...the internet and the cell phone, I wouldn't be able to hobby without them.. The worst thing is the tens of thousands of dollars I've spent over the years. Don't go back and figure it out, it will scare the crap out of you, LOL
Finding men that love to :P Oh gosh!!
Finding men that love multiple hours/rounds to please each other. Awesome. Beautiful. Wonderful. :
Let's be realistic, the best thing is the ability to meet so many wonderful ladies and enjoy the moments. The choices are endless. One time it could be a MILF and the next time it could be a college aged lady. It's a beautiful thing.
The worst is sifting through all ladies who detract from this world.
The best things are, I get to spend quality time with women who I'd be invisible to if it weren't for the arrangement, and then they leave.
The worst thing is, hmm, what would the worst thing be about this life? I can't think of anything.
The best, by far, is finding an untapped reservoir if self confidence I never knew I had, and also discovering I possess certain skills I never knew...
The worst is learning that there are a few aspects of man/woman stuff I still suck at, and hurting someone I grew to care for very deeply in the process...
All in all, to this point, my hobbying experience has been a break even...
See you very soon!
Steph xoxo
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say any provider that leaves will be back but several I'm remember have not returned.
Some of the smart ones use this business to get through school without student loans, get established in RL and then retire from P4P.
The best for me is the finding that diamond in the rough. That provider that does it because she loves it rather than just a means to an end. The worst is the rip offs and fakes and bait and switches and all those that just do this becuase it is easy money for them and deep down they probably hate men.
The worst was in 2009 when my then atf died in my bed. Enough said!
Can't explain in detail here. I will say that it was emotionally devastating and I did not escort for quite a while afterwards
Erin,
Damn...
MyATF didn't die in my bed, but Stace - Stacey - she liked that I called her Stace - died "unexpectedly and suddenly" ....I can't imagine your experience....
Tony
Most people can't imagine and truthfully I wish I could say the same. I asked the powers that be to remove his review years ago and they WOULDN'T 😡
Worst thing seeing a provider who I didn't click with and feeling like I wasted money.
Gaining the ability to compartmentalize love and physical needs in a relationship (from watching my clients do so for years) was helpful, but a one-way trip. Invulnerability to jealousy can be great, but I'm now completely monogamy-averse, which is not as easy to pull off in RL as one would imagine.
Best thing is all the beautiful women available. Worst thing not having won the lottery so I have to come up with the money to enjoy them by working for a living and planning my vacation time.
...if you shared yours.
The best is having incredible sex with very hot women and establishing some lifelong friendships along the way.
The worst thing that's ever happened to me wasn't really all that bad. I got lazy and didn't do my research, assuming that the fifth gal I saw from an agency would be as incredible as the first four. She was as hot as her pictures, but her performance was less than stellar. No kissing, no DATY, covered BJ, but she at least let me have multiple shots on goal. 😎
Best are the hours spent with the women.
Worst is the time in-between saving up money and spermcount.
The best is the relationships I have developed with some incredible women.
The worst is the relationships I have developed with some incredible women and the realization that no matter how much we enjoy each others company said relationship singularly revolves around money. Always seems to happen around the two year mark and then I have to walk away. It's almost as bad as breaking up with a lover(irony).
And that is the truth it all revolve around the money. If it wasn't for the money I would never have gotten to know her. As long as she keeps it up I will pay her and enjoy her company until that one day I make a mistake and she gone.
Some of the best things about my hobby experience:
Not having to settle again, ever.
The absolute honesty of the arrangement, I get off and she gets Bennys, and then we part ways.
Spending quality time with a beautiful, hot, sexy woman; both of us naked and neither one of us self conscious.
The self confidence which I've gained.
The best head of my life.
And let's face it, some really, really good pussy.
The best is my ATF the worst was being robbed @ gunpoint.
Best is an escort telling me that I am an interesting man who knows how to live life to the fullest and people like me make this hobby fun.
Worst is that same escort retiring.
Best: ATF's. I've had over a dozen over the years, and the majority are active. Worst: Several former ATF's have moved on, and broke off all contact. But, that's just the nature of the game. And the pool can always be replenished...and some who moved on, came back.
and I sincerely mean UTMOST ... meeting Alexandra Rey, (retired) who was in a league of her own. She could make me cum on command. The 30 minute tantric BJ for round 2 literally had me weak in the knees for almost an hour. And she stayed by my side for those 60 mins.
Session Deux ... Lisa of Boston, 90 min date that ended 6 hrs later. A Squirter, she destroyed two King beds and my insatiable cock. That was 10 yrs ago, when my dick was the Home of the Whopper.
Right there, but ...
Octavia ... passion/kink;
Samantha K., hotttt oral and one of a kind;
Jenna Michaels, squirt-a-thon (word wheel inserted that! ... lol)
Bryanna ... 5 tool player, a total pleasure ... my little spinner queen;
Kimberly ... total nymph .... so hot
What they did/do for me was/is beyond words. All have cum close to the AR experience (remember the provider with that Moniker?
the Craigslist biker chick I let fuck me just to get rid of her ...
totally creepy, she drove me to TER. A Silver Lining ....lol
Some Best Things:
Learning the ropes as a newbie from PT in Atlanta.
Repeating and getting better experiences over the years with an AMP girl/woman.
Amazing sex with a latina who blew my socks off--multiple times.
A fellow TER reviewer getting me into the ATL K-girl scene.
Meeting and getting to know my SB.
Every negative STD check.
The worst?
Missing out on one of ATL's most highly rated after she canceled on me without notice--twice.
Having a Hotel Tonight booking mysteriously appear on the family calendar.
Prob others But I seem to forget the bad stuff.
---later