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Awhile back I was browsing reviews and happened to come across something I can't recall seeing mentioned anywhere else:
He complained that the provider did not re-dress him at the end of their time together.  

His opinion is that at the $300+ level, the provider should put his clothes back on him for him.  He enjoys having a naked woman don his shirt, button his buttons, and even tie his shoes.  

 
Now, I've had clients expect or specifically ask me to fully UNDRESS him (which can definitely be fun & exciting!) but never have I had someone  ask for the opposite.

Have I been missing something all these years, and this is a common practice?

Or a sometime thing that you, as a client, would appreciate?

 
Inquiring minds want to know!  ;-)

Mscurious470 reads

Did he want the girl to wipe his ass too?eom

at the $350/hr level.  An ass wipe for an ass-wipe.

I haven't had the pleasure of anyone dressing me.  I don't think you've missed anything. Sounds like that reviewer was a prima donna.

JakeFromStateFarm357 reads

That's a new one on me.  Talk about passive-aggressive/entitled.

Any time you are in a service business you're going to find people who think their specific likes/desires/wants are the same as everyone else's  
Just ignore it.
I'm much more interested in a girl dropping my jeans and slipping me inside her mouth than I am her dressing me after.

I'd let you but I'd prefer we were both so weak in the knees that we wouldn't remember putting my clothes back on. If you'd like to practice, hit me up if you're in town.

Only the fact that some clients are morons. Some guys have all kinds of strange expectations but they don't communicate them and they expect providers to be mindreaders. The last time someone dressed me, I was 3 years old. To each his own and if some guy wants a provider to dress him as part of his date I guess that's ok, but he has to ask for it! It's like when you read how guys were disapointed because they showed up and the provider was wearing street clothes instead of lingerie (but he never requested lingerie) Personally I prefer street clothes, but I don't get bent out of shape if I show up and she's wearing lingerie. There was one poster here a few years ago who complained that most providers wouldn't do cowgirl with him...but he never asked them!

Isn't mind reading an extra 200/hr?

Posted By: perfectstorm
Only the fact that some clients are morons.
Seriously, thank you for writing that.  It made me smile very, very wide.  I'm still laughing and smiling..... and I needed that.

Love ya! xoxoxoxoxo

Funny how you can't please everyone.  I've been with people who have hung up my clothes for me and really been into the whole "help you get dressed" thing (I had someone iron my shirt once!), but while it is well intentioned and a lovely thought it just doesn't do much for me.  But I don't get annoyed that she hasn't read my mind, I just say I'm good and things proceed.

I probably irritate some folks because I don't care all that much about some things that others obviously do, so if someone asks if I have any special requests (drinks, clothing, whatever), I'm basically "whatever makes you feel good is fine with me, I'm pretty casual".  One recent experience took me at my word and arrived in a bright sleeveless shirt and yoga pants, 5' 9", super hot, and definitely a great and super chill time.  But another client would have complained, and had a bad attitude, and had a poor visit as a result with a great person over something really pointless IMO.

I get the impression that some clients say they don't care, and do, or say one thing and get upset that other things don't get done as well, and basically they are just kind of morons.  Mind reading, indeed.

Also, if you do your homework with reviews etc in advance, you should have a pretty good idea what to expect before you even set up an appointment

but I always let her know & appreciate the TLC.  There's a disability involved so that changes things but I've never been refused.

I understand everyone has their fantasies but in my opinion that is peculiar.  I would not ask a provider to dress me nor would I complain if she did not.  Re-dress is not an characteristic I evaluate a provider on nor should others in my opinion.

I save my button up shirts and velcro shoes for the $300 level

That's kinda odd that he assumed that was expected in an appt?? Generally a client will let you know after screening but during appt booking if he has any special requests which I think dressing him is a special request. Lol

Some ladies see I need help sometimes and no request is needed.   They might feel the time can be used in any way to help the client.     Some help me wash off, bring me water, help me dress and button my shirt.    They even walk me to the door kiss me good by like I'm someone special.   A king maybe.    Old arthritic fingers don't work very well after woman has her way with me for 2 hrs..      I almost need an ambulance and stretcher some times they are so good.     They might just do it because they are special and know how to please a man.  Believe me it's greatly appreciated.

CuriousSort313 reads

I went to an Asian massage parlor a number of times and the woman there started calling me her boyfriend and she insisted on dressing me.  Tying my shoes and everything.  It made me a bit uncomfortable as it felt a bit demeaning towards her but it was her wanting it not me so I let her do it.

My guess is, that my be a cultural thing and perhaps the person frequented AMPS where that has happened to him and therefore he may have thought paying more money he she get the same treatment.

On the flip side, the first time I saw an escort I came out of the bathroom and she was nude and I was so disappointed.  I really enjoy slowly removing a woman's clothes while I kiss all along her shoulders and neck and down her tummy....

Check my tire pressures, change the oil, and pay the load of bills I brought in this big brown envelope.  (Don't worry, I also brought my checkbook, I only want secretarial help not financial support.)

Maybe if he is disabled or has problems buttoning his clothes and asked sure I would help.
But for the expectation that every provider he sees needs to help him put his clothes back on and tie his shoes and he does not have physical disabilities is a bit much imo.

FatVern312 reads

or was mentioned in her reviews, it probably isn't going to happen.

Posted By: Debra_Hollander
Awhile back I was browsing reviews and happened to come across something I can't recall seeing mentioned anywhere else:  
 He complained that the provider did not re-dress him at the end of their time together.  
   
 His opinion is that at the $300+ level, the provider should put his clothes back on him for him.  He enjoys having a naked woman don his shirt, button his buttons, and even tie his shoes.    
   
   
 Now, I've had clients expect or specifically ask me to fully UNDRESS him (which can definitely be fun & exciting!) but never have I had someone  ask for the opposite.  
   
 Have I been missing something all these years, and this is a common practice?  
   
 Or a sometime thing that you, as a client, would appreciate?  
   
   
 Inquiring minds want to know!  ;-)

....this 80 year old guy who told his wife: on my birthday I want to have 3 hours of passionate sex, as if we were still 20 years old.  Then the morning after, I want you to wash and dress me.
The wife: fine,  but that will probably be the undertaker.

Posted By: Debra_Hollander
Awhile back I was browsing reviews and happened to come across something I can't recall seeing mentioned anywhere else:  
 He complained that the provider did not re-dress him at the end of their time together.  
   
 His opinion is that at the $300+ level, the provider should put his clothes back on him for him.  He enjoys having a naked woman don his shirt, button his buttons, and even tie his shoes.    
   
   
 Now, I've had clients expect or specifically ask me to fully UNDRESS him (which can definitely be fun & exciting!) but never have I had someone  ask for the opposite.  
   
 Have I been missing something all these years, and this is a common practice?  
   
 Or a sometime thing that you, as a client, would appreciate?  
   
   
 Inquiring minds want to know!  ;-)

souls_harbor267 reads

A Japanese provider strongly insisted on helping me redress.

It's clearly a form of submissive behavior.  I'm sure that turns some people on.  Though that form is kind of a weak tea for me.  Exciting submission in my preference involves ropes and ..

but truth be told, it''s not something I'm a fan of.  It makes me feel like Little Lord Fauntleroy.

As long as we're discussing unusual extra non-sexual services, the most useful and appreciated involved a K-gal whom I got to know very well.  She had moved to another city but I decided to go out and see her by flying to her city.  When I landed I called her to get directions to her place a few miles from the airport.  She told me she sent a driver to meet me and described the car which was at the waiting area.  She also arranged for the same driver to drive me back to the airport after our session.

Now, that's service

client asking to help them shower, get dressed and undressed....

i think it has to do something with the popularity of geisha experience that some guys have tried or have been wanting to try through asian agencies

You wouldn't believe some of the stupid shit people want done to their food.  I've put sausage gravy on a hot turkey sandwich, made banana splits with everything on the side, and cut steaks into bite-size pieces for grown ass adults.  And that's only three examples out of hundreds.  Now, ask an escort what kind of requests she's encountered...and get ready to shit your pants laughing.

VOO-doo407 reads

Putting on his jacket to expedite the goodbye process!!

Aside from that, I've just let him get dressed himself.  

Maybe he really has a baby/mommy fetish and is afraid to ask. :-D

...I'd expect except in the case of roll play.

I have had ladies take my clothes and hang them for me and they have placed them out on the bed folded for me to get as I come out of the after action shower preparing to leave. This isn't something I expect but it is nice when it's done.

without requesting it... and a reason for it likesome sort of impairment.  I do have an impairment  & just today got fully undressed by her & redressed after...  but I asked for the assistance.  I feel throughly pampered.

Had an AMP girl try that.  I wasn't expecting it at all.  Damn near wound up falling on my head.  All in all I am a big boy and can dress myself just fine thank you.  Now I do agree that mutual undressing can be fun.

a total STRANGER'S brains out, suck his dick, let him CIM or COF, even let him fuck your ass (not  necessarily you, Deb) ... and won't help him put his clothes on? Really?  

Seems like an easy one to me. Maybe that can be a new Profile Category for TER. Or ask that question when you are screening him
YEA, the 1st time I ever hear this one Deb. Good post, somethin new  

It also reminds me of posts where providers complain about guys not leaving. I'd dress his ass so fast he wouldn't know what hit him.  

Now kindly get the fuck out ... please. lol

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