a public figure and isn't concealing her identity the same as a p4p gal. Probably making quite a much more than most p4p gals too. But I dont know the money thing for a fact.
Not a good IRL career move either . or if you have children
Okay, so I was just reading another thread just below about the meaning of "UTR" and how scrambled it has become.
S/he mentions in the last line or so about the term GFE running the same rout, and I feel like we can all agree.
Gfe, in my opinion means bbj, (not to finish) dfk, daty/ dato and a more passions sensual over all experience.
Yet, I get cliets reffering to BBFS, using the term GFE.
Also, the term "PSE" doesn't that mean porn star experience? Wouldnt that mean a lot of generally uncovered acts of hypersexuality? I was reffered to as PSE in a recent review, but don't do bbfs nor do I do cim or cof. So, I am a bit perplexed here.
So, can we think of some new acronyms here?
As a team, here.. Lets Let's think
Gfe should be changed entirley.... Or thrown away and stick to specific acronyms lol
Just Food for thought.
And sorry about the bad typing, using a stupid smart phone.
to include CIM and Greek, but not BBFS. Greek is always YMMV regardless of whether a provider advertises PSE or not. Obviously, you want to see how much sausage the guy's packing before you agree and you can't do that until the session is underway.
For me, GFE means DFK and BBBJ, but not necessarily CIM. I may not be in the mainstream with my understanding of these definitions, but if not, I'm sure someone will correct me.
To answer your question, I don' know if there would be any new acronyms that would be any more immune to misuse by reviewers than they are now.
I agree with coer-de-lion on pse, but would add in cof, various BDSM stuff and/or mutiple contorted positions at a breakneck pace beyond a normal experience with wild enthusiasm.
CIM is YMMV depending on the provider IMHO. It should not be expected unless specifically advertised on the website. As far as swallowing the product, that is also YMMV, most girls spit.
Now, as far as GFE, DFK and BBBJ yes. Small talk and an attempt at being personable and not just a sex toy, is my definition. Sex with a girlfriend is what it simulates. Girl friend experience, does YOUR girlfriend act like a porn star and act all kinky? If so, why are you looking for providers? Lmao
More secret terms you suggest would turn TER into a secret society. Seems that there are a lot of English teachers on TER waiting for someone to misplace a comma as well as those that OIUHVCY and think anybody can understand them. I'm talking about you ass-holes who can only spell a word one way...how boring. What we need to to is put FANCY in charge of this problem.
the "psycho girlfriend experience"
a few providers i have seen would fit this nomenclature easily.
several for whom this would apply, but can't name them without getting BL'd.
what did you have trouble understanding? If you're talking about someone else, then you have put your post in the wrong place. Are you high?
What was so fucking hard to understand about what CDL posted?
I understood exactly what he said. Do you need for us to type slower for you?
Going back several years, GFE was pretty synonymous with escort, but I first saw it in ads where both FBSM and GFE were offered, as opposed to FBSM only, or suggesting only GFE I.e., escort.
But before that there was an actual distinction between Escort and GFE because it was not uncommon in those days for men to hire an attractive lady to accompany him on a formal or semi-formal occasion. What now would be Eye-Candy Only...which I have never seen advertised. So IF advertised in print, it might be something like: GFE extra.
A major source of clients in those days were gay men who used the escort to keep up a facade among his straight colleagues. Remember, homosexuality was still against the law in the 60's and 70's, and a tremendous social stigma for a very long time.
And PSE, as I understand it, ought only be used if she has indeed done some Porn flicks. That it would mean BBFS seems asking too much.
And Greek Goddess is the term that suggests anal, and I would think that that could eventually come to be called GG, but haven't seen that yet.
GFE, I feel, should include DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and all positions except Greek. At any point though, a GFE can decide she doesn't offer 69 or rimming or whatever. That sort of has to go as the unspoken all-inclusive YMMV clause applicable to any rendezvous.
It's not (or at least shouldn't be) an element of either PSE or GFE. BBFS is something that should exclusively be reserved for monogamous relationships (and even then other methods of birth control should be exercised, unless you're in the market for kids of course).
It's terrifying that any client would assume BBFS is a part of either offering; that tells me there are some providers that engage in it, which is pretty galling.
If provider and client have clean std results and birth control is used, more power to them.
It's terrifying that any client would assume BBFS is a part of either offering; that tells me there are some providers that engage in it, which is pretty galling.
Every women I've ever seen, I wanted to BB her, if I don't want to BB her, I have no desire to CF her.
I won't argue the wisdom of having unprotected sex with a total stranger who is almost certainly having the same kind of relations with possibly dozens or more other people, but to pretend it doesn't happen is rather naïve. There are ads right here on TER promising "cream pie" finishes.
BBFS providers will give it they see your test results or think your clean. Some when they get drunk will do BBFS then wake up the next day freaking out. BBFS providers generally have 4-5 regulars they do with BBFS with.
It is pretty funny to see a provider at incall wasted. They will do BBFS by trying to jump on your dick. You have to always keep your guard up and remind you have to put a condom.
The other risks besides STDs are pregnancies. Some providers use ru486 pill to have abortions 3 to 4 times a year.
If you are seeing a provider you should always use a condom period.
Please, please, please, just Shut The Fuck Up!!!
Just how the fuck do you know that hookers have 4-5 regulars that they do BBFS with? Admit it, you just pulled that number out of your dumb fucking ass. You are a fucking embarrassment.
Yes, BBFS is nowhere near as rare as the naïve among us would like to believe, but you aren't helping matters with your dumb ass statements. You truly are TSTTT
Are you feeling guilty ? I wonder why are you like the other guys that had to cough up some money for abortions...
Girls can get preggers from bbfs? Really? You truly are tstt. Be proud of your SPOTY. You've earned it.
so she can't steal our seed and impregnate herself. You said once you actually do that.
It really does take all kinds.
I save my ziplock bags from lunch and use them to for used condoms.
water balloon fights with the other nerds a little more exciting with the left-over splooge in there.
GFE - I won't GF a gal if she won't swallow.
I find DFK to be very subjective. For me there's DFK and dfk lite. I prefer a hot, engaged DFK romp almost as much as fucking. OK, not that much but dfk lite usually doesn't interest me.
But Body Type sells (?) women short because there's not a description for a woman with a smokin hottt, rockin body. The choice I see selected most often, when they're not classified as skinny or thin is AVERAGE. There is NOTHING average about them.
There's nothing average about women with a rockin body. Nothing.
I'm surprised that's not been changed over the years.
S/he mentions in the last line or so about the term GFE running the same rout, and I feel like we can all agree.
Gfe, in my opinion means bbj, (not to finish) dfk, daty/ dato and a more passions sensual over all experience.
Yet, I get cliets reffering to BBFS, using the term GFE.
Also, the term "PSE" doesn't that mean porn star experience? Wouldnt that mean a lot of generally uncovered acts of hypersexuality? I was reffered to as PSE in a recent review, but don't do bbfs nor do I do cim or cof. So, I am a bit perplexed here.
So, can we think of some new acronyms here?
As a team, here.. Lets Let's think
Gfe should be changed entirley.... Or thrown away and stick to specific acronyms lol
Just Food for thought.
And sorry about the bad typing, using a stupid smart phone.
For DFK, there are selections "No", "Yes - without tongue", and "Yes - with tongue". For me, only the last one will do. And I think I must have a fetish for it or something, because when a provider LFK'ed me at M&G once, I had a hard-on during the entire train ride home afterwards.
That said, DFK is heavily subjective, much more so than FS, even. With the latter, there just two concrete variables for the most part: position and speed. With the former, many more. Some people prefer wet, erotic tongue massages; other like barely for the tips of the tongues to touch. Then there's wetness, depth, radius of movement, teeth usage, emphasis on lips or tongue, etc. In fact, that was one of the biggest incompatibilities in my last civvie relationship.
For body type, it's much easier. I largely ignore the TER categories, and go by the provider's website photos. If I find her body attractive and other criteria match, then I book. Otherwise, no.
When the term first began to be floated about 15 years ago, it was about the attitude.
Up to that point, many if not most encounters with an escort were about as personable as a visit to the doctor's office.
You'd strip down, hop on the bed, get your fill of whatever menu items the gal decided you'd get (The option list was about as varied then as it is now.), then get up, get dressed, and be out the door with a smile if all went well. (Which it mostly did.)
However, a significant number of clients (myself included), felt that something was missing. We felt that a more congenial atmosphere was needed wherein we could feel like we are with someone who has some passion for us. Thus the term GFE was born.
Maybe the only legitimate menu item that should be included is kissing, specifically DFK. Beyond that, it is really up to the provider. Even some GFE gals I see do greek, for example.
PSE, on the other hand, is more about the menu, though the attitude is also important. For the most part, the session should emulate what we see when we tune in a porn video. Greek is probably the most common menu item that distinguishes that particular mode. The emotional side is not usually evident.
Until such time as the hobby is not only legal, but the government establishes an official agency to oversee it, which agency will then promulgate regulations regarding what our terms mean (Think Dept. of Agriculture and their regulations for terms like "organic", etc.), our debates about the subject will have little if any practical effect. By the way, I do not wish for such a scenario as I just described to actually occur
I agree it should be all about attitude, especially GFE. If we make it about menus, it will be all over the map. For example, I've seen several cases where GFE means FS... not BBFS, just FS, added to DFK, BJ, HJ, massage etc.
As always, let web site descriptions, reviews and reach-outs to reviewers be your guide--not a TLA.
"You'd strip down, hop on the bed, get your fill of whatever menu items the gal decided you'd get (The option list was about as varied then as it is now.), then get up, get dressed, and be out the door with a smile if all went well. (Which it mostly did.)"
That sounds like my last session. Meh 
Sometimes, the good old days weren't so much
S/he mentions in the last line or so about the term GFE running the same rout, and I feel like we can all agree.
I mean, I've only been in the adult business longer than you've been alive, so if that were the case, you'd think SOMEONE would have outed me by now. LMAO
S/he mentions in the last line or so about the term GFE running the same rout, and I feel like we can all agree.
If it's the latter, this could get fun.
I mean, I've only been in the adult business longer than you've been alive, so if that were the case, you'd think SOMEONE would have outed me by now. LMAO.
I was mereley saying I hadn't remembered who wrote the initial post. Nothing else was implied.
BrittneyStarGirl: I think you're right that general expectations for the term GFE means "bbj, (not to finish) dfk, daty/ dato and a more passions sensual over all experience". When we try to find out if an escort is GFE that usually what we mean in general. Then after some of us will go farther and qualify whether she also does BBBJCIM and even for some BBFS but I don't think I know anyone who expects GFE to actually infer BBFS.
Maybe it's a way for someone to try to coerce you into BBFS by saying "Hey you promised GFE! Blah-blah-blah!" 
I mean we all differ in our tastes and approaches
As for PSE, what I don't understand about it is how can the term PSE not include a provider to be photo and video friendly. I mean how can one be a porn star without allowing yourself to be filmed and photographed?
a public figure and isn't concealing her identity the same as a p4p gal. Probably making quite a much more than most p4p gals too. But I dont know the money thing for a fact.
Not a good IRL career move either . or if you have children
That's all fine. But I was talking about the term PSE. It just escapes me how the term "porn star experience" could not infer filming or taking photos, that's all.
I encounter plenty of providers that don't mind filming. In fact out of all women that I visited in the last year about 50% wouldn't want to be filmed or photographed and 50% didn't mind it at all. Moreover many chicks that don't do this for living get really excited when you pull out the camera, especially the younger ones. In fact it surprises me how few of them think long term in that regard.
When people get older they become more camera shy but it's not because they're particularly concerned about long term implications but rather many become more conscious about what it is that they have to take photos of.
I used to spend a lot of my summers in Aquinas and went to "that" beach all the time, with my girlfriend, with friends, and even alone but now... I still go to Martha every time I get a chance (like I just watched another out of the ordinary sunset at Manemsha; today life is good...) but I'm no longer that eager to go to "that" beach despite of the fact that many people that I'd see there would be even in worse shape then I am.
just kidding.My personal preference is being so engaged that photos and filming are the farthest thing from my mind.
I've had PSEs with providers that do and don't consider themselves PSEs. One gal I spent a lot of time with was as PSE as one could imagine but her rules were no DATY and only CBJ ... but the rest of the evening was off the charts. She rocked my world.
Basically, categories, boxes and lines will always be blurred, understood differently by the interpreter and are difficult to standardize. I definitely agree with you ... and are you the nekked dude on the beach in MV with the big.... umbrella? Lol
No, I'm the dude with a hat lol And I'm not on the beach, I'm the dude in a water. The safest place for me to be nowadays because the way I feel I look now there is no way I could drown. lol
Today's name of the game is "lamb with red wine sauce" (first time doing the sauce).
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"Just the two of us" means do whatever we want. Shhhh... just between us. Wherever it goes, it goes.
Usually end up with more acronyms that way anyway