Looking back on your sessions with various ladies, how could they have been better?
The more specific, the better. without mentioning any names.
to get a longer and deeper massage
longer and deeper, are you only talking about the massage?
so I eschew all the acting. No need to fake O's (if I'm not doing it for you, its okay), over the top moaning, pretending to be into me when they're not. I don't expect a connection with every provider I see, but the attempts to get repeat business by being fake will not only not get me to come back, but will leave me with a bad taste about the provider. End of rant.
Be into me during our session. Almost as in truly, madly, deeply. Be sincere about your feelings. If you dont find me to be your type that's cool, I won't be upset. Tell me what YOU like during a session too. Lastly, more dirty talk lol
D.
..and the one that was not so great was due to a provider being 'gay for pay' and not really giving 100%. Learned a lesson from that session and won't make that mistake again.
Every time I get my pay check, I say: Whoopee! Hobby, here I come
The best sessions I've ever had made me feel like it wasn't strictly business.
That's the best advice I can give...make it an experience he will remember as solely his
Sincerity. I'm one of those odd guys who isn't going:
1. Eat her. check.
2. Blow me. check.
3. Fuck her. 4 positions. check.
4. Pull out and cum on her (fill in the blank). check.
What I want is much harder. Some chatting, not too much unless we hit it off and let the client set the pace for how much conversation there is. If you enjoy the sex, let him know. If you don't, ask him what HE wants and try to do it enthusiastically or at least professionally. Between rounds, chat a bit more, more intimately than at the start. Reveal something about yourself, either true (and it can be something innocuous) or made up, but truth is better(!) so try to think of something you're willing to share. You might be amazed how (some at least) men will respond to that.
Clients aren't all handsome, well hung or particularly good in the sack. So, try to find something to like about all of them.
In return, I (kinda, sorta) do BFE. I care if a woman enjoys her time with me. I bring little gifts. I arrive on time, and---much more important---I LEAVE on time. I'm groomed and clean, if we have a meal before the private time, I bring a toothbrush and use it before we're in bed. Etc.
To sum it up simply, if you treat me as a person you enjoy being with I'll do the same. This may be a "transactional relationship", but so what? We can be respectful, friendly and still do some very hot fucking for money.
This won't make every encounter better, but will help a lot of them!
have been very GF like... they must have kept trackof time & been excellant time mangrers but I was never aware.
We kissed, we cuddled, skin to skin & just had a great time. Never rushed.
In one case, I hadn't cum yet & mentioned maybe booking longer in the future... she said not to bother... she finishes what she starts... and did. I guess that's the one thing. And it's only possibe because she does not book too close together.
The best providers for me:
1. Like what they do or make me think they do
2. Turn off their phone during our session, not being a clock watcher, not rushing
3. Avoid starting the session with lots of rules (I think its very fair to mention the rules, I just think it would have been better had they not started it that way)
4. GFE (i.e., kissing)
5. Presented their environment and themselves in a professional manner (i.e., their place is clean, their body smells good)
6. Were understanding of my initial awkwardness and naivety (for example, I was once or twice unsure of how to communicate what I wanted. A great provider showed understanding and patience. Another poor provider acted upset and impatient).
7. Are sincerely complimentary (my ATF would continually find something about my personality, not my looks or performance, that made me feel like she cared about me personally)
Yeah man.
A couple providers I saw didn't silence their phone, and their phone was blowing up with "ding ding ding ding..."
Really annoying and kills the mood.
I asked one of them to put it on silent.
And yeah, platonic kisses suck. Some kiss like I have cooties.
2. Turn off their phone during our session, not being a clock watcher, not rushing
4. GFE (i.e., kissing)
It's impossible to issue a blanket statement. Personally, the one thing I like above all is clothing preference...in my case, lack thereof. I prefer her as nature intended. Most ladies will do so if you ask, but you may need to say that to them.
....the women I've been with,only get better when I get better...