The largest erogenous zone is between the ears.. sometimes a week between pops.. other times about 20 minutes or so.. and I'm shocked when that happens.. I'm almost 67.. so who knows..
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Have a strange question that I haven't seen here..59 yr old male and doesn't get much action..What is the usual amount of time it takes to recover after that 1st pop? Want to see somebody and really only want 2 hr session..Also would like just some DATY, BJ and Greek..
Wanna figure it out cheaply? Jack off and then see how long it takes before you can get it up again and finish.
Personally, at 47 yrs old I can mostly go for 2 in an hour, but occasionally have trouble finishing the 2nd time in the time allotted. Which really doesnt bother me, its the journey, not the destination that turns me on. I'm not saying that having an O is not terrific, but the sensations produced while getting there are what drive me wild. There are times I could opt for two but go for one simply to prolong the pleasure.
Then, on the rare occasion that I have a 2 hour session, I can and have gone 3 and a half (couldnt finish #4, I was exhausted). Alternatively, had a 2 hour session once where it was only 2, once quick at the beginning and then one that lasted most of the remaining time. Its all a personal thing. Some guys are one and done in a day. Good luck to you
A little younger than you at 55, but twice in two hrs. or so, with an hour or so nap in between. Other factors at play...she is a long time ATF who I haven't seen in several months, and I love her to death. DATY and BBBJ were part of the picture, and a trip to the Greek isles would have been if I asked.
According to most of those in the medical field, it takes at least 24 hrs. at my age to recover. Not so here...2 at most with ladies I love. Just make sure not to over stimulate...refrain for 48 to 72 hours beforehand. No jerking off...take care of personal finances or other business during that time frame...then let her rip! Working out 5 days per week, getting in 6 - 7 hrs. of sleep per night, and taking care of nutritional needs also helps.
Have fun, dude!
The largest erogenous zone is between the ears.. sometimes a week between pops.. other times about 20 minutes or so.. and I'm shocked when that happens.. I'm almost 67.. so who knows..
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then just go with that. With practice, you'll learn how your mind and body reacts and figure out how long a date needs to be to satisfy you - no matter how many times you cum.
Honestly, we're all different and each one of us has any number of things that affect our performance from day to day. Enjoy the journey to its fullest each time, and don't let "number pressure" detract from your pleasure.
It really depends on a lot of factors. I have gone 3 lately in an hour and half. Sometimes 2 in an hour is difficult. I can probably manually go 3 or 4 in an hour, but what fun is that? I am seeing my atf regular today. We usually spend an hour to 2 together. I'll see how many I can get today and report back 
I've always preferred one Good one to 2 rushed ones, but that's just me.
For me at least at age 57, part of it depends on how long I take for the first pop. If I take an hour to pop the first time, I need more recovery time than if my first pop comes after only 15 minutes.
Personally I don't really care much about how many times I cum. I had an overnight on the fourth where we went at it for SEVERAL hours and I never came, this was mainly by design as it was an non P4P date with a woman not yet thirty who seems to be insatiable. I knew if I came, especially after two bottles of red wine and a bottle of Champagne that it might end our fun for at least an hour and probably longer and I REALLY wanted her to be satisfied as I don't get a lot of unpaid action with twenty somethings at my "advanced age" lol So Monday night was more about her satisfaction than mine. It didn't even dawn on me that I never came that night until late the next afternoon as I was reliving it in my mind. lol
but back to you, there are things that will help your recovery time, lots of rest, well hydrated, not drunk, etc etc etc. OR you could simply take it as it comes and not stress about that second pop.
I had an overnight on the fourth where we went at it for SEVERAL hours and I never came, this was mainly by design as it was an non P4P date with a woman not yet thirty who seems to be insatiable.
but I will confess, I do look much younger than my age.
It's funny she did make the comment that if I ever were to meet her dad that we should probably lie about my age and claim to be 45, a fifteen year age difference would be easier for him to accept than the true difference of almost 30 years. lol
I will further confess, it's not often I get a twenty something into my bed without paying her, but it's great for the ego when it happens, especially when she is still interested in me "the morning after"
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My only answer to that question is "enough times for her to want to see me again" and that is good enough for me.
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Truly, the other posts have done a great job identifying the multitude of factors that go into the mix. And it is going to be a little different for everyone.
It is as much mental/emotional as it is physical as you get older. In talking with men and women of all ages, we have learned that for many guys as they get older, it becomes much more than just getting off. They want a connection (even if it is just for an hour or two) with the lady they are with. Pills can help with the physiology, but they don't add anything to the 'attraction-factor.'
Guys can go crazy (and soft) overthinking this. Here's a simple recipe that will put you in the best position to rebound quickly:
1. Don't over-extend yourself...let things build for a couple days before
2. Be rested and hydrated
3. Limit the alcohol (and caffeine)
4. Make sure there is an attraction to the lady you are with
5. Don't pressure yourself as to the timing of the first pop (let things unfold, each encounter is different)
6. Don't try too quickly for round two. If you get hard too soon after the first pop, that second pop can actually be harder to achieve than if you give your body a little more time before round two.
Good luck. Have fun. And try to relax and let it come naturally
I read so many reviews that say "I'm a one shot guy" so they want the woman to ease off and make it last.
I have cum 5 times on a 2 hour date, she got a 10-10 rating from me. Most ladies either stall in between pops or they think because I'm 52 yo that I can only get one pop.
The answer to your question, as far as I'm concerned is 10-15 minutes on average. But, I was with a dynamo who wouldn't stop touching/sucking my cock in between pops and she got me for 3 pops in an hour.
So, I think it depends on the lady, and the lengths she's willing to go to in order to make you happy.
Communication is key. By the time that I see her, I've anticipated it so much, saved up for a good 3-4 days, so I like a bbbj directly out of the shower. Then we can relax, cuddle, talk get to know each other a little before the next round.
But the key is that I'm there to get off and some guys are there for the romance. Romance is too much like work for me, I don't want to have to make much of an effort to get laid anymore. The effort I make is good hygiene and a good count of my envelope.
It depends if you want to make it last and savor the feeling or
would you rather have your girl keep working on you to get as many pops as possible.
I recommend for the first hour:
1. a slow build up, savor that feeling, tease and hold your release til you can't anymore.
2. Massage that yummy feeling in for a good 40 minutes,
then
3. begin build up of the number two pop for a finale.
Lots of factors. Time of day best after breakfast or lunch. Helps if you exercise on a regular basis. No sex for 3 days. The provider has to be into you and attractive. For me if those conditions are meet 10 minutes for recovery between pops.
I did not start having sex until I was 24. That's another factor.
I started having sex at 14 and given the parameters you have given, I most likely would only need ten minutes recovery as well, but I rarely go three days without sex. I also have much of my sex in the evening after/during drinking.
I still don't get what age you lose your virginity has anything to do with this.
plus we all know an SAP needs less blood so of course it recovers faster.
Or in other words, use it or lose it.
At least, that has been my experience
I am thinking that testosterone or the lack thereof would be the first thing I would think of. I am also thinking that excercise would be a critical thing because that would speak to wind and to your refractory period as well. Also look at hematological causes such as blood flow and the like as well. Also what enzymes are antithetical to getting an erection would also be a good place to look at as well.
I still don't get what age you lose your virginity has anything to do with this.
1. for me, she has to be really hot. Great looking and sexy. I'll get it up once for just one or the other, but lose interest after 1st pop if she doesn't live up to my expectations.
2. based on your desired menu, start with Greek. This needs the firmest wood. Use your recovery time for any cleanup and DATY then ask her to end the session with a BJ.
No reason a healthy male under 60 can't go 2 rounds in under 2 hours. As others have said, if at all concerned, take at least a day off from spanking it and hydrate. taking a good piss between pops can help too
are two hours with regulars. I have done this enough to know how to pace the end of the first pop(about the 50min mark), so that I get enough recovery time (about 20-25min) to enjoy the second round without rushing. If I'm seeing a new girl, its almost always a one-hour session and I don't even try for two, although a few PSE-types have forced it on me, much to my surprise.
I should mention that I lead a pretty healthy lifestyle; 8 hrs a week at the gym, proper diet augmented by nutritional supplements, and reasonable sleep, but not always as much as I would like. I still manage three sessions a week, but rarely on consecutive days.
...depending on whether or not the second pop is CFS or BBBJ. My first pop is almost always CFS. If the second pop is CFS too, then that pop might take more out of me and I will be done for the hour. If the second pop is BBBJ, then I can usually go for another BBBJ pop within that hour. I think that the main factors for me are the condoms and how much work I have to do in order to get the pop, both of which make BBBJ pops a lot easier and more likely to result in a greater potential number of pops within a given timeframe.
I'm late 50's and my patterns haven't changed much in a long time.
I still come quickly when I'm with someone new and exciting and so before I see a provider, I make sure that I jack off a couple of days before the appointment. In fact, my best sessions are when I jack off 4 or 5 hours before a session. Then I have the most stamina.
I think I need more than an hour recovery time -- the only times I've tried for 2 pops in an hour, it wasn't successful - at least not in recent years. I have vague memories of doing it quickly but it was a lo-o-ong time ago
If you enjoy the lady, just book the time with her and see how things progress.
I am normally a 1 pop person and usually wait till the end of a session.
Once I completed in the first 15 mins....the lady was super nice and we talked for 30 minutes, relaxed.
I was totally relaxed and he popped up again and I was able to produce a second.
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