The lady is not an SO, but another provider.
Would that be a good surprise or a bad surprise?
You are meeting a known friend at his place for a date. You walk in and he says he has a surprise for you. You walk into the bedroom and lying in his bed is another naked lady!!!!
The lady is not an SO, but another provider.
Would that be a good surprise or a bad surprise
personally I would like to know if someone else is going to be there.
If this is someone I have seen before I would think he would give common courtesy that he would like to have a threesome.
Don't just spring it on somebody.
It would be different if a gent who I saw asked for me to surprise him and bring another provider that is his type I would not have a problem.But I don't like surprises like that unless I know the provider.
Just my .0
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that's not cool. That scenario is the client springing a doubles session on her without giving her any notice or choice in the matter. A lot of us are selective with doubles partners because sometimes styles just don't match up. Plus, the two could actually already know each other and have a bad history.
But, of course, if you surprised me with a friend I would be thrilled.
The lady is not an SO, but another provider.
Would that be a good surprise or a bad surprise?
just wondering what a lady would think about it.
... a BAD surprise for any provider I know, unless the two providers already know each other and like doing doubles together.
But even if they know each other, it might not be a good idea. I've done a few doubles sessions where it was a surprise for one of the providers. Each time I knew the two ladies loved doing FMF together. So they all went fine. Except the last time I did it, with my ATF being the surprise-ee (not the first time), she loved it but asked me to never surprise her like that again. I asked her why, and she said she wants to know when another woman will be there so she can savor the anticipation. (Yes, she's REALLY bi.) I totally understand that; I love the anticipation of a hot date myself. So, no more doubles surprises for me.
I feel like unless we've discussed threesomes before, it might be more startling than arousing. I'm totally a gleeful bisexual, totally up for doubles with someone, but a little forewarning would be nice.
And needless to say, it was a pleasant surprise to see a very good friend. However - not every surprise out there has been a good one.
How about my client's wife peeping her head in through the bedroom window?
Sweetest Regards,
Adrienne Baptiste
The lady is not an SO, but another provider.
Would that be a good surprise or a bad surprise?
I did this once for my beloved.
There was a provider who by good fortune was slated to be in Vegas the same days we were in Vegas, and I arranged for her to surprise my love at our hotel room. I knew she loved this provider (and is bi, of course) and the ensuing three-some was nothing short of ecstasy.
But to just pull this on someone who would be a stranger, that is not cool.
I'm surprised the provider was open to it.
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...wasn't girl friendly? That's a risk not worth taking imho. You want someone totally into it and the chemistry between the providers must be good. I wouldn't even consider a 3some unless the 2 providers have already met and both approved the whole thing.
I think I can speak for the vast majority of the ladies when I say we don't take too kindly to being "surprised" by another person without our knowledge or consent. That's a good way to get yourself maced.
The lady is not an SO, but another provider.
Would that be a good surprise or a bad surprise?
I don't think a human is a nice surprise at all. Very tacky actually!
It assumes a lot about the lady you are surprising. If this is someone you have known for long time snd have seen enjoying female company with her before, that MIGHT be different. Particularly if you knew she went for a certain type of female companion, but otherwise it is assuming too much to spring such a thing on her.
The only sexual surprises I spring once in a while is by bringing a newly found favorite toy to a provider I have seen a few times before , still in its original sealed wrapper. This allows her to look, decide it looks like fun or it does"t and we can move on either with or without trying it. You can not easily move on with or without paying attention to the naked lady lying in bed.
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We clients tend to enjoy the surprise pussy pic and fantasize about being surprised with a second lady to play with.
But, we are talking about sex professionals here. We are not these ladies SO and that is a distinctly different relationship.
Surprises in P4P are rarely good ideas in so many ways.
and bringing another person for her to be intimate with (ie, her job), ESPECIALLY if she doesn't know the lady, is nothing more than more work for her. perhaps pleasant work, but work nonetheless.
imagine if your boss says "hey i got a surprise for you when you come into work today" and when you do, his suprise is another pile of paperwork for you to do.
everyone woman i know charges a different and higher rate for doubles, whether she supplies or you supply the third person.
don't ever do this dude.