but there is an even more important, and somewhat ineffable quality,  namely the right attitude and personality I seek.  I believe this quality comes across in the gal's website, and more importantly, her comportment on the boards, which is how I often gain interest in the gal in question.

I look for women who are similar in beauty to the ones who pursue me in real life.  Then I look at services, reviews, and whatever else will tell me about her personality and business ethic.  I also aim for rates that are slightly under average for my market.  So, I will not be ripped off by some $1,000 ditzy blonde who's not even worth $50.

She better be part of a major law firm representing me in a capital murder trial. A thousand bucks an hour to fuck??? No thank you, no matter how hot or what kind of services she offers. It simply isn't worth it to me. I don't begrudge women for asking whatever the market can bear, just count me out where it comes to the HDH's

To answer your OP however, Looks come first, if she is not attractive to me, I won't be seeing her if she can suck the chrome off of a trailer hitch at $75 hour. Once I have found someone who is attractive to me it's a tie whether I look at her menu/reviews or her price, if she is lacking in either regard, IOW no GFE or charges over $400 hour in my local Dallas market, I move on to the next woman that I find attractive.

every area has it's market based GFE price range....anything outside of this range usually offers things the others don't.

but SERVICE is the name of the game. I've been with less attractive (being nice) that have rocked my world and gorgeous women  (Mt ex) that were cold fish. You guess what I'd pick if they were the last two women in the world.

I think you're being a bit 2cute with your posts lately. 🙄

...so my selection then becomes based on services offered, and above all her genuine bisexuality.  

I don't begrudge a provider asking for $1K an hour if she wants to. There are several very female-friendly providers that I'd love to see but their price is steep. Maybe one day.

 
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First filter .... Is she hot?

Second filter ... Does she have the menu I want?

Last filter ... Is she has my menu of services, how much money do her looks justify?

I know this is not what some providers want to hear. Looks peak my interest and cause me to examine the reviews. If the reviews have all the menu items I seek, I will then see if her looks justify the price.  At stage 3, it is all about the looks for me and that determines the price I will pay.  

I have learned not to waste my money if the menu sucks. I can go to a high end strip club to look at a super model, without service, much cheaper. But, you can have the best menu on the planet and 10s for performance, but I will pay a premium for what I cannot get in civilian life... a super model.  

When I first started is was looks. Then it became service. Now, with some more income and experience, I require both.

I look for value at a reasonable price with an athletic natural body most of the time who has above average scores. Don't always go for that as this hobby has taught me many different things about what I like. I can afford anyone but refuse to pay big money on a women who isn't going to offer x or y service at a grand an hour. A women who charges a grand an hour and doesn't kiss or do anal isn't worth a grand but that's my opinion yet someone who does everything who charges 300 might be worth 600 which is the type of provider I look for .  

...I have a few services I require. Without those I'm not seeing her no matter what. There must be kissing. LFK minimum. There must be bbbj. There must be intercourse, covered. Like mrfisher said I want good looks but quality of service is more important than looks.

w/o divulging details, a woman who charged sky high rates saw me at a reduced rate once... and she wasnt' even worth the reduced rate!  she was not bad, but nothing special, nothing i couldn't get for half the price of the reduced rate i paid.

saw a couple other higher priced women, always thinking that since the price was high the service would be high.  in most cases the service, including looks, were average (and one case the service was down right poor).  i will give them credit, all the services you have mentioned were on the table, so no problem there (plus i am not into anal so that's never a question or a problem).

there is one lady i have seen recently, touring from new york, who had a slightly above market rate.  she was awesome and among the top 5 girls i ever was with.  she recently sent out an email stating that she raised her rates and was no longer grandfathering clients, everyone must pay new rates.  i broke my long-standing rule of walking away from non-grandfathered rates, and will see her again at the new rate.  because she is just that damn awesome, in the top 10 of nyc.  plus she's great people as well.

so it's a case by case basis, however in my experience higher rates usually only reflect the high esteem the girl holds herself in, and not any increase in service or attitude.

I definitely prefer performance over looks!

Earlier last summer I saw a provider who was tall, slender, fantastic body and just overall attractive but her services did  
NOT match donation.  Her rules were everything covered, no kissing, and no touching inside

But they are not of equal of importance.

First is not service nor looks, it is professionalism. I don't have time enough to waist and I demand all those I pay respect my time and effort. I also expect discretion as in what id found out in a session stays there as long as everyone is safe and respectful at least. This is more important then looks, menu, price, skill, or personality.  And ladies it is a two way street with me. I will not waste your time nor share anything you wish not shared. At least if your respectful and safe. I will report ripoffs and the like.

Second thing is personality. It is vital to me. I want someone I can talk to and enjoy my time with not just bed. Sometimes I just don't work and sex is not going to happen. So in order to have fun if the fun I came for is off the table I need to like the lady. It is only second to professionalism in my book of importance.  

Third is looks. If I don't find you at least somewhat attractive, I likely will never look to book. I am not necessarily looking for tens but at least a seven. I am attracted to all kinds of woman. women my senor, women 20 years my junior. thin women to heavy set. But I have to be attracted to them. I don't seem to have a type.  

Last thing I look for is skill. not all roles in the hay are equal. I mean who like a damn toothy BJ? Massage skills are important.  I can be hard to get off and a woman with good skills can get it done a woman who is just eye candy, not so much.

Menu, and price are minor. $100 to $2000 is much the same to me, though I do have the best luck in the $200 to $500 range.  I love BDSM sessions as much as GFE. I don't do anal. You can't pay me enough. Outside of stuffing the envelope I don't really care about the price. I have seen $100 ladies, and I have imported ladies that cost me thousands. My expectations are the same regardless.

I think most guys and ladies have a general idea of what most would accept as "decent" look but after that point, it becomes very subjective based on individual's taste.  I don't pay because someone supposedly looks like "Miss America" or "Miss Universe".  Hell, I don't even typically care to see ladies that would be in that age range. I pay for great service, excellent attitude, and super good hygiene.  That's the value proposition for me.  Since we are on this subject, I think the numeric rating system is the biggest bunch of BS ever created. Just my opinion.  As an example what the hell does "Once in a Life Time" mean?  My once in a life time experience as for as appearance and performance is probably very different from most unless we've done some type of calibration on our experiences, likes, and dislikes.  I'm typically just as suspicious of someone with all perfect scores and I am with someone with low scores.  Thank God for back channel.

...I'm looking for someone who attracts me and I think that we'll enjoy each other BCD.  

Over the years, I've kind of learned how to do this without a lot of fuss.

First, I scan P411 for women who are visually attractive to me. I look at their profile and immediately know if they are in my budget and fit certain other things that I've learned indicate a good match.  

Then I'll check their profile on TER, skimming a couple of reviews. I also quickly skim their website. Then send an appointment request or move on to the next gal on P411.  

I've also developed friendships with several ladies and try to see them whenever either they are in town or I'm in their city.  

This is just what works for me.

I'm not talking safety risk, but if I'm paying for great looks (which is big for me) am I sure her pics are accurate. Despite being disappointed a few times, I've never had the nerve to just walk away from a provider who's looks didn't live up to my expectation.

I might risk 300-400 on a provider with only a few reviews and blurred/airbrushed pics, but might go twice that if her pics were not blurred and included unretouched selfies.

Bottom line, looks are the bait for me. Services offered (including performance reviews to an extent) sets the hook, and my judgement of the reliability of those two items determines how much effort and $$$$ I'm willing to invest.  

Back to my safety comment, assuming I am confident she's not LE or a ROB, I'll also pay more for a nicer incall whether it's a nice private residence or 4-5 star hotel. Cheap hotels are a deal killer. I might even spring for an extra donation for decent hotel rather than meeting at her home/apartment in a not-so-nice neighborhood, or even offer more to an outcall-only girl if she can make the hotel arrangements.

I would prefer balance.  I personally would not pay $1,000 for 60 minutes without sensual acts such as kissing with tongue, etc.  Even if porn stars such as Crystal Wilder or Christy Canyon were available.

of looks, services provided and price. What makes me repeat regularly are personality and performance. Drop the Mic.

I prefer to stay in house, with my Circle of Friends.  We stay in contact, and know when and where to meet if things are right.  As for adventuring outside the box, I have found that M&G's work best in meeting new ladies to see.  But that's just what worked for me for the past decade.  The few times I've had to play conventionally...hits at almost 1.000.   It isn't that hard...listen to what the ladies tell you regarding screening, and cooperate with them.

Not just the services listed, but will she provide that experience where the two (or three) of us get totally lost in each other for the two or more hours, where nothing else in the world matters. Quiet music in the background, soft lighting, no phones, nothing else but me and her. Total focus on each other and the pleasures that two (or three) people can explore together.  I don't always find it, but when I do, it is wonderful. For both of us.

Price, services and looks. I will take less services if the woman is gorgeous or is of a certain ethnic background, and charging a fair price. All of the women I have been with in the hobby have been 8+ in looks. Some offered more services than I could imagine, which meant they offered the services I wanted with a little more, while others offered just a GFE with French Kissing and BBBJ.