I'd say that's good advice ... stay true to yourself hahahaha
your 6 roomies attractive and hot girlfriends tell you that if they ever broke up with my friend, they'd want to be with me. These arent near misses (earlier post) but No Way Joses! So what's a poor boy to do.
So guys, has this happened to you and how'd that work out for you?
Any lady's have guys tell you the same? Remember, I'm not naive and realize most if not every one of them wanted to get in your pants. Still happening? lol
HAPPY 4TH everyone!
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and although she is nothing to look at from the male perspective, she is an absolute "babe magnet" and you get all her leftovers.
It could be heaven, it could be hell.... No, fuck that, it's most definitely heaven. lol
knew you'd be one of the first. I removed something similar that only the first 10 viewers read ... yea, I got to cherry pick amongst all if rgeir friends and they always told me who the froot loops were. I think that has evolved to BSC .... happy 4th gag
When you are friends with a married couple, have worked with both of them, have had long late night talks with the two of them and individually--just good long terms friends--then THEY decide that they have reached a stage in their marriage where fidelity is something neither of them wants. Soooo...even though you aren't attracted to the woman, THEY decide that YOU would be a good choice for her to step out with.
Either way, no matter how things go, you know from the outset that this is not going to work out well. And just to complicate things further, imagine that this goes down at a time in your life when you're very happily head over heels in love with someone a little younger and a hell of a lot sexier.
Do you insult them both and risk losing your friendship? Do you take the old lady off for a weekend and hope your girlfriend won't find out? Do you just put a bullet through your head? Do you move to Germany and start life over under a different name? Can you come up with a better possible option?
You just tell them that their friendship means so much to you that you would never do anything to jeopardize it, and therefore could never be comfortable with the arrangement they propose.
Tell them that if they want to pursue their laudable ends, they should seek out a stranger from some site that is devoted to this kind of thing. It would work out much better as their would be no baggage.
They can't hate you for that
Just say NO!!!
Of course it's not going to work out well, DUH. You just said you are in love with someone else, just tell them THAT is the reason.
being in love stop you from having sex with other women? Are you telling him to do as you say and not as you do? Lol
Actually, I get plenty of sex, too much to be fucking my friends wife, even with his permission, even if she were hot. There are literally thousands of women I can have sex with for few hundred bucks and no drama, I only have a limited number of friends not enough to through any of them away get to get my dick wet with a middle age woman that I wasn't particularly attracted to in the first place.
I don't really see what the dilemma is here, I wouldn't even have to think twice about it. Come to think of it, I did have some friends many years back who were swingers, they hinted about inviting me to "share" with them and I took my own advice and took a pass. She was most definitely hot, but I didn't need that kind of drama in my life, then or now.
I'd say that's good advice ... stay true to yourself hahahaha
Because if you are better in bed than he it will make thing worse. Especially when she gets drunk telling him "Your dick is too small, your sex is no good".
Then you have to block her phone or change your number. Because she will always being chasing down to fool around on the side behind her husbands back.
I'm looking back a few decades with this, and your advice would have been helpful back then.
Besides, Germany was pretty cold that first January.
and that you're happily monogamous. It's on them to respect your choices. Also, you never mentioned if the wife was hottt. If she was as hotttt as your younger friend, would you see things differently. I'd guess it wluld .... BUT it is a tricky sutuation.
My advice is to abstain, especially since you have no sexual feelings
for her. I think you'd have mentioned that and the hotttt factor if it was present.
I know that guys tend to express emotion differently but I think that this was an awkward situation that you are able to laugh at now. I had a little awkwardness in my home recently when the project manager of the contractor company that remodeled my bathrooms came over to inspect the work and of course, collect a payment. I was ecstatic that my master bathroom looked just the way I wanted it to so when he asked how I'd planned to enjoy the weekend I replied, "with a bottle of wine in my new bath tub!" I was just really excited to get to use my bathroom. I was not flirting. Then he said, "Is there room for 2?" Awkward considering when he was writing the estimate a few weeks prior, all he talked about was his wonderful wife and daughter.... I just laughed it off, said that its a one person tub, and paid him to leave lol.
I'm one of those people who thinks with a lot of emotion so please humor me. How did you feel when these women expressed their desires to date? Were you totally flattered or did you get a weird feeling that you had unintentionally sent out mixed signals? I felt guilty when the project manager flirted with me because going into the remodel I was ready to pay with cash, not time so I did everything I could to show that I'm not a "typical Vegas girl," yet he hit on me like I was. I questioned whether I sent out a flirty vibe for a while and ended up checking my insecurities and chalking his question up to the heat.
I'm curious to know how you were affected emotionally when the 6 girlfriends hit on you.
First, all the girlfriend's girlfriends didn't hit on me at once. Some did and some didn't. But I did hit on some of these that didn't hit on me on principle. I was horny and they were interesting enough to engage. I've always been picky, probably not the best way to get laid. As for emotionally, aside from feeling guilty when I rejected (?) one of them, it wasn't a time in my life where an LTR was of much interest. I was 20 ... girlfriend's, yes. Girlfriend... not so much. I fall in love too easily so I need to be careful ...lol.
I hung in a very wide circle of friends. Our Sat nite party always drew about 200 people so meeting girls wasn't hard. It was actyally harder steering clear of those you had no interest ... lol. God, Quaaludes were fun ... although I only tried them once.
I'm no Brad Pitt but woman have always found me more attractive than I felt about myself. So, a little awkward is more how I felt when goid looking babes approached me. I thought they had vision issues. I was tall and gangly and self conscious. But I warm up quickly when I don't feel threatened. Very quickly. Being a one woman kinda guy, even in this world, it never got awkward except when I felt zero attraction to someone, as I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings in the age of free love.
For the record, I enjoy the variety that the hobby affords, but there's always been that one lady with whom (not this time, Jake) I spend most of my time. There's something to be said for being able to dangle your participle and know exactly what to expect.
Can I get off of the couch now ... lol. Better yet, can I get off now. Where are my toys
Thanks for being so open. I think that's really hot. You can get off of the couch now or invite me to ride you on it. lol.
XoXo
you have no friends....go for it.
So guys, has this happened to you and how'd that work out for you?
Any lady's have guys tell you the same? Remember, I'm not naive and realize most if not every one of them wanted to get in your pants. Still happening? lol
HAPPY 4TH everyone!
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