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Why are men more respective of another guys spouse than women of a guys spouse ?
wrps07 3060 reads
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Have you all noticed that when a guy finds out that a woman (provider, girfriend, sugababe) has a spouse a home he is more respective by terminating the relationship.  Where as a female is not so.

Do you all think it is a double standard ?

Even the worst of the players will back off if they find out the lady in question has a spouse a home.

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GaGambler427 reads

but this is not a typo, grammatical error, or spelling mistake. This is just stupidity on the part of Chicken Little. I've always known he was dumb, but don't you learn the difference between respective and respectful in about the third grade?

I guess Chicken Little is mounting a mid stretch run at SPOTY.

In fact, it has been the opposite.  Not only I, but almost all of the women I've ever known in such a situation, have dumped the guy as soon as we found out he was married*.  

But when I was married or even in a LTR?  Oh goodness, other men (in my personal life) did not give a flying rat's ass.  
Same with my friends.  Saying "I'm married" or "I have a boyfriend" is no deterrent at all.  

If they're getting laid, and it's NSA, they're cool with it.  

Some guys might be concerned enough about potential drama that they'll back off, but I do NOT think it usually has to do with being respectful of the woman's SO.  

 
But you know what?  I'm sure this all goes both ways.  

 
*This is only true in my personal life.  I couldn't possibly care less whether my clients are married or not.  ;-)



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Fancy and her sister just get random thoughts and post them.  Seldom relate to anything.

from the Fancy clan.

It at least acknowledges the subject to some extent.

Fancy's posts are like a Greek chorus that reflect ideas in a heuristic manner.  Think of them as a mantra

HOsBuzters444 reads

... or kind of like some kind of hooker haiku...  containing a deeper, artistically hidden truth

   

Posted By: mrfisher
from the Fancy clan.  
   
 It at least acknowledges the subject to some extent.  
   
 Fancy's posts are like a Greek chorus that reflect ideas in a heuristic manner.  Think of them as a mantra.  
   
 

Fucked a co-workers wife, which I guess is not all that uncommon.  The thing was that he talked about their sex life and the things she either would not do or could not do well but she sure did them for me when we were together. He was kind of an asshole anyway so I didn't give a shit.

Yea but most clients offer drugs to the female that they are fucking.

Posted By: Kitty76
Yea but most clients offer drugs to the female that they are fucking.
Are you speaking from experiences?Trying out competition by talking shit.

GaGambler526 reads

Very few of the hookers I see do drugs, and very few of the johns you will find on TER are druggies either. Actually, except for fucking hookers, most of the guys here won't even attempt to cross the street in anyplace but a crosswalk as they are afraid to risk a jaywalking ticket.

I know this doesn't apply to all the members here, but except for fucking hookers the guys here tend to be a pretty law abiding bunch.

Smallfish388 reads

Are you claiming that men are less likely to pursue married/committed women, than women are to pursue married/committed men?  Or are you saying that men prefer virgins, while women like a guy that has slept with some (but not TOO many!) women?  Either way...sounds like ancient stereotypes to me.

souls_harbor573 reads

Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had                           57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had                  54 %

Percent of married men who have strayed at least once during their married lives                           22 %
Percent of married women who have strayed at least once during their married lives                       14 %

Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught      74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught  68 %

We aren't so different after all.

Providers don't care because they are only after money & Maybe the pleasure.  Men are after the pleasure and possibly more. Most Guys figure that they will pay the lady and try to get more out of it then the lady wants.

Senator.Blutarsky534 reads

Do you really believe this?  

In my experience, it's the other way around. I know plenty of guys who don't care about the relationship status of the lady of their desire. I don't think it even crosses some guys minds. If it does, it is only in the context of the possible blowback to them.

Posted By: wrps07
Have you all noticed that when a guy finds out that a woman (provider, girfriend, sugababe) has a spouse a home he is more respective by terminating the relationship.  Where as a female is not so.  
   
 Do you all think it is a double standard ?  
   
 Even the worst of the players will back off if they find out the lady in question has a spouse a home.

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