To address your direct question, if you set a date with the provider, you should pay the donation you agreed to. Others will disagree, and there are circumstances where they'd be right, but if you set the date with knowledge of your ambiguity about whether or not it was the right thing to do, it's on you, not her.
There are rules, & there are rules. Maybe the rules limitations that the reviewers decided were deal-breakers, don't apply to you in your current situation. I finally took the plunge into the FBSM side of the hobby after a year & a half of FS-only. I knew there'd be rules. There were. They didn't affect my satisfaction, especially considering cost vs. outcome. There's "would not repeat", & there's "would not repeat". I was reading new reviews just today, and I saw one provider where her most recent review was very mediocre, and included would not repeat in the general details. The text of the review read like a good session, but the reviewer's distaste for A-cup breasts affected his ultimate conclusion. I read his other reviews, and it was not just her - small boobs, would not repeat. I LOVE small boobs! Prefer 'em, actually. His advice, it turns out, is useless to me. Read the reviews. PM the reviewers. Check out the reviewer's other reviews, especially the anomalous ones. That should give you the confidence to either proceed with setting a date, or looking elsewhere with no regrets. These last 3 paragraphs only work if you have VIP. If you haven't already, get VIP - think of it as a low cost for being able to do your due diligence.Been away for awhile for personal reasons. 1st date is set for next week with a lady who has a few decent reviews, but is very vague about the encounter. Claims 1st session is one where we get to know each other. I realize time is $$$, and if I show up and clearly we are not fit, is it acceptable to politely explain this and offer to leave 1/3 to 1/2 donation request? This has not happened before, but based on her vagueness and a couple reviewers who would not repeat, I do not want to take a chance. Thanks in advance for your responses.
what is this place useful if not for reviews. if youre not happy with her reviews or they do not give you enough assurance.. why not shop around more?
I tend to be just as vague in my email interaction with potential clients. When they ask me that question, i always say: read my reviews
Most are good,2-3 won't repeat due to rules, 1-2 tofft.
listening to your inner voice perhaps is best...only a few reviews and some that say would not repeat seems to be a clear indicator to consider shopping around. I also do not want explicit questioning or conversations prior to meeting the first time.
At the very least I would PM a couple of her reviewers, ESPECIALLY the unhappy ones to get an idea of what to expect.
Isn't your time worth money too? Are you really going to shell out hard earned money to a hooker who you don't end up fucking? I don't even do that with Sugar Babies.
I probably wouldn't see her at all.
On the other hand if you have your mind set on Her and think things will be different for you, then I guess go ahead and take the chance. If you do get there and decide not to proceed, I don't see why you can't take most of your donation back, but don't expect her to be happy about it.
I hope you are not talking about Fresh Violet. 
No, actually only one. If you are in a virtual hooker desert and there are no other options.
Bail, man. Bail.
there are MANY reasons not to.
Nah, I have a great reputation. 
Thanks though.
I hope you are not talking about Fresh Violet.
and you too have at least a couple of clients who claim they won't repeat. So for all we know the Governor could be talking about you.
I will concede you are a legend in your own mind.
I don't think it's polite to ask for any back if you made the appointment with nebulous expectations. If you are stuck on her looks or board posts, book on those merits only if they will be enough. If you're more concerned with performance, there are plenty of sure things out there. Xo
Run away. Why would you gamble on a marginally reviewed provider?
There are plenty of providers that are well reviewed and take newbies.
If you like what you see...stick around.
If not...wrong address...sorry
...I would move on to someone else with more positives.
To address your direct question, if you set a date with the provider, you should pay the donation you agreed to. Others will disagree, and there are circumstances where they'd be right, but if you set the date with knowledge of your ambiguity about whether or not it was the right thing to do, it's on you, not her.
There are rules, & there are rules. Maybe the rules limitations that the reviewers decided were deal-breakers, don't apply to you in your current situation. I finally took the plunge into the FBSM side of the hobby after a year & a half of FS-only. I knew there'd be rules. There were. They didn't affect my satisfaction, especially considering cost vs. outcome.
There's "would not repeat", & there's "would not repeat". I was reading new reviews just today, and I saw one provider where her most recent review was very mediocre, and included would not repeat in the general details. The text of the review read like a good session, but the reviewer's distaste for A-cup breasts affected his ultimate conclusion. I read his other reviews, and it was not just her - small boobs, would not repeat. I LOVE small boobs! Prefer 'em, actually. His advice, it turns out, is useless to me.
Read the reviews. PM the reviewers. Check out the reviewer's other reviews, especially the anomalous ones. That should give you the confidence to either proceed with setting a date, or looking elsewhere with no regrets. These last 3 paragraphs only work if you have VIP. If you haven't already, get VIP - think of it as a low cost for being able to do your due diligence.
It's not a definate... you should read the full reviews & PM other reviewers... If you are seriously interested...
There is a SCAM where the gal (provider or SB) will have a social date & then say NO. "What kind of a girl do you think I am?" or "I don't do that"
OR promises action on the next date butthen becomes hard to reach or schedule with...
Without more information, I'd just not be willing to go forward.
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a board member I trusted. I'd want my first excursion to be as close to a sure thing as possible.
I wouldn't waste my time nor ask for the pussy insurance you seek.
I'd block you if I was her. How about if you're having an off day, she's gonna be responsible for your subjective decision.
Maybe you should ask your local board for referrals by PM. Then evaluate the responses and credibility of the responders. I'm surprised you need help if you've been successful before.
Ypu can also find some interesting prospects and confirm with recent reviewers by PM. I never do this but have had local guys chime in when someone RSVPs to an in search of (ISO) I may post which I also rarely do.
Do an ISO on your lical board and they will cum. Good luck.
BTW... I'd NEVER give out a ladies name to an alias. EVER.
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...there is an envelope under his handle.
because he has no reviews that I can use to gauge if I should trust him with the safety of a friend. If I'm referring someone, then I care enough about and them and their safety. If I'm uncertain, then I'll let the lady respond to their query/ISO.
While wrong about the alias, I don't hear anyone disagreement with my premise. I protect my friends, in and out of this lifestyle. Nor do I care if any of you agree.
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and I bet you there are a LOT more people who know me than know you. just sayin...
Now The Governor is not a blabbermouth like me, but he does have a posting history that goes back seven years, that gives him a LOT more credibility than a lot of folks here with reviews.
well I'm sure you've filled up his mailbox with hot mommas to fuck.
as for a LOT ...well that and $5 will get you a cup of Starbucks. So why would he be asking such a stupid question with all that history. I was being nice but I can play your way too.
As for posting history, I still don't know how he treats a woman. That won't change nor does it have too. I'm sure he can find what he's looking for with all of his friends.
As for no Reviews, I probably wouldn't be offering you any names either. Then Again, like the gang from Cheers ... everybody knows your name ... lol 😍😉👍🗣
Now The Governor is not a blabbermouth like me, but he does have a posting history that goes back seven years, that gives him a LOT more credibility than a lot of folks here with reviews.
"I DO NOT WANT TO TAKE A CHANCE."
I think you should cancel this meeting and to make a better choice from among Providers with better, more promising reviews. Once you're back in the swing of things, you can go back and see this one
...then she should be offering a free consultation. Many professionals do this before they perform their services for you.
This sounds like anything but a "sure thing" That is just one of the many reasons I would pass.
I think the only thing worse than no sex is acceptable sex. Like the only thing worse than silence is acceptable music.
You seem like an Adventurer.
Order the "Get-To-Know-You" session
and tell her you will pay the "Get-To-Know-You" fee.
After that, you will email her and tell her your ability to sign up for a "Real" session at the "Real" rate
but I love your answer... does the real rate include getting fucked and a BJ or just lingerie and an LFK?