If this thing with your family member, is freaking you out.
There is a meet and greet in your town, you're excited to go, the day arrives and you're there being your best self. You turn around to see...
Your father/daughter there as a client/provider.
What would you do?
This could also be your sister/brother, aunt/uncle, niece/nephew
I suppose you mean that you see a close family member that has no idea you are a hooker/john and you had no prior knowledge they were a hooker/john. I can't really imagine that happening to me as just about everyone in my life knows I am a whoremonger, so it's VERY unlikely that I am going to get surprised someday.
I would initiate conversation ! Who is hiding from who at this point ? (Lot's of hypothetical's here but whatever...!!) Anyone ever have this actually happen ? Specifically a family member ?
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Awful....LOL
Funny answer and you know that I know that you ain't no guy.
I just did that for GaGa's reading pleasure ... lol
go with it.
Laugh, say hello, chat a bit and enjoy the party.
What If ??? What If ??? Is that all? What If ? Come on folks-let's get something real going on this !! No more "What If's"! As Coach Ditka said: "If If's and But's Were Candy and Nuts We'd All Have A Merry Christmas"!!
You could always post something yourself if you don't like this thread... Just a thought.
Okay-what were you seeking in terms of responses ? Just "What If's", or "Real Stuff" ? Just Askin' !
Anything. Idk what people will say until they say it. I thought of something and posted to see what others thought...
"This is not the monger you are looking for."
If this thing with your family member, is freaking you out.
So why worry about it?
You both found out at the party and just have a good laugh.
Then move on and enjoy yourselves.
He is acting like most men, enjoying their sex life with different woman.
Your father/daughter there as a client/provider.
What would you do?
This could also be your sister/brother, aunt/uncle, niece/nephew
I'm definitely cutting back her allowance!
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Well......Is she good lookin' ??? If so-----hard not to look into scheduling a session-after all-we know the blood line !!!! Just Sayin' !!
I don't have a daughter, but I have had occasional father-daughter incest fantasies.
That was the most scary part of the movie when I was a kid!!
....and this scenario would be the scariest thing I can think of as an adult! ACK!!!!!
.... and no one would be surprised?
Oh hi hon, did you finish your homework?
Have you done a double with two guys? Two girls?
Need a ride home or busy afterward? Can I watch?
I won't go on ... I get the drift, but you're all acting too cool for school. IMHO.
And if it's your wife ... uh, hon, can you pick up some milk on the way home and oh, do you have a few FCs on you?
Not that it'll change anything ... lol
I would tell her that her mother was worried about her, so I turned on her phone tracker so that I could find out what she was up to, and they wouldn't let me come in without a name tag.
If is anyone else I know, I would say that this is a little embarrassing, but I had ta take this part time job in the evenings as hotel security. For this event, they want me to mingle like one of the other guests rather than look like security because LE-types are a turn-off for these people.
say it would work, I just said that is what I would do. Lol
then treat her like LET and say nothink.... lol
My dad died decades ago, so I guess I would be surprised, but if he were still alive and I saw him at a meet and greet I would watch him at work being charming.
He and my mother had nothing like a sex life, but he was active literally till the end. He had strings of girl friends that were more in a sugar daddy arrangement I think. Every contact with a female was a chance for him to go to work on his line of patter.
He was 78 years old and dying of cancer. He had faded away to a shadow of a person. I would take turns with my wife and my mother and a paid attendant staying with him so he was not alone. I walked in for my "shift" and he told me to get lost for a couple of hours. I pressed him about the reason and he finally said:"I'm going to try for one last blow job before I die." I looked at this jaundiced shadow of a person and left.
I got back in a couple of hours and asked him how it went. He smiled and said: You'll never know how good that was."
He died 36 hours later. A great role model.
I, on the other hand, would be a bit shocked...and would pull her aside to ask her a few questions about her screening, which sites she's on, does she have a mentor, etc.
My Mother has passed, I am an only child (that is most likely of no surprise to anyone who has been in here for some time).
That leaves just my Dad, I'd be proud of the old man, and go mingle with him.
While we are on the subject of M&G's, I can't understand why some folks are still so reserved at a M&G. The guys and gals who are hobbyists must all be screened and the providers are, well providers. Let loose a little people, you are amongst friends or at the very least friendlies.
at a m&g 2 years ago, I saw a guy I knew from a Wine Tasting group ... nice enough guy. I grabbed a drink and in that time, he vanished.
Like I didn't see him? Took him a while to even say hello in public.
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Years ago at an M&G, there was another hobbyist there who I worked with at the same company, and we both laughed it off. He was friends with my ATF, and me with his. We could have destroyed each other professionally and personally, but there was no need to. What would I do? Probably the same thing...
Honestly, once the shock wore off, I think we'd laugh it off. I mean, what are they going to do out me? Because in doing so they'd out themselves. Although I bet most of my family would be so shocked, haha
To me it isn't that deep to go into shock. I am going to mingle, maybe say a word or two to them but I came to "meet and greet" and will talk about it later if they wish to talk about it.