what do YOU think is fair?
I don't believe in price gouging, but not cutting myself short...
What is the average for a date like this?
I have been scouring ads, chasing links to ladies pages, scouring p411 to no avail.
I want to be fair.
Thankyou in advance~
Foxy
P.S. Yes, I anticipate sleeping 6-8 hours, I don't do drugs/stimulants. (Other than coffee!!)
$2000-3000 would be appropriate for your market. If you get the sense that he's gonna work you hard, then double that (at least).
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Him: Under 30, assuming fit (from his job), and never met. So no friggin clue to any chemistry or not.
Yes, I have attempted to dissuade him from buying the whole enchilada, and trying an appetizer first, but he WANTS 24 hrs (or so he says, and mentioned several non-BCD activities.
If he will not take less time, what other boundaries might he not respect? Never let the client get you out of your comfort zone, it helps no one. You will be on guard and off your game because of it. He will not have the same experience. So IMHO only with time would I expect a longer time. Be safe and fun. Merry Christmas.
Floyd has a good point. You tell him up front that you don't do overnights on a first date. Most importantly, I'd screen him if I were in your shoes. If he isn't screen-able (No references, No other board handles, no date check/p411 ID ,etc...), then DON'T SEE HIM. If he is screen-able, screen him. And if you feel comfortable after screening him, tell him you'll go for the overnight, but ONLY after he agrees to a 1-2hr M&G session at YOUR incall . If it goes well and you're more comfortable, go for the overnight . I'm pretty sure that most providers out there who do overnights only off it to those they've seen at least once and are comfortable being with. As for the rate, I'd look more into it if I were you. I'm betting it should at least range close to maybe 1500-2000 for the donation. You should also maybe consider what exactly counts as over night. You could have a official set Start/finish time (8pm to 9am), or just have specific rates in place for session lengths w/ no official set start/stop time. I apologize if I made that confusing, but I'm sure there are those who could explain a possible rates system better than me.
Speaking as a man who has been lucky enough to spend an evening with you, whatever amount you decide will be money well spent on his part.
The guys bring up a lot of good points as do you regarding chemistry. It would be a disaster if you find that the two of you do not mesh. 24 hours could feel like days. The issue of a previous date is important and allows you to get an idea if you will be able to even close your eyes with comfort. If he continues to push then i would suggest seperate rooms for the sleep time. I have read on other websites where some ladies require that.
As others have mentioned it depends on what is expected and what is offered. Is it going to be 18 hours in a motel eating Happy Meals and as many abbrevations as he can come up with or is there going to be time spent doing other things like a movie, shopping, etc. A mini shopping trip can be great fun with the right lady and right stores. Is there going to be a nice dinner out or are you going to stay at a 5 star hotel and have a trip to tha spa? Are you spending it in say a bread and breakfast hotel in the mountains, at the oceanfront, or a Motel 6 that should really be a Motel 3. All are factors to consider when setting price as well as your expenses to cover.
Whatever you decide be careful and follow your instincts. No amount of money is worth your safety.
Till our schedules meet again
Dave
If you seek to dissuade him, then charge ridiculously more. The thing is, if it ends up being a great time, you could always offer a partial refund or freebie, but if it's torture, you'll never be able to squeeze any extra compensation out of him. I don't see any red flags necessarily; I can imagine how he might just be the type to occasionally splurge on a big party rather than be a regular player - I hope you have good instincts!
29 is under 30 and so is 21.
I did once and It was an exception to the rule
For me it's about a connection
I have 3 kids in their 20s I don't want to fuck their peers
Their peers Dads,,yes for sure!
Foxy is listed as 31-35 so under 30 could be close to her age. And the maturity of a 21 year old is usually not the same as a 29 year old! And there's usually a difference their financial status as well!
Steph
There is a big difference between 29 and 21 financially and maturity
Because I don't see either I have less risk
Less risk that they will rip me off
Less risk that they are LE... LE is is most likely younger not a 50-60 yr old
I couldn't imagine spending 24 hours with a 22 year old
Of course this is just me
I don't have the mother son fantasy and being that I am approaching 60 being with a twenty something at this point for me is just never going to happen
It would be a once in a lifetime for both of us!
Steph
Can you make another exception ? 
lol
Hope you know him however. If not, I would add more to whatever you come up with just for the unknown factor without question. Or make plans to see how things go with each other and take it from there. Maybe start at a 4 hr date and then see. I can't believe I am saying this but if I were you I would go towards the high end and see if there is objection. Within fairness of course based on your hourly rate structure. You are a cool person with a very very nice and sweet personality Foxy (yes we have met ), so that has major bonus points for most gents looking for such an arrangement. I would think!
Good Luck and keep smiling
If a lady has a $250/hr incall, what do YOU think is fair?
I don't believe in price gouging, but not cutting myself short...
What is the average for a date like this?
I have been scouring ads, chasing links to ladies pages, scouring p411 to no avail.
I want to be fair.
Thankyou in advance~
Foxy
P.S. Yes, I anticipate sleeping 6-8 hours, I don't do drugs/stimulants. (Other than coffee!!)
Unfortunately... I know way to much about this biz and have been in and out, and also a hobbyist here and there... I have driving for a few ladies when they needed it or if they thought it was a far drive for them over the past few years.. U tend to learn a lot.. And, I actually talk to many of them on a regular basis.. Mainly when they are bored or something is bothering them.. lol.. But the one thing I have always told them.. First dates should always be limited so u can get to know each other and if you 2 click or not.. You really don't want to spend way to much time w/ someone if u don't like him or u r not going to get along.. Your safety is the most important, and if u don't like the situation or something about it just walk away.. And that is really hard to do on a first or 2nd date for 24 hrs..
If a lady has a $250/hr incall, what do YOU think is fair?
I don't believe in price gouging, but not cutting myself short...
What is the average for a date like this?
I have been scouring ads, chasing links to ladies pages, scouring p411 to no avail.
I want to be fair.
Thankyou in advance~
Foxy
P.S. Yes, I anticipate sleeping 6-8 hours, I don't do drugs/stimulants. (Other than coffee!!)